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What To Know About Sissy Training

I live my life as a Goddess and embrace the lifestyle of kink/BDSM. I think every person is kinky, this can be bedroom slap and tickle for example, the lighter sides seen on social media, or from some well known online sellers to those who are very heavy into kinky play and visit others to live out those kinks.

BDSM as a general term, is often used as a gateway into the realm of kink and opens up many doors to play. For myself, I have many kinks which are embraced from pet play, impact play, panty selling and feminization/sissy play, which is what we shall be delving into today.

I first discovered kink in my sexual awakening and have jumped headlong into it since, it has taken many years of exploring and learning to get to where I am now and happy to call myself a Pro Domme – although I still am always learning more and more.

I love how kink offers closeness in relationships which I have found others cannot. Kink relationships to me are as close as partners (or more so) due to the deep trust and connections which are made in sessions and of course, with friends you meet in the scene or at events. The highs of a wonderful session are what make myself and many come back for more. It’s not to say I am chasing the high, I love what I do and need it to feel myself.

What Is Sissy Training?

Sissy training from my point is a male who wants to be put in situations to be feminine, this can be maid training, sluts, princess to name a few aspects. It often involves chastity or small penis humiliation (not always) as well as dressing up. Most of the dressing up involves panties, I do love it when it’s my pre-worn undies so they smell like a female, also which helps create the scene more. A lot of sissies do enjoy strap-on or cock training which can have links into coerced bi or cuckold, but there are equally the same amount who just enjoying a female using a strap-on on them.

I love it for many reasons…I love the change (which can be humiliation or embracing the switch) as well as what I can do to help facilitate the kink. If they are a slutty type it can be putting them in crotchless panties, red lipstick and making them enjoy pleasure in many forms (i.e. self and strap-ons).

I love sissies being treated like a tart, smearing their lipstick with my strap-on (I have a few sizes and shapes) and often ending with some cum eating, which can be their own or anothers if into cuckolding, for example.

I am equally exploring hypnosis which works well with sissy bimbos such as Barbie style sissies who think nothing but wanting to look pretty. It equally works well with what I enjoy, which is making a toy of my plaything.

Reasons Subs Love Sissy Training

Sissy/feminization play came to me as a humiliation at first but I equally learned it’s not always about humiliation for the ones dressing, it’s a way to be girly, feel sexy, be used as escapism and then those who actually wish to be a girl.

So the men who come to me want to embrace being treated like a maid, a girl or humiliated by their clothes being taken away. Many of the aspects do have a sexual leading them to be such, but not all, I don’t offer all those who come to mine the chance to relief themselves sexually. For example, pleasure whores can be kept in chastity or be made to cum many times in a session and maids are often in chastity.

Not all sissies are submissive, most I have come across are as that’s who I like to deal with. I have found most like to be restrained and guided in submissive training.

What A Typical Sissy Training Involves

One of my favourite scenes is my damsel, it’s a rope scene play which they dress in lovely undies and I tie them up to which they try to escape…if they do they get punished and we try many different ties as well as timed escapes. But equally, I do love a good maid who turns up dressed in a maids uniform and does my cleaning, no questions or other play.

I have a personal sissy who is a maid, slut, hypnosis plaything and gives pleasure to gentlemen I desire for them to. This sissy also has a sissy tattoo, and can be found on Twitter as @tweenie_weenie for her training. So a sissy can have many lessons and embrace all aspects of being sissy as well as being submissive.

What To Expect If You’re A First Timer

Read up on it as it’s so varied, find out what works for you and explore with someone safely. There are many sites out there which can help you learn, but slowly does it.

The training can take time and it isn’t something that will click over night, keep working at it and learning more as you go!

Goddess Kikka Jennie – Ellie may have been a late bloomer sexually, but she fully enjoys adventures with friends now, in and out of the bedroom. She enjoys traveling to explore new places and cuddling up for a good movie. She sells used panties and other items online along with pictures and videos.

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March 18, 2020
Feminisation The Poshtotti Way

Having been brought up in a religious cult from birth, all my inner desires were deeply suppressed. As a woman in a male controlled religion, I had no power nor control. It was frustrating to say the very least!. This is why I became a Dominatrix. A rebellion against my past. Let’s just say…I love it all

What Is Feminisation?

Feminisation in my eyes is a rebranding of the male form. Once they are transformed from ugly caterpillars into beautiful butterflies, I feel it gives them the opportunity to feel sexy. There are so many levels from simply wearing sexy panties to hormonal treatment and surgery.

Why Do Men Enjoy Being Feminised?

When men come to me, we often speak of how women get all the sexual attention from men. They are the objects of desire. Men want to know what that feels like. To become that object of desire. They start to crave the sexual role as a female. Others feel they are a female in a male body

Common Misconceptions About Feminisation

It isn’t for everybody. Lots of men don’t realise the work involved. Hair removal, heels, nails etc and I feel men often shy away for fear of rejection. There are so many levels. What looks good for one might not look good on another. It’s trial and error and patience to get to their final goal. Once they embrace it…they become addicted.

The other common misconception is that men who desire to be feminised are gay, when commonly they are not.

The Poshtotti Way Of Feminisation

My power as a woman is not by shouting and screaming. My power and dominance is my sensuality. I am ladylike and they want to learn this skill from me. I take their hands and guide them into my world. I take their boundaries and push them gently in the direction I know is best. They are stripped naked and given nylons and sexy lingerie to slide slowly up their thighs to feel that sensual tingle.

I dress my girls as I think appropriate and top their girliness off with perhaps a wig and elegant makeup to flaunt their pretty features. Training on walking, flirting and sexy seems to flow far easier now my girls actually feel feminine. They seem to transform into such sensuous beings. My girls are my passion.

How Should Men Prepare Before Being Feminised

This would depend on what level they want to take it to and this will reflect on their everyday life. I could be simply putting them in lingerie as a one off…but some want to take it further and we go out to lunch together and she will be fully dressed. Some of my girls want to transform totally. A lifestyle change. They have to consider this when they start the journey. For most it’s just fun when they are with me. Our secret.

Mistress Poshtotti – My true passion in this wonderful world we inhabit is feminisation, I have a real desire to turn you into the sexy, desirable lady you have always yearned to be. Then treat you as the woman that deep down you know you are. My beautiful chamber in Pembrokeshire has everything we need for your complete transformation.

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October 22, 2019
Why Men Love Being Feminized & Humiliated

The Kink and Fetish community is great outlet for people to express parts of themselves they otherwise would have had to keep hidden. It’s not only perfectly healthy to have kinks, but theraputic to explore them, and I’ve been pleasantly surprised with the level of respect and unity I see between us fellow kinksters.

My Femdom Interest

My interest in Femdom began when I first was hired as a camgirl four years ago. I was thoroughly bored, almost uncomfortable with the interaction I had with most clients, until someone submissive would come along. I decided to chase that feeling of satisfaction I got after humiliating a client who really enjoyed it, and eventually opened up a clip store in 2012.

I think a lot of parts of Domming came naturally once I put my foot in the water. I notice now that all the teasing I did to make guy friends, kiss and cross dress in high school definitely paved the path to being a full-time Domme.

Why Men Love To Be Feminized And Humiliated

I think most men have been socially programmed to always be in control of things. Gender roles specifically have led many men to feel obligated to never feel emotions, especially feelings of weakness and vulnerability. If you’ve been holding in those feelings for years, release is almost necessary – but still guilt-inducing. The best outlet to release those feelings is one that is “forced”.

I notice this especially within feminization. Many men have accepted this idea that they can’t have any feminine qualities whatsoever, even if those qualities are healthy: things like crying, expressing any emotion, and enjoying softer things. It’s easier for a Domme to come around and “force” you into being okay with these things. Ultimately that “forced” feminization can lead to the client accepting all parts of themselves as being okay, despite what ideals they were raised with.

My Favorite Forms Of Humiliation And Punishment

I often go into phases with what tasks and types of humiliation I enjoy, but I will always like things like cock and ball torture, public humiliation like going outside in a collar, or really disgusting things like making clients lick dirty toilets.

Anything that makes me giggle is usually up my alley, like making guys do slutty dances for me – especially if I can see they’re embarrassed by it. I also really enjoy forced bi and making clients suck on phallic items. It’s good practice and hilarious to watch.

Extreme Requests

I definitely will always get extreme requests. The most extreme ones usually involve animal cruelty, which I do not support in any way. One weird request I’ll never forget was someone wanting me to find a freshly-killed turkey “with the feathers still on it” and prepare to eat it, pretending that was the client.

The most extreme thing I’ve probably made a client do is fuck himself in the ass with a dildo then clean it off with his mouth. It’s always their idea, too.

Rules For Submissives

Before anything, I ensure they will always be respectful and refer to me by my name, “Mistress Bijoux”. I make sure they use correct punctuation and will judge a submissive off of their ability to remember that. I also expect any submissive contacting me to have sent a payment before asking for anything, in any way, ever. If I am being asked for something and receiving nothing in return, I expect that client to not be worth my time.

Within sessions, I always expect submissives to lay out their interests (so I can use it against them), their limits, and their financial situation, like how much they can spend that day. Any other rules I make are flexible depending on the session I’m in. I always like to gently push limits and be sure my submissives have tasks to work on to prove themselves to me., whether within a session or in between them. This also gives submissives continuity and an ability to grow and improve as a sub.

Mistress Bijoux is a 24 year old full time Pro-Domme in the South Florida area. With a wide variety of interests, some favorites include financial domination, forced bi, humiliation, and cuckolding.

She has over 600 fetish and femdom videos and makes all of video content and websites herself from scratch. Considered by her submissives to be deticated to her work, Mistress Bijoux is often caring and supportive of her submissives but is also known for her ability to be extremely ruthless and cruel when needed. Follow her on:

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January 14, 2016
Pet Play fetish – Bring out the animal in YOU

Hi naughty ones, I’m Nancy! I started selling my panties online a few months ago after wanting to try it out for over a year. I started receiving emails from clients to do sexy chat not long after, which I really enjoy, as it gives me more of a connection with my client. I have always been quite dominant in relationships and have been very curious about pet play, so when a client asked if I did that, I was very excited to give it a go!

What is Pet Play?

Pet play is play that involves at least one of the participants dressing or acting like an animal. To be clear – this is in no way a form of beastiality! Pet play is about enjoying animalistic behaviour with a human partner, not engaging in sexual activity with an actual animal.

Pet play is usually a form of dom/sub relationship, with one of the partners being dominant – most often the partner who is remaining human. Pet play is not always sexual; I have done pet play scenes with clients who simply enjoy submitting and giving over control of even their basic needs, so that I care for them completely in the same way as I would with a pet in real life. Others enjoy pet play of a more sexual nature, in which their lack of control over their needs is used to humiliate and torment them.

Another element of pet play is feminisation. I often find that partners enjoy being made to look pretty and cute, in that way being made into a pretty pet for my enjoyment (if they enjoy humiliation) or for their own enjoyment (if they like being feminised). This can include anything from a collar to a tail and ears or panties and stockings and make up.

Personally, I enjoy pet play in all of its forms. I like having that level of control over my partner, but as I am quite a maternal and nurturing person, I love caring for my pet and establishing that level of trust in which they are comfortable in giving over total control.

Ultimately, pet play is a fun way to play with a partner that just involves taking on the characteristics of an animal – maybe a playful puppy or a mischievous kitten – and bringing those to your playtime, sexual or otherwise.

Safety concerns in pet play

As with all dom/sub play, being the dominant partner is about so much more than issuing commands. In the same way that a dom must always care for their sub, it is important that a dom in pet play never abuses the level of trust and control that their pet has given them. The damage caused by an abuse of trust can range from destroying the mood of the scene to psychological harm for the pet.

When engaging in pet play in real life – as opposed to online – there are other safety issues to keep in mind. For example, please do not go eating animal food! It was made for animals (whichever you may choose to play as/with) for a reason. A nice alternative would be to feed your pet mashed up food in a pet bowl, which doesn’t spoil the fantasy but is also safe for your pet to eat.

Another concern is the psychological impact of being an animal for extended periods of time. Some partners like to have their speech restricted to only animal noises. Whilst this is fine in the odd scene, if you are engaging in pet play all day every day, it is damaging to the sub to be so restricted. I would not recommend this level of play in real life, your sub always needs some time to come back to their human self mentally to allow their mind time to recover.

Preparation for pet play

Before I enter into any pet play scenario, I always have an honest discussion with my client about what they want from the session, what their likes and dislikes are and what their limits are. As I mentioned above, it is so important to establish and keep that trust, particularly as I am offering a paid service.

I find it’s always best to do this before starting the scene, first so I understand what the client wants, but also so that I can check it will be something I am comfortable with too. I can’t stress enough how important it is for both partners to respect each others boundaries and stick to the limits they agree to.

A typical pet play process…

Every pet play session is different, but a usual session will involve dressing my pet up as the animal they most identify with – usually a kitten or a puppy – and preparing them to play. I sometimes do training with a pet, to teach obedience or tricks. After that, it generally depends on the client – some prefer to be fed, watered, made to use the toilet and washed, then cuddled and stroked before being put into their pet bed. Sexual pet plays obviously differ greatly from client to client, so I won’t go into those here!

Email nancysknickers@hotmail.com for all panty enquiries and to book online role play sessions, sexy chat or pet play at http://pantytrust.com/nancy . I now have openings for long term clients too. I’d love to hear from you x

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August 8, 2015