Tag: Erotic Massage

  • What To Keep In Mind During Your First Nuru Massage

    What To Keep In Mind During Your First Nuru Massage

    You may decide to try out an erotic massage because you want to relax, for pleasure, or simply because you’re curious. But whatever your reason is, there are a few things worth keeping in mind before you book your very first Nuru massage in London. And learning more about the whole process beforehand will help you prepare for this experience to get as much satisfaction out of it as possible.

    What Is A Nuru Massage?

    Opting for a traditional massage is a conventional way to relieve stress that accumulates in your body during the everyday struggle to keep up with your busy schedule and balance your private and professional lives. Unfortunately, its effects are quite limited because such a massage focuses only on certain parts of your body.

    But if you’re looking for something more, it’s worth taking an interest in erotic massages. There are various types to choose from, so every interested person can find an offer perfectly suited to their needs. One of the types that deserve to be mentioned among the more popular ones is definitely a Nuru massage. It’s a technique that involves using Nuru gel. In fact, during the massage, the bodies of both the masseuse and the client are entirely covered with this gel. It’s a natural substance made of Nori seaweed that lacks both taste and odour, but can be used to enhance the sensations and help you relax. Its use can explain the name as well – “nuru” means “slippery” in Japanese.

    What To Prepare For Your First Nuru Massage

    If you want such a massage to help you spice up your relationship and you plan on giving it to your partner, you’re the one responsible for the preparations and setting up the scene. You need to remember about preparing the gel and other things that will be necessary, for example, towels. But it’s a different matter altogether if you decide to use professional services and book an appointment with an experienced masseuse at a massage parlour. Contrary to common belief, such services are offered not only to men but also to women and couples, so if you’re looking for a way to make your love life more exciting, it’s definitely something to consider.

    How To Prepare Yourself

    Before you go to the scheduled appointment and get your first massage, you need to prepare yourself. And while the choice on whether you want to remove your body hair before the massage is entirely up to you, basic hygiene is expected of every client. It’s important because a body to body massage is a very intimate experience, and something as simple as taking a shower before heading off to the meeting with the masseuse will make it more comfortable for both parties. Another thing to consider is your own approach towards this whole encounter. There’s nothing unusual about feeling a bit uncertain, especially if it’s your first Nuru massage, but you won’t be able to get much satisfaction out of it if you’re not comfortable with everything that’s happening.

    What Are The Benefits?

    Since it’s an erotic massage, sexual satisfaction is one of the things it offers. But the Nuru massage has a lot more to offer than just that. During the massage, the masseuse pays attention to your entire body and carefully stimulates every part of it to get you to the point when you feel completely relaxed. Prolonged stress can have a negative impact on your physical and mental health, so finding effective ways of relieving it is, without a doubt, very beneficial.

    By keeping such things in mind, you can make sure that your first Nuru massage is as pleasurable as possible. Remember that even though it may be your first experience of getting an erotic massage, your masseuse is a professional and will use her expertise to make you feel comfortable. So don’t let your worries stop you from enjoying yourself.


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  • Why Everyone Should Try An Erotic Massage

    Why Everyone Should Try An Erotic Massage

    An erotic massage is a great introduction into the adult industry because it is not penetrative sex, it is sexual and intimate and includes a sex act (typically genital stimulation). It is a safe space to learn and practice boundaries, explore fantasies and desires, connect and cultivate empathy. The only thing better than a massage is a sexy massage with a “happy ending”.

    I am sex positive. I appreciate the various ways a person can have sex, and get off. I am a fan of kink and enjoy fetishes. I think everyone can benefit from exploring kink; because it teaches good boundaries, consent and good communication.  I am body positive; I enjoy all shapes, sizes, abilities, and races. All people deserve intimacy, and sex.  

    Benefits Of An Erotic Massage

    Massages can heal, and relax the body; release hidden trauma from old injuries, and relieve tension from stress. Erotic touch stimulates the senses bringing awareness back into your relaxed body. Both provide much needed intimacy and relief. I think a sensual massage is great for anyone that is in a committed relationship, and wants extra attention, but does not want intercourse. A sensual massage can also strengthen committed relationships by increasing libido, and passion.  

    Common Misconceptions About Erotic Massages

    Many people think FBSM includes sexual intercourse, or that it is only a therapeutic massage.

    What To Take Note Of Before Having An Erotic Massage

    I recommend doing research; reading the providers advertisement and/or website thoroughly. Be prepared to provide references if required. Read any verified reviews and contact them as instructed. Make sure you have the correct amount of money. Pre-booking is the best way to schedule a massage. It is best to approach your first massage with a positive attitude and willingness to cooperate. If you have any medical history, take any medication, or have any injuries please disclose them at the beginning of your massage.

    What Goes On During An Erotic Massage?

    The length of a massage can vary; depending on negotiations and the needs/desires of the patron. I recommend beginning with 90 minutes to get acquainted with each other. I always get nervous meeting new people so I prefer extra time to relax and get comfortable.

    Ways To Make Erotic Massages Hotter

    Schedule ahead of time, three days if possible to build anticipation and stimulate fantasies. Pay attention during the encounter to discover if any: turns ons, fetishes, or kinks reveal themselves. Sexy lingerie is great for providing visual stimulation. Communication creates intimacy sexy, or dirty talk can be a huge turn on. I use edging to tease and prolong the play. Nuru is super sexy because it is body to body contact and a massage using a seaweed gel.


    Sasha Minxxx – I am a sex worker & CMT in the San Francisco bay area. I have been in the sex industry for 20 years. I identify as pansexual. Currently I engage in: FBSM, BDSM, & NURU. I enjoy cooking, travel, & learning. I try to stay active in the pursuit to decriminalize sex work. I am continuing to explore intimacy; & I am committed to learning what turns me on.

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    Twitter: @Sasha_Minxxx

    Website: www.IntelligentNymph.com


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  • 4 Hands Massage Bucket List

    4 Hands Massage Bucket List

    This should be on every guys bucket list

    4 Hands erotic massage: Sensual please taken to another level

    Now guys, just imagine two hot women moving all over your body and touching your most intimate areas.

    Not just one but two talented sensual massage therapists will smooth, rub and slide their hands all over your body from head to toe. Not a single part of your body will feel neglected.

    Sounds good doesn’t it?

    Why a sensual 4 hands massage should be on every guys bucket list

    Sensual four hands massage is a form of traditional erotic massage that’s been used to tease out tension, stress and pleasure from men and women for thousands of years.

    It’s an authentic and delightful way to forget your troubles and boost your well-being.

    It is not often you get the chance to be massaged by two women, so make the most of it while you can.

    What happens in an erotic four hands massage?

    Four hands sensual massage describes the technical attributes of this classic and indulgent massage.

    However, it doesn’t describe the sensation of feeling two experienced erotic therapists stroke and slide their hands across every single area of your skin.

    As the sensations are so exquisite and numerous your mind will struggle to focus on the strokes and it will drift into a state of pleasure.

    Each masseuse will work in tandem mirroring each other’s strokes. They will massage your right inner thigh, while the other masseuse will massage your left.

    They will work up and down your body paired in a sensual rhythm with delicate teasing strokes to relieve your anxieties and tension.

    It will feel so good you won’t want it to end…

    Two gorgeous ladies massaging you intimately is beyond heavenly.

    After you’ve been stroked, teased and built up into the ultimate level of anticipation, the masseuses will then focus on your genitalia. It will feel fantastic as two women massage this part of your body together.

    At the end your body will explode in complete orgasmic joy.

    The question is though – Can you handle being massage by two lovely females?

    When four erotic hands are synchronized and working in harmony for your sole pleasure the physical sensations are relaxing, sensual and exciting whether you are male or female.

    Any aches and pains or muscle tensions you have are eased away by us. It’s one of the best ways to de-stress and recharge your mental batteries.

    You’ll be free from stress and worry your body will be able to relax completely, forget its anxieties and focus purely on feeling the bliss.

    Everyone needs this feeling for good physical and mental health. When you have a stressful life, four hands massage can help you manage the problems and tensions you face each day by strengthening your mind and spirit.

    Four hands erotic massage also promotes physical healing by boosting blood flow and circulation to your body and skin which releases toxins and leaves you with a healthy glow.

    Anyone with body image issues, anxiety about sensual touch, or those who are curious about their sexual response may find four hands massage gives them the opportunity to explore their sexuality.

    This session will enable them to feel sensations they may struggle to experience in a pressured situation or relationship.

    A four hands erotic massage is designed for your pleasure and comfort, there’s no pressure or obligation – just relax, feel the sensations and let your body respond.


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  • Experience An Erotic Massage

    Experience An Erotic Massage

    Erotic massages are an intimate and sensual alternative to relaxing one’s muscles, in addition to other erogenous body parts, such as the genital area; in males’ this would be the penis and females’ the vagina. However, I find a lot of my male clients also enjoy having their nipples pinched, bitten and even playfully slapped and that would be in a basic massage session. There are so many ways to arouse someone without engaging in full intercourse. I can’t speak for all men because there are differing levels of erotic massage that appeal to a man’s sexual needs and fantasy.

    For example, Tantra and Bondassage are a different form of massage, which I am not full trained in as yet. However, what I do offer are sensual intermediate to advanced massage sessions that would appeal to a gentleman who is either new to the world of erotic indulgences and maybe hesitant to ‘jump the sheets’ as I like to call it, or a gentleman who may be seeking a healthy, sexually charged massage session that stimulates him beyond the usual rub and tug method. I find that my clients enjoy my massage sessions because it allows them to completely surrender both mentally and physically for a period of time while their body and emotional state are positively realigned through my sensual, intuitive touch.

    Setting The Mood

    I am usually booked exclusively as an outcall massage consultant, that would be when I visit the client at his hotel suite or private residence. I find that this arrangement works best for me and my clients because my niche market tends to be traveling professionals who are visiting Toronto on business. However, when I do host at my private, central location in downtown Toronto, Canada, I usually have my massage table set up with the appropriate amount of linens, his and her bath robes, various scented and non-scented oils, a bottle of wine as well as a selection of music which includes: Bossa Nova, and Jazz & Blues. I am always tastefully coordinated in a lovely lingerie ensemble or sometimes I’ll just wear a silk robe with my birthday suit underneath it, this usually happens when I know I will be performing a body-slide during his massage session, but most of the time I am wearing something exceptionally titillating to begin with.

    Pre-Massage Preparation

    Well, once he has passed my screening and all of his information checks out, I usually like to schedule a time to speak via phone to get a sense of his personality and also to find out if he has any particular request of me. Usually he may have something specific he would like me to wear, for example I get a lot of request for stockings and the highest heels I can reasonably balance myself in! Those requests are always on standby in my lingerie wardrobe. Other requests may be a selection of music I would have to download onto my iPod the night before or ensuring I have the type of massage oil on hand for his session. I myself usually workout at least 3-4 times a week because performing the perfect body-slide takes a lot of energy physically, especially if his physique is considerably larger than the average male.

    Body Parts Of His To Concentrate On

    Everything. My massage session usually begins with a basic soft tissue massage, which slowly builds to a sensually charged body to body treatment that incorporates me using my hands, elbows, breast, and lips (and sometimes my feet if my client is leaning towards a more fetish type of massage experience). I’ve been told that I’ve touched places on my client’s body that he has never had stimulated before. Other tools I may utilize other than massage oils include: feathers, hot candle wax and textured massage gloves. I am very much a naturalist and do not usually experiment with sex toys, unless my client has requested I bring a few at the time of his booking. I have also recently introduced a post massage body scrub that involves me and my client completing his session in the shower while I give him a deep body scrub using therapeutic bath minerals to further enhance his experience. I’ve literally had clients fall asleep shortly after we have finished his body scrub, it really is a nice treat to indulge in once you have completed the initial massage portion.

    Experience It Now!

    I’ve designed three signature massage sessions for novice and experienced clients to choose from: Exploring Sensual Massage – This package is best utilized as a tranquil introduction to sensual massage treatments. Your body is worked on by me from head to toe as you relax and allow my responsive hands to release any tension and stress you may have.

    Reciprocal Sensual Massage – A slightly more advanced session, we are mutually exploring each other respectfully in response to our guided chemistry. You are encouraged to explore my physique simultaneously as I explore yours.

    Executive Massage Treatment – Indulge deeper with me as we both explore each other in a more intimate session. Reciprocal massage included + full body contact (body-slide) on you (only). This package includes my post massage body scrub.

    Overall, I’ve been told that my massage sessions are a relaxing, sensual experience. More info can be found on my site and also my personal blog where I’ve written a few articles further discussing the pros of sensual massage with me.



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