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5 Sex Positions That Make Your Bod Look Great

So, you’re in the throws of passion when suddenly he flips you on top— eek, your worst angle! When it comes to unflattering sex positions, how often do you feel less-than-sizzling during sex? As many women know, worrying about a bloated belly is the ultimate orgasm buster. Well fortunately, you don’t have to start any pre-sex dieting or slimming shakes. What you need is some hot sex positions that’ll make your bod look great. Here are some that will make you look smoking, so there’s no regretting your last snack binge.

1. Reverse Plank

You know those yoga exercises that require you to squeeze your tummy in the plank position? Picture that in reverse. Basically, you’ll be upturned with your shoulders on the bed and your torso pushed up to the sky.

In this position, your body is stretched out, flattening your belly and elongating your figure. Your body will instantly appear tighter and firmer, making you feel more confident, explains Sex Expert Maria McMillan in her article, “How I Turned My Sex Life Into a Workout Routine”. There’s no worrying about the effects of gravity here ladies! So, do your thing.

2. Doggy Style

As a popular favorite among men, doggy style is one of the hottest angles you can rock. This sex position is especially flattering if you’ve got tattoos on your backside—aiming practice anyone?

The way to do it best is to push your rear up as much as you can while arching your back. He’ll only be able to see your bum, your thighs and your back—some of your sexiest assets, says Lifestyle Blogger Bridget North in her article, “Flattering Sex Positions and Tips for Fat Days!”

Before you know it, his animal instincts will kick in and you can be pretty sure what happens next. Buckle up lady!

3. Straddle in the Chair

If you love giving lap dances, you’re in luck. Being one of the most flattering positions for big breasted girls, the straddling position lets him get up-close-and-personal with your dirty pillows. Most guys find this position very arousing. So, the next time you’re feeling bloaty, push him on the chair and make him wonder why he’ll ever need to go to a strip club. Give him a lap dance to remember.

4. Reverse Cowgirl

Similar to the chair, cowgirl lets your man see all your voluptuous butt business. He’ll get all the graphic little details of your bouncing booty, while letting you hide your least favorite assets.

You can make the most out of the position by sliding in some vibrator action if the mood feels right. “Women love them because it’s small, easy to store and packed with addictive orgasmic powers,” explains Sex Blogger Bobby Box in his article, “ Best Vibrators for Those Hard-to-reach Places.”

5. Spooning

Performing this position is as simple as laying on your side and giving him a full view of your behind. During liftoff, arch your back, making penetration easier, and tighten your thighs for maximum friction, suggests Bridget North. He’ll be able to appreciate the sensuality of your silhouette from the side, making you appear sexy and feminine.

With these flattering sex positions, you can give him the best seat in the house. He’ll definitely want to see the next show! Happy posing ladies!

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January 9, 2017
Sex Tips And Pleasure Positions For Overweight People
My husband and I are on the weighty side and a lot of sex positions are challenging for us to try. What are some recommendations or tweaks we can do instead of the usual missionary?

You may want to consider having a few of the following little helpers on hand to make different positions more exciting and/or more comfortable.
1. Lube is a wonderful sexy tool to have regardless of you and your partner’s shape. Water based or silicone lube is great to have on hand in order to make entry easier for your husband and can make penetration comfortable and safer for you. (If your husband tries to penetrate you when you aren’t lubricated it can be painful and can cause micro-tears in your vagina that can cause infection and we don’t want that!)
2. Having firm pillows in the bedroom can make sexual positions easier for you and your husband. For example, sometimes placing a firm pillow underneath your abdomen during doggy-style can make the position more comfortable for you and can increase your stamina.
3. Blindfolds and ticklers…okay so this is a 2 in1 suggestion but bear with me. Again, regardless of your size and shape having these sexy toys in quick reach before and during sexy time can be the “tweak” enough that you need to add some fun to positions you already use comfortably now. Sensory toys like blindfolds and ticklers can create different sensations in your body that give you the tinglies from your head to your toes!
Now for the positions; the following are just three of many suggestions to help answer your question. Side and rear entry positions seem to provide the most comfort and pleasure (the most important part) for weighty couples.
1. Doggy-style and other rear entry variations are great positions to try to get your sexy on. You can get on your hands and knees on the bed while your husband kneels behind you. As I mentioned earlier, you can use pillows in this position for support. It’s also possible to kneel at the edge of the bed with your face and chest closer to the bed as your husband stands behind you at the edge of the bed to penetrate you.
2. Side positions. I’m sure there are plenty of silly names for these types of positions like ‘turtle on its shell’ and others but we are keeping it general here. You could lie on your side, almost like you are in the fetal position, while your partner again kneels on the bed or stands at the edge of the bed to penetrate you. Pillows would be good for these side positions too to either place between your legs to make entry easier or underneath you (depending on how tall your partner is and if they are kneeling on the bed or standing).
3. Cowgirl and variations of woman on top positions can maximize G-spot penetration (like rear entry positions) and are good positions to give your husband the opportunity to see you in your gorgeous glory on top of him. If it’s not comfortable to straddle him as he lays on his back you could also squat over him as he enters you and he could thrust from underneath you.
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February 4, 2016
3 Favorite Sex Positions To Try

I think sex is great and I think everyone needs it and that it’s a really healthy way to express someones’ true self. I know some people tend to think that sex is supposed to be strictly between just 2 people or that it’s immoral, but I personally feel that sex is a part of nature and it’s to be had. I think what people confuse about sex is that just having sex because it’s healthy and having sex with a person you love is the same thing…I completely disagree. I think morality, sex and making love are all very different creatures and should never be mixed together in the same boat.

Try Different Positions!

When it comes to different positions with sex I’m always open to trying something new because you never know what you’re going to fall in love with! Besides, who wants to just stick to all the traditional when there are SO many different positions to try out?! I mean, once on vacation for my birthday in Australia, I managed to bend myself over a railing out of a hot tub and basically hung upside down for my spouse at the time. New is FUN!!!

What Turns Me On

I almost always am submissive in my sex life. Because that personally is what turns me on. There have been times though where I can get carried away and take control and do my own thing. But if I have a good dominant man there’s never a lack of action for me to even get the chance to.

Try This Position for Deeper Penetration

There’s a couple of different positions you could try for that. I happen to really enjoy doggy style but you have to spread your legs out as wide as you can and keep your chest to the bed or ground wherever you’re at so your back is arched as much as possible. It makes for deeper penetration and also I think it’s more fun for the guy to admire the curve of your body and grip your hips and ass better.

I also really like going from missionary to my legs up over my head almost bent into a pretzel position, because with the right movement, a guy can hit your g-spot, NO PROBLEM and it feels amazing.

A Great Position To Give Blowjobs

I actually think it’s best when the guy is sitting on the edge of a couch or loveseat leaning back.

I think you can get the most movement out of that position. It gives you access to his entire shaft and balls which is ideal for a great blowjob! What I like most about that position though is that it’s not too hard on your body or joints so you can stay there FOREVER giving your man the best head he’s ever had. I’ve easily given hour long blowjobss that way!

The Most Challenging Sex Position Ever

Hmmm… the most challenging position would have to be doing anything covered in baby oil!!! In theory it looks amazing and it’s great when you’ve got some way to brace yourself. But if you’re on a smooth surface, you get no traction and you’re all over the place! Hahaha. Great workout though!

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January 6, 2016
3 Favorite Sex Positions for Orgasm
I enjoy sex and on a scale off 1-10…. it’s an 11 for sure. It may be my age (that I will never tell :)) but if sex were offered on a daily basis or hourly, I’m in!!! 🙂

How many different positions I try before reaching an orgasm depends on the guy. I have had a few partners where I have came from only trying one position. Those guys had larger cocks but am not dismissing the ones with smaller ones. On average, I would have to say that I try two or more positions before cumming. My favorite happens to be on top!

Recommended sex positions to enjoy the following sensations
- Deeper penetration for him
I would say from behind (doggie style), that way he can spread her ass cheeks and get as deep as he wants.

But from a personal experience, I found the deepest penetration was when he grabbed my hips and pulled me back towards him as hard as he could while in the same position.
- To make your vagina feel tighter
I am a strong believer in Kegel exercises so I feel that it is a huge part in making the vagina feel tighter for the man. But for a sex position I would have to say that the woman laying on her stomach with legs closed and the man on top, behind her thrusting makes her feel tighter for him.
- To reach your G-Spot
I would have to recommend what I call the “Cowgirl” position. This position gives me, the female, all control on how deep or shallow the penetration is. On that note, in some cases, it depends on the size of the mans’ cock. The bigger the less penetration, or the smaller the deeper the penetration. From personal experience, for the man to reach the G-Spot would be a good 6 to 8 inch curved up cock.

3 of my favorite sex positions
- Doggie Style
I have always loved this position for the deep penetration that I get, from the deep hard thrusts. I have always found the best place for this position is on the floor for total control from the man. For the nights that I want to be dominated. I think to make this position kinky or kinkier is to bring in some props like a dog collar, a whip and of course a nice ass spanking as I love those.
- Women on top (cowgirl)
This is my favorite of all time. Two variations to this are the “cowgirl” and the “reverse cowgirl” and in doing either, I have full and total control of my man. Anything I may choose to do to him…… I can spur him with my heels, pinch his nipples and pull his hair but best of all I can take all of his cock deep inside me and watch him squirm. This position can be carried out anywhere and anytime. My experience was in the honeymoon capital of the world, Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada with my boyfriend (at the time) at dusk on one of the lookout towers. It made me so hot. Thought we were going to get caught a few times because people were staring and pointing but we continued anyway, finished and went on our way. It was amazing!
- Standing
I love this one because the tables are turned and the man is now in control of you. pushing you against the wall from behind or in front. It can be a passionate love making position but then it can be a dirty kinky position also. I myself like the dirty kinky, I leave the missionary for the passion. The dirtier the better, any wall will do for this position, your man grabs you, pulls your pants down or your skirt up slides your panties to the side and takes you. Any time, any where, all you need is a wall. My boyfriend couldn’t wait one night to get back to the hotel room so the hallway was our wall, very dirty and kinky considering there are cameras in the hallways. We did get kicked out of that hotel that night, but what a night to remember:).

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