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How To Dirty Talk Before & During Sex

I LOVE SEX! I’m an International Companion/Escort so my life is sex, and great sex might I add. Sex brings all types of people together and makes the world go around! I was raised in a Catholic, strict household and I knew from the moment I was a little girl and saw these beautiful glamour icons and how sexy they were that I wanted to be in the sex industry and lavished by men all around the world!

What I Love About Dirty Talk

Dirty talk is one of my favorite foreplay methods and I think when done correctly it can instantly make sex so much hotter! Personally I’m very submissive, so dominant dirty talk drives me wild! Men love dirty talk because they are very visual and hands on therefore, engaging in dirty talk just adds to the experience for them, and assures them, they are doing a great job.

How To Incorporate Dirty Talk Into Foreplay

Dirty talk is THE BEST prior to sex and foreplay because it sets the mood and gives the other real assurance that he/she is ready and wants you. I find it best to incorporate while kissing and lightly touching by whispering in his ear something you can’t wait to do to him and invite him to the bedroom. Once we get to the bedroom and foreplay starts being initiated, that’s when I personally go full fledge on the dirty talk and it sends men wild EVERY TIME.

Favorite Dirty Talk Lines

I have a whole little black book of dirty talk slurs I say during sex and depending on the man and the mood is how I choose what to say. However, some of my favorite lines are: “Please come fuck me”, “fuck me harder/deeper”, “I can’t wait to deep throat you”, “oh my god your cock fits perfect in my mouth” and my personal favorite “choke me, spank me, pull my hair”.

Possible Dirty Talk Mistakes

Make sure you know/have a feeling of what he/she’s into. Don’t be too technical, just let your mind wander and be free. Don’t think about it so much, usually just saying what you can’t wait to do to him/her will work with a little personal twist to make it genuine and sexy!

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September 24, 2018
How to dirty talk during sex without offending her

I like to have dirty talk during sex but am afraid of getting carried away. Will she be turned off or offended if I started calling her a slut or dirty whore in the midst of it?

Dirty talk can be fun and there are many different forms of it. The type of “degrading dirty talk” you mention – telling your partner they are “dirty” or “a slut” is one type that some people enjoy. Another type of dirty talk can be more “in the moment, descriptive” – saying out loud what you are physically doing to your partner, what you want them to do, what you would like to do to them (“I want to f*ck you so hard, I want to put my tongue there,” etc.).

An essential element when using dirty talk to make sure that your partner won’t be turned off or offended (or potentially traumatized) is to ask for their consent. Before you start engaging physically, mention that you enjoy dirty talk and maybe give an example of the things you like to say. Allow your partner time to consider if this is okay and to let you know if they are into it as well. If they are not comfortable with being called specific things, trying the more “in the moment descriptive” type of dirty talk might be more comfortable.

It’s important to also make it clear that if your partner is uncomfortable at any time during the dirty talk that they can communicate this to you and you honor that by stopping. By “putting it out there” beforehand you are also emphasizing that this is something that turns you on sexually and is not a fundamental truth (i.e. you do not in reality believe she is a dirty whore).

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Elizabeth is a Clinical Psychologist and psychotherapist in Washington State. She provides therapy and consultation to individuals and couples and is working to become an AASECT-certified Sex Therapist. Her primary interests are romantic and sexual relationships, sexual empowerment and education, the dynamics of communication, and reducing stigma around issues of sexuality and mental health. Get in touch with Elizabeth via email at drelizabethwatt@gmail.com.

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April 24, 2016
Let the Dirty Talks Boost Your Sex Life

“Make love to me honey” or “Fuck the shit out of me”. Which is the best way to tell your man (or woman) what you want them to do to you?

In my experience, there is a time for everything. After a romantic night out and cuddling up on the sofa, maybe the first option is the better. Then again, what if you just met someone in a club and you are both a little tipsy and you can feel his hard on through his jeans just waiting to get into you, then the second option might be the better one.

I have always been outspoken and never afraid of telling men what I wanted and how I wanted it. Even when I was in my early twenties I would surprise my boyfriend with romantic outcries like “stick that thing in me baby” or “take me harder”, or even a “let me taste you”. A lot of times these little things made the man look at me in confusion and sometimes I could spot a bit of fear in his face, like if he was thinking; “what kind of porn actress have I got here?” I was actually dumped by a guy because he couldn’t handle my choice of words.

This brings up the topic of this article; when is it appropriate to use those strong adjectives?

In my experience it’s all about the situation and what kind of guy you are with. Like I mentioned in the beginning, if you are having a romantic evening and have just come home, then it might be better to use some softer language. At the same time, if you have just met someone, there might also be a good reason to be careful of the words you use; you don’t want to give the wrong impression on your first date, even though your body screams for him to take you hard against that cold backstreet wall.

When you have a stable relationship it is always fun to mix it up a bit. I used to date this guy and we had a little game going. When he would pick me up for a night out I would always greet him at the door dressed to kill. High heels, short skirt, make up and the sexy lingerie. I would then invite him in for a drink and just before leaving he would fuck me against my kitchen table. Just pull up my skirt and stick it in me. Meanwhile we would both be using some very juicy words. Why did we do it like that? Well, we were both working stressful jobs and I guess it was a way to get rid of the build up from the week to be able to relax together.

Men watch and read more porn than women do, and in porn the girls almost always use some pretty dirty language. For younger guys this might make them believe that is the way a woman should be in bed. Wrong. If a man makes us hot enough we will, out of pure horniness come out with some very detailed adjectives on what we would like him to do to us.

In the end, it’s all about the situation and the company you have, but never be afraid to let go of that hidden porn actress deep inside you and let your man know that you want him to make you scream like never before.

Regards

Natasha

February 27, 2014