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Quick Tips To Enjoy Anal Sex

I absolutely love Anal sex; it is one of my favorite things sexually. I think many still feel it is taboo and it can get a bad rap.

First Anal Sex Experience

My first anal experience was with my second husband; I was in my late twenties. We had a little bit of tequila and decided to try it. Lol. It was not painful due to the tequila and I was surprised how much I liked it.

An Amazing Feeling

My first time was not painful but a few times after the initial, I needed to ease myself into it. To me anal sex kinda feels like when you are in doggy style vaginally and the guy gets really deep. That is so amazing. It is better than that for anal.

Why Should Every Lady Try It

I think every woman should try it at least twice. You will never know if you don’t like it unless you try it. Life is too short! Experience fun!!

The Preparation

For anal sex, make sure you have lube. Many online adult stores or maybe your local adult shop will have anal toys. Practice with toys on yourself to get use to it. Small toys and you can work yourself up to whatever size you prefer. Start slow and just remember to be comfortable.

Favorite Positions

My favorite anal positions are doggy style, prone, missionary with legs on guys shoulders and anal in a sex swing is very fun FYI.

Make It Hotter

Once you get the swing of anal, the best is to have a guy use a dildo on you in your vagina while he is performing anal. You are getting double penetrated and it is hot!!!

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December 28, 2015
Be A Tease And Turn Him On

Sex is awesome, to put it simply. I never really got into my sexuality until just recently, and I thought to myself “I’ve been missing so much this whole time!” I mean, what’s not to love? Between the different positions, outfits and places you can experience this pleasure, there is literally nothing not awesome about anything sexual.

Why I Love Being A Tease

I’ve been known as the tease for as long as I can remember. There’s just something about being flirtatious and sensual that really turns me on, because it’s so hot knowing I have the upper hand.

Teasing turns men on because men are naturally drawn to something they feel like they can’t have. So, when you tease it’s like showing the man that maybe they can have you but maybe they can’t. They’re drawn to this chase.

What I Wear

Honestly, I don’t usually get too dressed up in elaborate lingerie when I striptease for a man. Sometimes I’ll wear a short skirt without underwear and a short crop top that shows underboob, and there are other times where I’ll wear little boyshorts and a loose fitting cami that I can play around with. It’s all about the tease. It’s about playing the game.

Also, I’ve come to find that most guys prefer the “All American Girl” look.

Strip To The Music

Usually, I like to play certain music when I strip. Something that’s fun to dance to, but also sexual.

For example, I love to move to The Weeknd because they produce music that everyone wants to have sex to. I bite my lip a lot and make lots of eye contact, but in the actual strip tease itself, there’s not a lot of dirty talk that actually goes on. Before and after, sure! You know, I make sure I call the guys’ baby or babe before I start dancing though for sure.

Even saying their name if they tell you their name. That’s hot.

Flaunt Your Body!

There’s not really a way you can move that won’t keep a guy interested, as long as you at least know what you’re doing a little bit. I’m personally known for having a great butt, so I flaunt that aspect. I move it, shake it, and slap it.

Guys LOVE a girls’ behind… It’s like kryptonite.

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December 18, 2015
How To Have An Awesome MFF Threesome

I’m an extremely sexual person, always have been one so no surprise that I started my career in the adult industry from my early adult days and have continue doing it for the last 12 years successfully. I have no limits nor rules in my sex life whatsoever, everything goes as long as both parties agree of course. Threesomes – no exception of course. I think that’s where more sexual exploring starts from the threesomes, just to add an extra person, that bit of spice isn’t? It’s great, because that third person brings excitement, different feelings, energy to the whole play game. I personally, would always choose to have a threesome over a standard twosome sex.

Why I Love Threesomes

MFF threesomes from men’s perspective is very appealing, as two women making out in front of a man has always been a very big turn on for all men for ages! I guess the sensuality that women have, the touches, and of course the double pair of women’s best assets! And just imagine everything double is better!

Give Him The Ultimate Blowjob

Oh yes! Sharing is caring! Lots of space down there for two tongues for sure! Never neglect the balls while your partner is working her way up and down that lollypop! Or if you are even more open minded, there is a very sensitive part just a bit further away the balls! Yes, men love rimming! Don’t be surprise if he’s gonna suddenly spill his beans out a bit sooner than expected! Power of those two tongues at the right places! 🙂

Favorite Threesome Positions

When all three partners have pleasure at the same time and are connected at the same time.

It could be the “train” position; all in doggy style or just cowgirl for one and facesitting for another and both females touching each other while being penetrated by a man at the same time!

Equal Play For All

Don’t wait for your turn! Just join in, share everything and keep switching in between. Be spontaneous and find empty spots to work on! 🙂

Great Locations For Threesomes

Anywhere you feel you want to have sex, as location doesn’t matter really when there is an urge! Some adult VIP clubs could be a source to find that extra partner for your threesome or it could just be your best friend that never dared to ask her to join in!

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December 11, 2015
5 Ways to Spice up Sex!
Every relationship hits that rut where sex becomes routine and you perform like you’re on autopilot. Gone is the frenetic love making that used to be where clothes would be ripped off and sex would happen spontaneously. Nowadays, you’re having sex every Sunday or, God forbid, every first Friday of the month. The opportunities are fewer and farther in between. You love your husband, boyfriend, or long-time lover and couldn’t imagine a life without this person, but the bedroom antics have gotten stale and predictable. It’s time to jazz it up, add some spice, and bring back sexy in your relationship. Follow one, or all, of the suggestions below and you’ll be glowing in no time:
1. Make homemade fun and creative coupons that can be earned and redeemed by your lover. For instance, if he does something sweet or accomplishes a task hand him a coupon that offers an, “30 minute full body massage”, “sex anywhere he wants”, or “the ultimate blowjob.” This will add spontaneity into your sex life that was previously lacking.
2. Invest in some sexy lingerie. It’s a known fact that men are visual creatures and are easily stimulated by what they see. Put your nappy sweatpants and stained college t-shirt in the hamper for the night and out of sight. Instead, couch your breasts in a lacy ensemble leaving nothing to the imagination. The element of surprise as you walk into the bedroom will add some cinnamon to your vanilla lifestyle.
3. Pick up the Kamasutra and learn some new, sexy positions to introduce into the love play. Trust me, there’s more than just your commonplace missionary, doggy style, or reverse cowgirl. I’ve tried a few and discovered new ways to climax with my partner. My personal favorite positions learned from the bible of sex is the Rowing Boat and the Star. Check it out and I guarantee it will be like having sex for the first time with your lover.
4. Introduce some adult toys. Using a dildo on yourself also works as great foreplay for all the heavy stuff as your man sits back and watches as you pleasure yourself, before he takes over. A little buzzing from a vibrator can titillate you and your man and can be used while having sex with some simulation to the clitoris.
5. The couple that porns together, stays together. Pick up a sexy adult DVD to watch with your lover. This is 110% guaranteed to spice up your sex life to another stratosphere and it’s a surefire way to get out of a rut. There is a wide selection of porn for couples, so go ahead and pick a few. You won’t regret it. The only thing you may regret is not doing this sooner.
These five easy tips will add the perfect ingredient to your stagnant love life. Whether you’re following one suggestion or several or all at one time, this will create the much needed momentum, excitement, and creativity into your bedroom.

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November 20, 2015
10 Signs of Great Sex
Every sexual encounter is different. There’s the guy you slept with that you wish you could delete from your memory bank. Everything about it was just wrong or just straight out icky for reasons that we don’t need to rehash. There’s also the one dude who was so boring in bed all you did was go through a list of chores you still needed to do after this chore was completed. Then there’s the one man you just rocked your world and made you feel like a sexual vixen, a sex aficionado, a pseudo-porn star. Here are 10 signs that show you’re having awesome sex just in case you were wondering:
1. You’re completely uninhibited and free from any reservations. You are confident with yourself, in your own skin, and you own that body like Beyonce with a pure lack of any insecurity. You’re working that booty, happily bouncing your tits and having fun with it. You feel like the sexiest woman on earth while you’re in the throes of passion, having sex with the lights on with all your imperfections (stretch marks, cellulite, pouches be damned) in sight.
2. You are open and willing to try new sexual positions. Reverse cowgirl? No problem! Saddle me up! Doggie style? Give me that bone! 69? Well, that’s my favorite number! Great sex means getting out of your comfort zone and losing up your inhibitions, not to mention how limber and bendy you get trying it all out.
3. You’re vocal about what you want or don’t want in bed. “Eat me now!” is not an unheard of phrase from you while you’re in the sack and neither is, “You want to put what where!?”, but because you’re having mind-blowing sex you may be willing to let him. Just make sure you grab the lube.
4. After sex, you text your friends with, “I’ve just had some bomb ass sex.” with a multitude of emoticons to fully convey just how good it was. You only wish you were ballsy enough to post it on social media (if only your parents weren’t your friends on Facebook), so the world would know you just got yours.
5. When you’re having great sex, let’s fact it, you walk around with a smug, shit eating grin all day long because you’re night of passion keeps replaying in your mind in a loop. So when you see someone walking around with a shit eating grin that matches yours, feel free to give ‘em a high five and a wink.
6. You’re lying in bed feeling horny, but instead of waiting for your horniness to subside you casually slip your hand down to your already moist nether region and masturbate using a vivid memory from your last ohh la la romp in the sack to pleasure yourself. It’s too hard to wait until the next time sexual encounter, so let’s daydream about the last time. It was that good.
7. You’re sweating like you just took a spin class or ran a 5K. Instead, you skipped the gym that morning and took a good 40-minute spin around his penis. A sweaty aftermath means a good enthusiastic partnership in bed.
8. You have a bird’s nest on your head. A hot passionate bout of sex normally means you’re left with a tangled mass of hair on your head from all the twisting, turning, shifting, and Cirque du Soleil acrobatics.
9. Your tongue gets serious action, too, and not during fellatio. Instead when the sexual chemistry is high, then there’s a lot of passionate kissing involved because you can’t get enough of his taste and want to devour him whole.
10. The orgasm no longer becomes the primary goal of every sexual encounter. Gasp! Stop the presses! Some may find this difficult to believe, but the bonding and intimacy with your partner is enough to make you feel complete afterwards even sans an earth shattering orgasm. Your aura will emit the I-just-had-awesome-sex illuminating glow that every woman wishes to achieve.
If you can relate to any, or all, the signs highlighted above, then this simply means the chemistry is high, the compatibility is unparalleled, and Wednesday isn’t the only hump day in your week. Enjoy this rare find because not everyone is out there having the kind of sex you are. Chances are you had to go through some major duds to finally find the firecracker you needed to ignite the sexual goddess within you. Keep it up ladies (and gents) and happy sexing!

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November 9, 2015
Sex tips for Bottoms

My personal views on bottoming has two sides …the personal …. and the professional. Bottoming is not always easy and when working in the porn industry, we don’t always get to choose the time and hour we feel comfortable to have a cock inside us…ouch.

But the secret is in being prepared…..and by that I mean a good DOUBLE DOUCHE with about 45 minutes in-between. The other secret is having a GOOD top, get these right and you’re away.

Challenges faced by the bottom during sex

There are a few challenges faced during anal sex. Firstly, is being completely clean so that you are confident enough to really go for it without any little disasters. Again, this goes back to double douches which solves this problem.

Find the position that you find easiest for penetration. I prefer to be on my back or sometimes sit on it then I can be in control.

DOGGY STYLE – I find that is is the most painful, for me anyway. So I leave it to him to get warmed up and well into it before getting on all fours..

Some tips to bottom without pain

The pain is a problem. Unless you are getting fucked everyday all the time, then the muscle relaxes and it becomes easier the more you have. However, if it’s a less frequent part of the sex life, find your safe position and then once it is inside, slowly of course, leave it there for a good few minutes and let the muscle relax. Start slow and save the porn star antics for later in the session, and then you’re away.

You can also use toys to warm you up at the start with a small dildo and work up to your fellas thang.

Some recommended positions

Position wise I think it may be a personal thing, but on your backside and sitting is my most comfortable. And doggy is my most painful, but the most dirty and fun one too…

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September 10, 2015
These Apps will spice up your Sex Life

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August 5, 2015
4 Masturbation Tips To Try Tonight

Most experts will tell you that masturbation is an essential part of a healthy sex life. In my opinion, getting yourself off can be just as hot as sex with a partner. I like to think of masturbation as sex with myself. After all, who knows my body better than me? I know just the way I like to be touched and it’s an enthralling experience to focus on nothing but my own pleasure.

Not only does masturbating feel very good, but it also supplies a sexual release and I believe it has other benefits as well. First off, I think it can make you a better lover. When you masturbate you get to know your body better, which improves your sexual experiences in so many ways. Regular self-relief also allows the male to last longer, which allows more time for his partner to achieve climax. Studies show that regular masturbation offers health benefits as well. It’s a great stress reliever, boosts mood by releasing neurochemicals, and strengthens your pelvic wall, which helps prevent incontinence and erectile dysfunction.

Now that we’ve reviewed all the reasons you should be masturbating, let’s go over some ways to improve on your overall masturbation experience:

1. Set The Mood
Before I even pull down my panties, I like to get my mind in it. I turn down the lights and get nice and comfy. I often like to start out by reliving in my head, hot sexual experiences I’ve had or imagine sexual fantasies I’d like to explore in order to get myself going. This is a great opportunity to really let your imagination go wild. Another great option is watching some good old-fashioned porno to get those juices flowing. This is an especially good alternative for men who tend to be more visual than women.

2. Tease Yourself
My best orgasms come from an unhurried build. I like to start out nice and slow. I don’t go straight for the vajayjay. I like to massage my breasts, knead my thighs, and softly touch my arms and neck. When I finally do reach my clit, I tease myself and build up the intensity and then pull back. I build it up and pull back over and over until I erupt. It’s a busy world we live in so this approach is not always possible, but if you have the time the slow build is worth the wait!

3. Sex Toys
I strongly suggest experimenting with different sex toys. My personal favorite is the magic wand or back massager. I wear myself out on a regular basis having orgasm after mind-blowing orgasm with mine. I also suggest the rabbit. It’s a dildo that can rotate and has an attached clitoris massager. You control the intensity and rotation to suit your needs. Another great choice is a Sybian. I did a few videos with one of these and they are amazing! It’s like a little platform that you mount and it vibrates for great clitoral stimulation. You control the intensity and it comes with various attachments, so you can change up the penetration.

Toys aren’t just for the ladies either. I know many men who enjoy a little anal stimulation with a butt plug or like having their balls massaged by a vibrator. Lots of men have also experienced great pleasure with devices like Fleshlight. There are endless options when it comes to sex toys and everyone’s body is different, so you are really the best judge of what sex toys will be enjoyable to you, and which ones wont. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try new things.

4. Get Professional Help
Often times, masturbating alone just wont cut it! If you’re really looking to intensify your self-sex experience I highly recommend exploring the world of web camming. Man or woman, gay or straight there are a variety of performers of various ages, races, body types and genders who can act out your specific fantasy and help get you off.

Another good option is phone sex if you enjoy talking dirty or being talked dirty to.

Use one of my tips or pick your own. Be creative and explore what makes you feel sexy and ultimately pleasured.

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October 24, 2014
3 Tips to be a Sex Pro

Sex can be a very confusing but wonderful thing if you know what you are doing. Here I have compiled a list of tips to make you successful in the bedroom. These 3 simple easy steps can turn you from an average joe into a sex pro!

1. Learn the human anatomy. Males and females all have erogenous zones. These zones are places you want to touch to increase pleasure to your partner. Learning all these areas can help decrease tension and increase arousal. These zones are located all over a person’s body, some in plain sight such as the neck, and some in hidden areas like the clitoris under the clitoral hood. Foreplay is the foundation for an orgasm. Sometimes excitement makes you want to just jump right into it, but foreplay and a little bit of teasing goes a long way.

2. Communication. Knowing all these erogenous zones would be nothing without knowing how to communicate with your partner. Everyone has a preference on how they like certain things. Some people have sensitive organs and some people don’t. Some people prefer rough sex and some people prefer soft (vanilla) sex. It is all dependent on that person and without communicating, things can get lost in translation and a good time can become a not so amazing experience.

3. Experiment. You would be surprised what kind of niches/fetishes you may be into. Without experimenting, you will never know what it is like to try something new. Be open minded and have fun. Spicing things up can be a breathe of fresh air sometimes.

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September 28, 2014
How to Indulge in Anal Sex

Anal sex is probably the most taboo sex act of all. Often feared, most of the time misunderstood, it remains a rather uncommon practice, although it can lead to great pleasures.

It usually takes a while before a couple even starts talking about sodomy. Most of the time, the topic is opened by guys rather than girls. Why? Because they watch more porn than us and they see it often there, and also because it is naturally tighter than our vagina, thus making it more pleasurable for them. Girls usually agree to it either to please their partner (or on a special occasion), or as a token to bargain something else (often as a way to trade sodomy for cunnilingus, or a nice gift).

Unless you have friends in the gay community, very little is known about anal sex. The first time that I had it was a horrible experience, because my partner was absolutely not knowledgeable about it and he just rammed into it like he would have done with my pussy, which is totally wrong. After this first painful experience, I decided to take things in hands and to become an expert in the subject, putting in practice the knowledge I gathered here and there, and eventually writing a sex guide about anal sex “Anal Sex Tips for Guys and Girls”, available on Amazon and other major bookstores).

Recently, a close friend opened the subject to me, as her partner was pressing her to try it. She had very interesting questions, so I decided to share them with you guys (and girls) and hope that it will help you better understand anal penetration.

Question 1. Is it painful?

Angelicka: The first time, it was hell. My partner was very big, and he had no experience about sex in the butt. The other thing was my lack of relaxation. You really need to relax, breathe deeply, and slightly push as if you wanted to poo. You should prepare yourself first, and there are quite a few tips that can really help you making it a pleasant experience, even for the first timers. Don’t hesitate to use sex toys to prepare your orifice as well.

Question 2. Why did you do it in the first place?

Angelicka: I wanted to try because some of my girlfriends tried it before and loved it. It is also a way to get thrilled by doing something taboo and forbidden. Plus it makes me feel really dominated and at the mercy of my partner, which is extremely exciting.

Question 3. Who talked about it first? You or your partner?

Angelicka: Him. But I was very willing to try it and it kind of relieved me when he talked about it; I just didn’t want to sound like a dirty lil’ slut, if you see what I mean. But also to be sure that if I didn’t want it, it wouldn’t have happened, no matter how pushy men can be.

Question 4. The first time you tried, how did it feel?

Angelicka: Painful. First of all, his cock feels much bigger back there. The first part was kind of OK, when he inserted the head of his dick; there was some resistance first due to the fact I was not relaxed, but then I breathed and the head went in, as if my ass just gobbled it. I felt really filled but I must admit it was pleasant. I thought that was it, but he kept pushing it in, a bit too fast to my taste. Then there is a second muscle inside the anus, and this is where I felt pain. I wasn’t ready and not only it hurt, but i really felt like i was going to make a poo. His cock inside had exactly the same feeling. I had to tell him to stop and tried to breathe deeper, but couldn’t take it. We had to try a few times more before he could put it all in, and then it was kind of just OK.

Question 5. So after your first experience, did it keep on feeling the same?

Angelicka: As I started learning more and more about anal sex, the feeling drastically improved. It is not natural, so it takes a bit of learning and adjustment, but once you got it, it can be really delightful, and it is opening new sensations that you wouldn’t get through vaginal sex.

Question 6. How good can it feel?

Angelicka: Some love it, others just find it hardly bearable. It takes time and patience to learn about sodomy and enjoy it. It also depends on how big your partner is! As far as I am concerned, I just love it.

Read on to find out if you should go anal on the first date and the one thing you must do before going in!

August 4, 2014