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  • Is Penis Curvature Normal?

    Is Penis Curvature Normal?

    Wondering if your penis curvature is normal? Don’t worry. You’re not alone! Statistics show that up to 19% of all penises curve to one side or the other. While some may experience significant angulation or a curved penis shape that can be uncomfortable and painful during intercourse, others might be painless and asymptomatic.

    What is a Curved Penis?

    A curved penis is a condition in which the penis is bent or curved, usually to one side. This curvature can range from mild to severe and may be caused by an underlying medical condition such as Peyronie’s disease or congenital abnormalities. In some cases, the curvature may be associated with erectile dysfunction, pain during intercourse or difficulty with penetration [1].

    What are the Causes of a Curved Penis?

    Penile curvature, or Peyronie’s disease as it is sometimes known, is a condition where the penis bends abnormally during erection. There are several potential causes of this condition.

    The most common cause is a congenital defect present at birth due to an underlying structural problem with the penile tissues. This curvature may be more severe and involve other structures, such as the scrotum or testicles.

    Trauma during sex can also lead to penile curvature if the penis experiences excessive pressure or blunt force trauma [2]. It usually occurs if your partner is on top of you, your penis slips out, and they land on the erect penis. This can cause scarring and fibrous tissue buildup that results in a bent penis when erect. Finally, aggressive masturbation techniques may also cause penile curvature. If excessive force is applied to the penis, it can lead to scarring that causes the penis to bend when erect. It may also be associated with other conditions, such as chronic inflammation or infection of the penis.

    How Much Curvature is Normal?

    A certain degree of curvature in the penis is relatively common and usually not a cause for concern. Up to 19% of men are estimated to have some penile curvature. A normal penile curvature typically falls within 10 to 30 degrees. However, it’s important to note that the extent and direction of penile curvature can vary among individuals [3][4].

    On the other hand, some doctors suggest that your penis is normal if you or your partner are not facing any troubles during intercourse. 

    Can a Curved Penis Cause Problems During Sex?

    A curved penis can cause concerns during sexual intercourse, leading to an uncomfortable experience or even pain. The angle and curvature of the penis can make penetration difficult or impossible in certain sex positions. In contrast, other positions may be more comfortable but pose challenges for both partners.

    Additionally, friction caused by abnormal curvature can cause abrasion and discomfort for one or both partners. In extreme cases, the partner with the curved penis may experience difficulty ejaculating due to decreased stimulation on the glans (tip) of the penis.

    What are the Best Sex Positions if You have a Curved Penis?

    Sitting Straddle

    The Sitting Straddle position for a curved penis is a variation of the traditional Sitting Straddle sex position. In this version, both partners sit facing each other with their legs straddling either side of the penis. The angle and depth of penetration can be adjusted to suit the curvature of the penis, making it an ideal choice for those with a curved penis. This allows both partners to enjoy maximum pleasure from mutual thrusting and grinding motions. It also enables different levels of intimacy due to its close proximity, allowing couples to truly connect during sexual intercourse. This position is best suited for people who are comfortable being close together during sex and know how a curved penis works to get the most out of it.

    Doggy Style

    The Doggy Style sex position is popular for people with curved penises, as it allows for comfortable penetration and deep stimulation. The receiver stands on all fours while the giver positions themselves behind them, entering from behind.

    This angle can help guide a curved penis into the receiver’s body more naturally than other sex positions. When carrying out this position, both partners should be aware of how much pressure they’re applying and check in to ensure that everything is comfortable for both parties involved. With some communication and experimentation, this highly pleasurable position can be successful for those with curved penises.

    The T-Bone

    The T-Bone Sex Position is a great option for couples with curved penis. It allows the man to thrust deeper and is particularly beneficial if his partner has a G-spot that needs stimulating. To perform the T-Bone position, the woman should lie on her back with her legs slightly bent and feet together in a crossed “T” shape.

    The man should then enter her from behind, using shallow or deep strokes as desired. If either partner desires more stimulation, they can use their hands to provide added pressure or vibration. The main advantage of this sex position is that it allows the man to hit his partner’s G-spot easily because of his angled penis.

    Standing Straddle

    The Standing Straddle sex position is a great option for couples with a partner who has a curved penis. This position allows the receiver to control the depth and angle of penetration, giving them more control over their pleasure. The giver can support their partner’s hips or lower back as they thrust in a standing position.

    This can be an intimate and tender way to experience intimacy with a curved penis partner. It is also important that both partners communicate about the stimulation level and should experiment together until they find what works best for them.

    What are the Treatment Options for a Curved Penis?

    Treatment options for a curved penis vary depending on the severity and cause of the curvature. Mild cases may not require treatment, or they can be corrected with stretching techniques, tissue massage, and kegel exercises. Non-surgical methods are recommended in individuals with less than 30 degrees curvature in their penises [5]. In more severe cases, surgery may be recommended to correct the curve. Surgery usually involves releasing tight tissue in the penis that causes the curve or correcting any underlying conditions contributing to it.

    Penile implants can also straighten out a curved penis if other methods are unsuccessful. However, as mentioned above, treatment may not be necessary if you are not facing any troubles during sex.

    How Can Tanatly Dolls help Individuals with a Curved Penis?

    The design of these dolls is perfect for those with curved penises, as the body shape and texture of the doll can easily accommodate and support a penis that curves in any direction. These dolls are made from soft materials, which allow them to provide a more comfortable experience for those with curves or an unusual shape to their genitalia

    Additionally, the realistic feel of these dolls makes it easy to experience pleasure with a curved penis without worrying about discomfort or pain. Tantaly torso sex dolls can be a great options for people with curved penis who may not feel comfortable using other types of toys or partners.

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    1. Sandean DP, Lotfollahzadeh S. Peyronie Disease. StatPearls, Treasure Island (FL): StatPearls Publishing; 2023.
    2. Bjekic MD, Vlajinac HD, Sipetic SB, Marinkovic JM. Risk factors for Peyronie’s disease: a case-control study. BJU Int 2006;97:570–4. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1464-410X.2006.05969.x.
    3. Chung E, Gillman M, Rushton D, Love C, Katz D. Prevalence of penile curvature: a population-based cross-sectional study in metropolitan and rural cities in Australia. BJU Int 2018;122 Suppl 5:42–9. https://doi.org/10.1111/bju.14605.
    4. Walsh TJ, Hotaling JM, Lue TF, Smith JF. How curved is too curved? The severity of penile deformity may predict sexual disability among men with Peyronie’s disease. Int J Impot Res 2013;25:109–12. https://doi.org/10.1038/ijir.2012.48.
    5. Nehra A, Alterowitz R, Culkin DJ, Faraday MM, Hakim LS, Heidelbaugh JJ, et al. Peyronie’s Disease: AUA Guideline. J Urol 2015;194:745–53. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.juro.2015.05.098.
  • 7 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Penis

    7 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Penis

    There’s more to the penis than the long fleshy organ you see. For most males, it’s just an organ for excretion. Nevertheless, it’s also used to engage in sexual activities. However, there are other interesting things to know about your penis. Many men focus on the physical features of their penis—like size or length. 

    This article will tell you some facts you didn’t know about your penis.

    1. What Is A Penis Like? 

    The penis is a male organ made up of smooth muscles. The penis undergoes erection regularly to keep its shape and size. But how does erection occur? When blood flows into the penis to supply oxygen to the smooth muscles, erection happens. This is essential to prevent the penis from being less elastic. 

    Meanwhile, some men have PPP (Pearly Penile Papules), which is often hard to treat. A papule is a small, pimple-like protrusion on the skin, typically seen around the head of the penis. Having Pearly Penile Papules doesn’t affect your sexual libido or ability to get an erection. However, you can have your home treatments at PPP kit to remove them.

    Speaking of getting an erection, you don’t need to worry about not getting enough sexual stimulation. The brain helps to regularly maintain the functions of the penis even in the absence of sexual stimulation. When you sleep, your brain sends an impulse to the organ to induce an erection. 

    Therefore, using your penis makes it better. It stays healthy, in the right size and shape. Without erections, your penis would be about one to two centimeters shorter. However, when males have certain irregularities, it can prevent them from getting erections. These include diabetes which can lead to blood vessel damage or nerve damage.

    1. Your Penis Is Longer Than You Think

    Don’t feel too bad if you look at your penis and consider it too short, against your preference. They’re longer than you can see. It’s known that about half the whole length of your penis is kept inside your body. This is important in keeping your body’s anatomy in a normal and healthy form. So, your penis is longer than it looks. 

    If you think you have a short penis, you should take solace in that fact. If you have a long one, then you have more in store.

    1. Penis Size Does Not Affect Erection Size 

    You cannot completely conclude that the size of your penis determines the size of your erection. This is why you shouldn’t feel bad about the size of your penis. A small-looking penis might have big erections as much as a big-looking penis. 

    Some penises grow much longer during erection, while others don’t make much difference. Nevertheless, the size of your penis doesn’t tell how much erection you would have or how well you would enjoy sexual activities.

    1. Your Penis Is Not The Only Main Pleasure Zone

    It’s mostly believed that the tip of the penis and the underside of its shaft are the most sensitive parts, especially for sexual pleasure. However, other erotic sensitive areas include the nipples, anus, scrotum, neck, etc. However, this doesn’t change the fact the tip of the penis and the shaft often have the highest sensitivity.

    1. Penis Becomes Less Sensitive As You Age

    It has been discovered that as men grow older, their penis loses its sensitivity. This isn’t a one-time thing, as the sensitivity declines gradually. It’s hard to know the exact ratio it reduces as age increases. You can measure penile sensitivity as the lowest sensory threshold to which you can still feel the stimulation. 

    Studies say that penile sensitivity starts to decline right from age 25. It falls rapidly between ages 65 and 75. However, most people are more bothered about loss or difficulty in ejaculation than a decline in penile sensitivity.

    1. Your Shoe Size Has Got Nothing To Do With It

    You might have heard of the myth that there’s a relationship between your shoe size and penis length. Let it be known from now on that it’s not true. There’s no clear correlation between your shoe size and the length of your favorite organ. 

    For the sake of correlation, there’s a more significant relationship between your penis length and index finger length, age, and height. So, drop that myth and cut yourself some slack regarding your shoe size.

    1. Morning Erection

    Although the reason has not been fully discovered, erections usually happen about three to five times at night. One of the possible importance is that it helps to prevent bedwetting because an erection suppresses the urge to urinate. This might not be a complete explanation, though.

    Conclusion

    These are some of the things you may not know about your penis. Frequent erections help keep your penis in shape and the correct size. Also, the length or size of your penis doesn’t directly relate to how big your ejaculation is.

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  • How To Handle A Huge Penis

    How To Handle A Huge Penis

    I love sex and can’t get enough of it!

    What It’s Like Taking A Huge Penis

    At first it hurts. No dildos can prepare you for the real thing.

    Lube is SO important! We use all natural coconut oil.

    My Ideal Size

    Ten inches. I looooove big dicks.

    How Not To Feel Intimidated By The Size

    Just relax and breathe. I feel like the tip hurts the most, then once you’re in, you’re in!

    Blowjob Tips For A Huge Penis

    Whatever you do, do NOT try to fit it down your throat. You’ll probably scrape your teeth on his penis, and hurt him all because you’re trying out something that’s popular at the moment.

    Best Sexual Positions

    Doggy, and my favorite, missionary!

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  • Does Penis Size Matter?

    Does Penis Size Matter?

    Sex to me is a shared desire between people for a higher level of understanding of the self, the other, and the world. It is a beautiful space, where you can be exactly who you want to be, and share that intimately with another. A space to open yourself up to love, your natural vibration, be it physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual.  I really believe that the manifestation of love for everyone and everything is my purpose in life, hence my career in human rights. Love is who we are, how we were created, and what we are made of.

    Why Does Size Matter To Men

    I can only assume that it’s an insecurity thing. Which is totally understandable. I think this probably comes down to the unrealistic expectations perpetuated through a lot of porn (which is a whole topic in itself).

    Does Size Matter For Women

    I’m going to preface this answer by saying – for me personally it is less about length, and more about girth, but every woman is different. Generally, I don’t think size is the be all and end all. Of course, any woman would be lying if she said that a good sized, thick penis didn’t feel incredible, but sex, especially for women, is so much more than penetration. This in real stats, translates to 75% of all women, never reaching an orgasm from intercourse alone.

    I’ve actually found that guys with big dicks often put in way less effort than their slightly smaller counterparts, it’s almost like they wish they could say to you “I’ve got a big dick, isn’t that enough”. Well PSA to guys with big dicks, it’s most definitely not. If you don’t like giving women oral, and you don’t even attempt to find their clit, you lose. Oh and also, if you think that a woman giving you some direction, so that she can enjoy herself, is emasculating… get a grip.

    Tips To Enjoy A Small Penis

    I mean of course it feels different, as I’m sure you can imagine. But how it feels really depends on how a guy uses it. Sex for me is about passion and love. And when I say love I don’t mean nuclear family love. I think love comes in so many forms and I really believe that you should see every day and every sexual encounter, as an opportunity to manifest it.

    Even if you’re just having casual sex, it doesn’t mean you can’t love every moment with that other person, without traditionally ‘loving’ them. Being a sex worker has taught me that the ‘love’ two people can give each other, be it mentally or physically, can have a really big impact on the lives of both parties. That’s why I think ‘making love’ or should I say ‘manifesting love’, is so important to every sexual experience.

    Penis Turn-Offs For Me

    Honestly, the only turn off I have is bad hygiene or lack thereof. I think everyone has had an experience…or two, that involves you going down on a partner only to be faced with a distinctly unpleasant smell. Obviously, not every impromptu sexual encounter starts with a shower, but I think it’s just common courtesy to excuse yourself and quickly give your penis a rinse, before you expect someone to put it in their mouth. The same goes for vaginas!

    Also guys should be lucky, sinks are basically penis height…vaginas on the other hand, well they can’t even get close to the tap.  Also if a guy doesn’t manscape, at all, it can be a bit of a turn off. Now don’t get me wrong, I let all of my body hair grow out naturally, but I still lightly trim my pubic hair. I personally don’t want a big mouthful of hair while I’m trying to give oral.

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  • Can Sex Toys Replace The Penis?

    Can Sex Toys Replace The Penis?

    I’m a very open person and I feel like sex has been ostracized as a taboo topic when it’s really just a physical way of exploring what makes one feel good. I like to talk about it, do it, and am genuinely curious about trying new things. I feel like sex was such a taboo topic around my childhood home and when I finally experienced it I couldn’t get enough. I really grew into my own when a good friend of mine shared her openness about it and got me into trying new things to help please myself and my partners better.

    I wasn’t in the sex work industry until I was in my twenties, which gave me a few years to explore what I truly enjoyed about sex before deciding it was going to be more than a hobby for me. My first experience was with a high school sweetheart and thankfully he already had an idea of how things worked. I was like any sex driven, lust-filled teenager so naturally I had a very active sex life then and still do now. From this experience my views on sex had been very monogamous and that it was all about “the one” and that was all I needed.

    Then I moved onto University and found myself single and in dorms which had over 1000 students all my age and all just as much of sex lovers as I was. Let’s just say I was very active and enjoyed experiencing different men and sometimes more than one in the same night. I was what some may call a slut but really, I was just enjoying myself and everything sex had to offer. It was here that I initially found out that I enjoyed having a variety of partners and that not everyone was good in bed. I learned communication is key and telling someone what feels good or bad is the fastest way to improving your sex life. I further indulged my love of sex when I went off to backpack around the world for a few years. I enjoyed regular company of men and sometimes women and eventually came into the sex industry of my own accord.

    Through my experiences I learned that I love sex and everything about it. I love the anticipation of it to come, the excitement and sensuousness that builds inside you before, during and after, the way it makes you feel so extraordinarily horny, the way it pleases your partner just as much as yourself (when done right ?), the heavy breathing and pure ecstasy you feel after having an orgasm. Also, there’s nothing quite like having hot, messy, mind-blowing sex and just needing to fall asleep in each other’s arms after because you’ve both physically and sexually worn each other to the brink of passing out. I feel like more people should be having more sex (consensual of course) because it brings out the happy in people.

    My Ideal Penis Type

    I guess my ideal penis depends on what type of sexual activity we’re doing. Generally, I prefer something with a little more girth and average length. I don’t like the giant penis’s that hit my cervix while we’re having sex. It hurts. The only reason I would enjoy a longer penis is when we’re in a position that requires the length to be a bit longer, so he doesn’t slip out.

    The reason I generally prefer an average length penis with good girth is because I’ve always preferred sex to be a little rougher and like it hard and fast. I find that the combination of a thick and average length penis hits all my favorite spots of my vagina and really makes me orgasm well. I find that when a penis is too skinny I don’t get as much of a thrill out of it because it’s harder to feel it pressing on my g-spots, though that being said, if we’re doing anal girth is not always the best.

    Favorite Sex Toys Of Mine

    I own many different types of sex toys though my favorites are my We-Vibe Sync Couples Vibrator, the Hitachi and its attachments, my Lelo Soraya, and my Lelo Nea 2. The we-vibe is great for using while you’re having sex. It vibrates in all the right places for me while also pleasuring him and the overall effect is pretty great. The Lelo Soraya is great for a long slow masturbation session. The Hitatchi is great for a down and dirty quick shuddering orgasm when in a rush or even just for teasing my clit while I’m being fucked from behind.  My Lelo Nea 2 is the perfect travel buddy as it can be used for a clitorally stimulated masturbation session and can be used during sex. Any of these are also great for teasing my partners in the foreplay or break between orgasms.

    Tips For Sex Toys & Penis Use

    1) Clean them before and after using them! Yes both! With sex toys, it’s so important to clean them before you use them to get off micro-bacteria, dust, or any other things that may cause your vagina stress or infection. It’s also important to clean them after because it keeps the life of them longer and also its just gross to put them away dirty. With penis’s I think this is pretty clear, hygiene is your best friend when expecting a girl to put either her mouth or vagina around your penis. If that dick isn’t clean you can bet it’s not getting near me.

    2) Don’t force it in. Both sex toys and penis’s can be too big. If you force it in you could cause some damage and pain and other bad things. Also, it never feels good to be ripped and the recovery time takes away from your enjoyment as you might end up having to take time off from sex or could even damage some nerves and end up having less pleasure.

    3) Try them all! Haha I’m kidding but really just have fun with them and try as many as you want to. Also, give them a second chance and do your research. If you’re using a sex toy wrong or just being plain jane about sex in general, you might not be enjoying yourself to the full potential of either the penis or the sex toy.

    4) Don’t be afraid to try the new toy or the new position. I’ve had some weird suggestions that I’ve been apprehensive about and ended up absolutely loving. For instance: anal sex. It’s not for everyone but it might be for you, especially if you do it right (see the above point about research)

    5) Ask questions. Seriously. Your friends are probably kinkier than you think and if you can’t get any information out of them or maybe you’re too shy to ask them, ask an online forum. There are all kinds of people out there who’ve had lots of experience trying out whatever you’re curious about. Also, many of them love to talk about it so go ahead and ask them.

    6) If it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t. Personally, I’ve had allergic reactions to certain types of lube but it was slower than one’s I’d previously experienced, so I wasn’t sure what was going on. I did know that it felt weird when it shouldn’t though, so I switched what I was doing and asked my physician about it later. Though I haven’t reacted to a sex toy yet, I do know some people that have. You know your body best so do what feels right.

    7) If you’re not sure what it is, ask. This goes for both penis’s and toys. Sometimes people are just unaware of things but it’s better to ask than to end up feeling bad about it later.

    • With toys you want to be sure you’re getting the right thing for what you want to be doing. Some toys could be too intense for you and others may need more parts to fully enjoy them.
    • With penis’s it might be a birth mark, or it might be something infectious or even cancerous. It’s always better to check with a physician on these than to guess and end up with a bad result.

    Can Sex Toys Replace The Penis?

    For myself, there will never be something to replace the penis. I’m through and through a man’s gal and I love being railed hard with the real thing. I’ve tried different strap-ons and a variety of dildos and other sex toys, but nothing quite lives up to the mind-blowing sex I’ve had with some men and their real penis’s.

    While there are definitely things sex toys can do that penises can’t (like vibrating the hell out of my clit without hurting it), I just find that I love the feel of a real penis inside me and the silicone version just cannot make up for the lack of that feel no matter how many bells and whistles it comes with.

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  • Effective Appliances To Enlarge A Penis

    Effective Appliances To Enlarge A Penis

    The question of a penis size bothers a lot of males. Although men say that the size is unimportant; in fact, it isn’t so. No surprise that the popular majority of the male population admit that they would feel more confident if their penis was several centimeters longer. However, many people believe that the only efficient method to achieve this goal is a surgery and that all the modern appliances for penis enlargement are simply ineffective. In this publication, we are going to strip away the myth and bring hope to men who want to make their organ perfect. Interested? Keep reading then!

    How to make your penis longer?

    Owing to the highly technological development, it is today possible to modify a penis size and obtain real male enhancement. Among the most effective appliances designed for this specific aim is a penis extender. The tool has nothing to do with toys from the sex shop and is absolutely safe to use. What is more, it is a medical tool, whose wearing is even mandatory after operations to make the penis bigger.

    As we can see, the operative treatment does not relieve the patient of the need to wear an extender, which serves here to stabilize the effect of penis strengthening. However, the surgical intervention can pose some risks of complications. One of them is connected with the fact that the contraction of the seam can not only level the entire effect of surgical intervention but lead to a reduction in the penis in comparison with the preoperative period. Thus, even this method does not give any guarantees that the desired result will be reached.

    How can you benefit?

    As the practice shows, the regular use of the extender as an independent device brings good results:

    • an increase in the penis length up to 4 cm, and in width – up to 1 cm;
    • guaranteed permanent result;
    • wearing an extender is safe and does not cause any side-effects.

    Moreover, as a kind of bonus, after using an extender, the patient will obtain not only an enlarged penis but also a stronger erection. This is associated with the process of stretching the penis and the formation of new blood vessels. Previously, the extender was prescribed only after the surgical intervention aimed at measuring the size of the genital organ.

    However, it has been tested and approved as an orthopedic device that allows you to independently enlarge the penis. It is worth noting that wearing an extender is permitted at any age, except cases when a man has some problems with a genitourinary system. For men over 50 years of age, the period of wearing can be several months to achieve the desired results.

    Unfortunately, you cannot argue with nature, and age changes affect the stretching of the skin and the division of cells inside the cavernous bodies. However, an extender can become an effective tool in these cases as well.

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  • What She Thinks About Your Penis

    What She Thinks About Your Penis

    My thoughts on sex, have always been one of interest and open mindness. I don’t just love sex, but I NEED sex just like any human being or animal on earth. Sex is a bond you can create with someone where it is pure bliss, comfortable atmosphere, and an instinct to reproduce. This is not something that is supposed to be evil, or should ever be frowned upon a society like we have in america.  I consider sex necessary for human emotional development when you are ready and learning how to care for someone.  Sex is a beautiful thing and I want to spread it around!

    What Attracts Me

    That he respects my time, and can hold his own in a conversation. I love a witty person, more than looks. Honestly, I will always choose personality over good looks. Why? Someone with a heart warming personality will have me thinking about them forever and will always look better in my eyes than physical attributes.  Besides, I don’t agree with societies’ attraction schemes. I go off my own instincts and want to feel safe around the man I am with, and emotional safety factors into that as well.

    Does Size Matter?

    For my tastes, no, it has no say in my head when it comes to that. Personality is everything and when you have that, you have the best dick in the world.

    Ideal Size?

    For my preference, if I HAD to pick, I like an average size because I do not want to feel like I have something in my stomach, and I like a little width.

    Tips To Enjoy A Dick

    You can always make sex enjoyable and fun when the dick is not ideal! I love sensual touches, a man with a good mouth or someone that can take direction, and I always have my lovely mouth as well when something isn’t working out.

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  • What She Thinks About Your Penis

    What She Thinks About Your Penis

    I grew up in a home where sex was never a big deal or taboo, and often openly discussed. Because of this I was in no hurry to jump right in. I didn’t start experimenting until my 20’s; I discovered pretty quickly that I was attracted sexually to both men and women. Though I had found love, I am also not a fan of monogamy. I can easily separate sex from love and emotions, and I enjoy both very much. When it comes to sex, I love experimenting and trying to find my limits, and helping others find theirs.

    Her First Thoughts When Seeing A Penis

    Honestly the thoughts in my head are not that sexy, no matter how turned on I am by someone when I see and have that dick in my hand for the first time, I am trying to quickly inspect for any signs of STD’s. I have a playful, fun and sexy way I go about doing the inspection without the guy even knowing. I use my hands to feel the penis for anything out of the norm, without putting my mouth on his cock, I tease it while I am visually inspecting him for abraded skin or sores, I look into his eyes with an evil grin on my face as he is anticipating the action. I do this with clients as well as civil men I am involved with, and it has become a habit like putting on a seat belt.

    Is There An Ideal Penis?

    The ideal penis is different for every girl and every act. I would say though, everyone likes a well trimmed and clean cock. The ideal for me for giving a blow job is longer and leaner. I like to gag, but I have a small mouth so a particularly thick one is hard (pun intended) to swallow.

    For vaginal sex, medium length and girthy. Girth is the most desirable here as the pressure it puts on the pubis bone there feels really good and helps for climax.

    For anal sex ,shorter and thinner and one that can stay really hard. Remaining hard is really important here as a limp dick can hurt when trying to enter the backdoor.

    One Major Penis Turnoff

    Smell and cleanliness are hand in hand and if not well kept, can be a mood killer. What you eat can affect the general smell of your skin and in the groin region it can be particularly strong. I do like hair on my men, but prefer it to be trimmed and the balls shaved.

    Circumcised or Uncircumcised?

    Every woman has her opinions and preferences on the uncircumcised penis, as a professional, an uncircumcised penis makes no difference as pleasuring me. This is all in the man’s court, does he keep it clean? They do require more maintenance than a circumcised one does. Now, I do remember being a little awkward trying to give a blow job to the first uncircumcised cock I saw and there was a learning curve in dealing with the excess skin (using the hands). Getting to the head so you can do your tongue magic tricks to make him moan. As long as the cock is hard and headed my way, I am a happy girl, extra skin or no.

    Does Bareback Feel Better?

    Sex without condoms does in fact feel better for the woman too. There is something to be said for skin to skin body heat contact when having sex. So let us get real here, we all agree on this subject but for casual sex or in my case professional sex, it just is not a smart idea to uncover for a few moments of pleasure.

    Women bare the greater risk of infection than men do and can go longer undetected then men. I love sexual freedom, expressing myself in my sexuality, exploring myself, and I love having new sexual partners. But my health needs to be my top priority and here the risks just outweigh the momentary satisfaction. Saving something so intimate as bareback sex for a significant other is something we should all value.

    Kirsten O’Donnell is the Irish Lass that your mother warned you about! Beyond my sultry appearance, you will find what really sets me apart from most companions in this industry is my witty and fun personality with a touch of sophistication. I have traveled and lived all over the world experiencing culture as it should be, in person. As a modern courtesan I pride myself in my ability to find passion in everything that I do. I am a die hard fan girl still obsessed with superheroes, science fiction and “Geek” culture in general.

    Contact and follow me on http://kirstenodonnell.com/ or Twitter @Kirsten077 or Instagram @Kirsteno77

    Check out my calendar to know what city I am in: http://kirstenodonnell.com/cal.html

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  • Ideal Penis Size For Orgasms

    Ideal Penis Size For Orgasms

    Sex is such an incredible thing, the variety and types orgasms can be mind blowing. I love having sex, especially with different partners, now don’t get me wrong I have a spouse that I enjoy having sex with, but different partners bring different things to the table.

    Does Size Matter?

    Well as far as penis size, I’m definitely a believer in bigger is better! I love the feeling of a really thick cock stretching my pussy to its limits! It touches different nerves and brings such a feeling of being full that I’m actually getting wet just thinking about it. LOL. A really thick cock will almost remind me of the first time I had sex as it pushes into my pussy for the first couple of strokes and I almost cum right away.

    I’m not overly picky when it comes to shape, but I do prefer a cock that has a little bit of an upward curve to it, it just seems to help stimulate my G-spot better.

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    Multiple Orgasms

    That depends on my partner. I usually like to cum a couple of times, but having back to back orgasms really depends on how well my partner performs. I like having my pussy fucked hard, I’m petite but I’m not going to break damn it!

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    How To Take In A Huge Penis

    Lots of lube if you’re not really wet, and start slow. You kinda have to have a hungry mindset, that you want to take it. By all means don’t force it right away, because a big dick will rip you…

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    Tips For Men

    Don’t be afraid to man-handle your woman a little, I’m not saying smack her around, but pull her hair, grab her by her hips and move her, and TAKE CHARGE! Show her you’re a MAN!

    I’m Joy Cummings, I’m 42, 5’8″ about 125lbs, and 36B. I’m also a Size Queen, meaning that I crave large cocks, in particular black ones… lol… I have always craved thick cocks for the most obvious reasons, because they are amazing! I have done a few adult films, and am still stock piling footage for my own site. I’m a very down to earth girl and am quite approachable. So don’t be shy, find me on Twitter @just4joyxxx and say hi.

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  • Tips For Great Sex If His Penis Is Huge

    Tips For Great Sex If His Penis Is Huge

    Sex is my passion, I love to experiment a lot of things with a lot of people. My spirit is almost limitless. I’m also an exhibitionist, I love to seduce, I love to be nude and I love to hear, touch, smell and taste…

    This can seem boring but my favorite position is missionary. I love to be able to look the guy in the eyes and also touch his body. It’s also the way I come cause it touches my G-point and sometimes I love to touch my clit at the same time with my fingers or a vibrator.

    What Makes Me Horny

    My week point is my lips, so for me, a great french kiss makes me super horny.  I’m also really visual, I love a body of a man in great shape, muscular and a good cut. I also love the touch of hair on the chest and bear.  Finally, I’m personally a big fan of porn! That turns me on a lot, I watch porn every day!

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    Does Size Matter?

    For me, YES size matters. I love a big big penis. My G-spot is deep so I need a long penis to reach it and to have the ultimate orgasm. I really love to suck, and use my hands, and deepthroating…so a bigger penis is a better candidate for me. Ideally, 9 to 12 inches. Large with big veins.

    Don’t Fear The Huge Penis!

    Cause I was a nurse before being in the porn industry, I learn that the vagina is very extensible, and can adapt itself to different calibers. Maybe the first time can be very tight but after multiples times of fucking with the same caliber, the vagina will be good to afford it without pain… just pleasure. Just remember that it’s made to pass a baby’s head!

    Recommend Sex Positions

    First what I do, sometimes when I know I will be fucked by a big penis, I take my glass dildo and dilate myself by doing round, and back and forth in my pussy.  Then I’m ready for something bigger and avoid fissures.

    I will begin by missionary cause I can control the dick with my hands and it’s also more romantic and a fun position to go slowly…After that, ride that dick!

    I love to be dominate in bed, so if a man takes control, attach me, spank me, choke me, it turns me into a wild mood. And sex is very interesting with me when I feel like that!

     

    One year ago I assisted at the AVN awards as a fan of porn. And during that show I had a dream … to become a Porn Star. I was far from that lol. I was a 32 year old nurse in Montréal, who spoke only French and come from a very catholic family lol. But fortunately, I was a model since I was eighteen and that job gave me the opportunity to travel and meet a lot of people. My perverse spirit needed a new challenge. I wanted to be paid for doing what I love the most in life : SEX. Follow me on Twitter @SavanaStyles, on Instagram @SavanaStyles, on Email savanastyles@hotmail.com and I have a new website launching soon SavanaStyles.com

    Last movies: – Platinum Pussy : Jules Jordans   – Milf Swollow : Elegant Angel – Dirty Rotten Mother fucker 10 : Jules Jordans   – Bound by passion : Pure Mature – Lexington Milf POV : westcoast production – Strap some boyzs : Joey Silveraz

     

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