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  • How Do I Explore My Interest In Interracial Sex?

    How Do I Explore My Interest In Interracial Sex?

    It’s really hard to get out and meet new people right now with the pandemic still going on. Social media is a great way to start. Simply expanding your Instagram and following pages that are focused on Black men, mixed couples, interracial dating, etc can really help.

    Then, of course meet a Black man (or if you’re a Black man, meet a white woman). Then let the exploration begin! It’s a wonderful journey!

    How Has Interracial Sex Changed One’s Sex Life?

    For me, sex requires a lot of passion and connection. When I dated white boys, I personally wasn’t finding that. I could easily say that Black men are better at sex, because for me they are. But, that’s because I’m very attracted to Black men and the style of sex they offer. When you find someone that really excites you, the sex is going to be different and better.

    In addition, Black men have a certain sexual characteristic. Typically, Black men are more passionate and uninhibited. And typically, they do have larger penises. Those elements can really step up your sex life and change it forever. That’s why we say that once you go Black, you don’t go back!

    Is The Topic Of Interracial Sex Taboo?

    Unfortunately, interracial sex is still taboo. Not as much as it used to be though. It’s still taboo because of racism, particularly from the side of white males. Having sex with a Black man certainly isn’t racist. Being sexually attracted to Black men is no more racist than preferring a certain hair color or body type.

    Interracial sex is taking off and interracial relationships are growing faster than conventional ones. The people that think interracial is racist are a very small minority and they’re shrinking more everyday. 

    Misconceptions About Interracial Sex & Dating

    There is a lot of anger and jealousy that comes primarily from white males. The misconceptions that they share such as Black men will get us pregnant and leave, Black men are rapists, and Black men will abuse us. They’re all misconceptions that are part of an attack rooted in jealousy and racism. It’s easy to fall for them, but they’re not true. 

    Ways To Explore Interracial Sex

    If interracial sex is something that you’re thinking about, have fun doing the research! Visit some of the interracial porn sites such as Blacked.com Darkx.com and Blackedraw.com among many more. Let your inhibitions down and have fun!

    Follow interracial pages on Instagram or Twitter and meet like-minded people. From there, indulge in the sex. If you’re new to it, go in with an open mind and leave your hang ups at the door. 

    How To Prepare For An Interracial Sexual Experience

    When I first expressed an interest in meeting and having sex with a Black man to my best friend, she gave me a gigantic black dildo and said “you better practice first”. It was obviously a joke, but it also woke me up to reality: Black men do sex different and it feels different. Not every Black man is enormous, but most of them are on the bigger side. Getting used to the size difference if you’ve only dated white boys before can be challenging.

    So, practicing with a larger toy isn’t a bad idea. Black men typically have more stamina as well and that can take a toll on your body if you’re not prepared. Don’t be afraid to tell him to take it slow. If the passion becomes too much, he’ll understand if you have to take a breather. It’s common for a Black man to take sex seriously.

    For most Black men, sex is a connection and it should mean something. A Black man will work hard to please us and it rarely seems to fail. So, get psychologically ready as well!

    Andrea Dillinger – 26 year old Scorpio. Interracial for over four years and counting! 

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  • What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    I grew up in a semi-small town in Missouri where interracial dating was non-existent. If it did exist, it would have been discouraged, if not attacked outright. I dated white guys simply because it was what girls were supposed to do. But, I always had an attraction to Black men. My white boyfriends seemed to always carry some racist attitudes which in a way, made me even more curious.

    Of course, a teenage girl hears the rumors about Black men. That peaks our interest as well. Interracial dating is like an entirely different ballgame. It’s different. It has challenges because racism is still very prevalent, especially among white males who despise the competition. But, interracial dating is like joining a very elite club. Couples support one another and strangers very often ask me about it. Other women seem very curious and ask me about it.

    Why I Find Black Men Attractive

    I started dating white boys when I was 14. I dated four of them before I had enough. My best friend, who is white, knew I had an attraction to Black men, so she pushed me to go on a double date with her. She dated a Black man and set me up with her boyfriend’s friend who was also Black. I was 21.

    There are always exceptions with Black men, like anything else. Not everything I find attractive about Black men is not found in EVERY Black man. But, I have always found a Black man’s style to be attractive. His swag. Black men have a classy, sexy style that’s very alluring to a white woman. Black men naturally have a dominant presence. I love dark Black men. Their dark skin is very masculine especially next to my fair skin. The contrast is alluring. Black men typically have a stronger physical stature. I find that powerful and very attractive.

    And yes, typically Black men are bigger down there. I love a Black man’s penis and the way he uses it. Black men are better in bed. They have more stamina and they’re very uninhibited and passionate. Their style and swag; their physical makeup; their minds and attitude. Their “Blackness” is very sexy.

    My Experience Of Interracial Dating

    It’s generally very positive and exciting. There is still a lot of racism though. It seems mostly to come from white boys. But, other white women are very supportive. When I go out with my boyfriend, other girls often pull me aside and ask me what it’s like to be with a Black man. It used to embarrass me. But, I’m used to it now. I tell them the truth, “it’s amazing!”

    Is Interracial Dating More Open In Recent Years?

    It’s growing. Everyone knows that. Even racist white boys see that it’s becoming more and more prevalent. I think society is opening up to it because popular opinion is shaping that. Interracial resources are everywhere. In popular culture, interracial can be found out in the open. In the adult entertainment circles, interracial is among the top three most viewed search, behind “girl-girl” and “hardcore”.

    Sites like Deeper.com, Blacked.com, and Darkx.com are proof that interracial sex is hot and growing. The occasional resistance we get is pretty much reduced to angry white boys who don’t approve of the way things are going.

    Tips For White Women Who Want To Date Black Men

    Do it! There’s no time like right now! Don’t let friends or family frighten you or hold you back. Go with your gut and satisfy your attraction. It’s not “weird”; it’s not “wrong”. Society’s acceptance is growing; now is a great time to try it. If you can double date, that will calm some of the anxiety we face going into it for the first time.

    We’re strong and we can make up our own minds. If it’s what you want, you have the right to do it. If you’re just wanting to try it for the sex, go for it. No one has to know about what you do in your private life. “Don’t die wondering” is what my best friend told me when she introduced me to my first Black man.

    Differences Between Black Men & White Men

    Again, there are no absolutes. Not every Black man is this-way and not every white boy is that-way. But, from a general perspective I will say that there are some major differences. The penis is the one thing that comes up most often. Typically Black men are bigger. Not just in length but also in girth. Black men seem to hold an erection a lot longer which goes well with their stamina.

    The sex with a Black man is uninhibited and passionate. A Black man typically likes to please us before he pleases himself, which is very refreshing! There are a lot of physical and mental differences between Black men and white boys, most of which I went over previously.

    Would You Date A White Man After Being With A Black Man?

    Personally, no. I know that some women might go back and forth between black and white. But, I’m very satisfied with Black men. Not to mention, I’m more attracted to the style of a Black man. I don’t find white boys attractive.

    Andrea Dillinger – American made 25 year old scorpio with a taste for dark chocolate.

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  • How to Pick the Right Dating App for You

    How to Pick the Right Dating App for You

    We’re no longer relegated to only being able to find romantic partners through our circle of friends or personal level of adventurousness. In the digital age we live in, there are many options for finding a potential date. In fact, it might be challenging to figure out which dating app is best for you.

    There’s every dating app you can imagine – from dating apps for biking enthusiasts to dating apps for people who want to go to clown college one day. That last one is made up, but it honestly isn’t too far out of the realm of possibilities. All we’re trying to say is that there are thousands of dating apps, but only one you. How do you narrow it down and start putting in some work? Here are some tips:

    Figure out your level of commitment.

    Not everybody is looking for a long-term commitment right off the bat. To avoid awkward exchanges later in a relationship that might end with tears and broken hearts, you should figure out exactly what kind of relationship you’re looking for. Is this something casual, something a bit more serious, or are you explicitly looking for a spouse? Different apps service different needs. Typically, apps that use just a few photos and a quick 100 to 250-character bio section are more for no strings attached hookups, while services that require lots of personal information are for finding long-term partners, so choose accordingly.

    Check reviews online.

    Many people are willing to go to pretty far lengths to secure a relationship. The people who make these services know this, and some are less genuine than others. That’s why it’s of utmost importance to do your homework and look up reviews to see how legitimate a site is before signing up. Searching up something as simple as Interracial Dating Central review is all you need to see real reports of people’s experiences with a particular service. Just type in the name of the service, and then add a review to the end of your query – as simple as that!

    What kind of person are you?

    Most dating apps are pretty simple. You can make a profile, and from there, you can send a message to others who have made a profile, or they can send a message to you first. Other apps do things a bit differently. For instance, Bumble only allows women to message men first. It’s something some men appreciate as it shows that the woman is interested in them on at least some level before proceeding to talk to them. Other apps work like online speed dating, and some even let you enter a group with your friends to then meet different groups of people. If you know what kind of social situations you’re most comfortable in, chances are you can find a dating service that best caters to your needs.

    Conclusion

    Thankfully, in today’s day and age, nearly everybody can find the right person for them as long as they’re willing to put effort into their search. Dating services, both free and paid, are a great way to make romantic connections that would otherwise be extremely difficult, even if that person has been living right under your nose the whole time. Best of luck to anyone out there looking for love. It isn’t always easy, but it’s nearly always worth it in the end.

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