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  • Big is Sexy – BBW is In!

    Big is Sexy – BBW is In!

    The definition of a feeder is usually a male who likes to encourage weight gain in his partner through the consumption of food. Feeders differ from FA (fat admirer), whilst an FA is attracted to big girls, a feeder gets turned on by making a thin girl fat … or a big girl even bigger. Every feeder has a ideal weight they fantasize about fattening a girl up to. Some want to see how the body grows and expands and where all the fat goes, will it go to her butt or belly or boobs? Will the fat be hard or soft and jiggly. Its a love affair with the actual fat on her growing body.

    Then there are the guys who want to immobilize a girl by getting her too fat for her body to handle. These guys like girls around 150 lbs to start gaining weight till they are 500 or 600 lbs. This happens but is really rare, it is mostly a fantasy or the girls who gain stop gaining after a certain point. This is perhaps the more controversial part of the BBW (big beautiful woman) niche because the guys really like the woman to be so fat they cannot move. However, not every fat admirer likes feeding, its a very niche part of being a BBW, but it sells the most because not many girls are willing to gain weight.

    My personal experience with gaining is a little different. I don’t have one specific feeder who wants me to gain or achieve a goal weight. I just eat what I want when I want and do not stress about my size. I have gained around 90 lbs over the last three years in the industry. I went from 190 lbs to about 230 lbs when I first entered the industry and found the fetish. Then I became pregnant so my body naturally gained weight and I was about 260 lbs after. With the birth control I started on after I delivered, I gained about 20 lbs, which my doctor said is very normal. Through out my weight gain, I have dominated my niche with two AVN nominations for BBW of the year, five nominations for BBW fanfest awards, and modeling for Hustler and Evil Angel. Apart from that, I produce a lot of content for other BBWs and myself to sell on our personal sites. I tend to do a lot of weighing videos where I am stepping on the scale. The video clips are about two mins per weigh in and I have one of the top selling BBW site in the world. Its so simple and my fans love it. Realistically, I have gained all that I can so I am shooting on other fetishes as well.

    Men have all kinds of fetishes and nuances in all those particularities. The BBW niche is no exception. There are all kinds of belly play, slapping, rough, punching, jiggling, fucking the actual belly fat or belly button fucking. I recently shot a hot boy girl scene for a site called plumperpass with the legendary Shane Diesel and belly play is a staple in their shooting routine. His monster cock was buried in my belly button and my fans went crazy for it. I love it when my man worships every inch of my body and my stomach is no exception. That is what belly play is all about, kissing and caressing another part of your BBW partner’s body that you enjoy. Most women are so self conscious of their mid-section but body acceptance actually begins inside yourself, and having your partner eagerly accepting your whole body makes it easier.

    My take on all of it really is that everyone has some kink. Whether it is liking blondes or fake tits or fat girls, everyone has a right to enjoy their preferences without chastisement as long as all parties are willing. We are all adults after all. Does me being fat and having a good sex life take away from your ability to do the same? Happy fucking!

    Check out SimplySxy’s other two featured articles by BBW’s Kimmie Kaboom and Sarah Reign

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  • Of Ravishing BBW

    Of Ravishing BBW

    When emailed about writing an article for SimplySxy the topic was “Why sex is more fun with BBWs”, I wasn’t exactly comfortable with it and I am grateful that SimplySxy was so flexible in allowing me to approach this topic my way.  Mostly because I think it is unfair and even a bit egomaniacal for one to think that sex with a particular body type is better than another body type or is it? If there is anything I have learned over the years and especially since beginning my porn career is that there is a niche for everyone.

    Big beautiful woman (BBW) being one of those niches and with that being said it hasn’t always been socially acceptable. Looking back 10–15 years ago, BBW were not as mainstream as they are today. For that, all of us as well as myself should be very grateful that wonderful BBWs like Sam38G and Ms. Maria Moore opened those doors and paved the way for other BBWs. Not just for those of us in the porn industry but for all women, they helped bring out the sexiness in all of us. They helped break through those society based stereotypes and showed everyone that yes, the chubby, the BBW can be sexy. They can be desired by men and even women for that matter. I love being a BBW, especially in porn. I feel more sexy, more desired, more wanted and even more self confident than I ever have.IMG_1522

    Basically I guess what I feel is that BBWs and Barbie doll types (for lake of a better phrase) are like any other fetish or genre for men and women to lust after. I don’t think that I or any other women hold the key, magic spell or potion for the holy grail of sex. I think that having self confidence in who you are and knowing what you desire and those desires of your partner are what makes for the best sex ever.

    I didn’t want to write this without getting my husband, Mr. KaBoom’s opinion as I felt that a male perspective was important. He said that he feels the reasons he has always liked the BBW is their voluptuous figure and their boobs of course, spoken like a true boob man. Again, feeding into that niche or genre. When asking other male opinions, I was disappointed to learn that many men prey on the BBW or SSBBW types because many of these women have low self esteem and feel the need to please and be completely submissive or less likely to say “NO” to some things in the bedroom. The same men also told me that they felt they didn’t have anything to prove either. That they too, felt the pressure of being “society” perfect to obtain the “society” perfect women. I really didn’t want to believe this so I went to a few women I knew to get their take on this. I did indeed, learn that three of the four I spoke with confirmed some of the things the men told me. They said they didn’t feel like body wise, they lived up to other society based women (barbie dolls) and that giving in to sexual requests and being submissive in the bedroom gave them that sense of control and self esteem. Therefore, empowering them and making them feel dominant in the bedroom.

    Which leaves me asking “Is sex more fun with a BBW?” I know that since I have been in the porn business, my husband and my sex life has been even better than before, NOT that there was anything wrong with it before. We have always had a healthy sex life and still do. The thing is that with all the popularity with my work and ever growing fan base, it has only increased my self confidence and has made me feel more comfortable in my own skin. So, perhaps sex with us BBWs are more fun. And husbands out there, remember that when your barbie doll wife bares your children and gains an extra 40 pounds over the course of your marriage. Remember sex isn’t dead but can actually just be getting good, perhaps even the best of your life 😉

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