Sex or sexual intercourse is always hot and steamy on the first or maybe second time but what comes after is the mundane routine of in and out and in and out and … well … you get the idea. So I begin to wonder what can be done to spice up the relationship … sexually. So I asked around, including Mr. Google, and did some exploration (with my partner of course) and tried many possible kinky moves, which led me to some sassy information to share with all of you.
Rope & Blindfold Playing
The run-of-the-mill being tied up and blindfolded works almost every time as my partner pretends to be a pervasive intruder exploring every part of my body, looking for spots that sends my body tingling with joy. The moans and screams (at times) serve as human radar for him to know if he is near or reaching a g-spot. It is most exciting when he hits a spot that makes me go “woah” without any anticipation as he maneuvers along my body.
Sexual Role-play
Expanding from that, role-playing can really unleash one’s creativity to the max where anything and everything is possible. Combinations can include soldier vs. prisoner, police vs. robber, king vs. jester, kidnapper vs. kidnapee, pilot vs. air-steward, servant vs. gardener, bellboy vs. hotel guest, power ranger vs. monster and many more. While the possibilities are infinite, please do not engage in dangerous acts such hanging down from ceiling with ropes of questionable quality, or banging too hard and causing the bed to fall apart. On top of which, there are many shops out there that offer rental of costumes at pretty affordable rates.
While much of these information can be found online, some things can be discovered as gays … oops I mean days go by.
Blow Cock Blow
Don’t be stingy with the blowjobs, really, as I’ve never seen anything works better than a good blowjob. When I say blowjob, one does not simply wrap da mouth on the cock and suck away. Treat the cock like an UFO that you want to explore every inch of before you start the engine. Move from the “cock-pit” to the “opening” and slowly give the touch-and-go with the tongue, as if things will go haywire when the tongue stays too long. Following which, the exploration of sides, top and bottom is important before embarking on the journey to orgasm.
All About Positioning
While a business shop front is about location, location and location, bedtime sex front is all about position, position and position. With two sticks and two holes, the permutations and combinations of positions is almost limitless. While doggy is the preferred position for most, missionary, 69 and see-saw seem to work better for me and my boo. No one position fits all; there is always a preferred position for each couple.
The Don’ts
Exploring is important, but there are boundaries that one should not cross. I have seen a few examples of kinky games gone wrong (not by me though) and I sure hope the below will serve as a caution and reminder here.
- Melted hot sugar is not like wax as they retain heat much longer. Thus, can cause a nasty burn or even peelings when poured onto bare skin.
- Handcuffs are harder to take off in time and emergencies which can put one in dangerous position. Just stick to ropes, we are not really kidnapping anyway.
- Don’t use toys too often as they can be cause infections and STIs if not sanitized properly, resulting in nasty rashes and skin problems.
- Threesomes break up more relationships than enhancing them, no one who loves their partner deeply will want to see them being penetrated or penetrating another person.
- Please leave live animals alone as they are not meant to be involved in anything sexual with humans.
- NEVER EVER use drugs or pills as they impair one’s judgment. The greatest medicine for sex is love and nothing beats that.
What works for me and my partner is not universal, and so it is important for two people in love to explore what is best for them and what takes them to the next level of the relationship, sexually … *wink*
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