How To Enjoy Solo Masturbation with Sex Toys

I think masturbation is the first frontier on sex for a lot of us. We become curious at some point, and begin to wander. Our minds and bodies align at some point, probably when we figure out how to orgasm (haha) and the curiosity turns into a drive….a hunger for more and a desire to explore this personally uncharted territory so that we can become more in tune with ourselves. I think it is wonderful. Using certain methods, sexual energy can be a powerful tool for humans.

My Masturbation Journey…

Honestly, the first time I penetrated myself using a household object, I was young. I got a vibrator as a gift from a client when I was 18 and I LOVED it. Bullets were my new best friend until someone purchased me a MAGIC WAND. Such a life changing device haha.

This year, I finally got into self-penetration and using a variety of sex toys I had never known existed. It has been a magical experience and I am quite happy with how much experience and practice I have with adult toys.

My Favorite Sex Toys

I have around 30 toys now, and it is a growing collection! I have non-binary adult toys, toys for vaginas, toys for cocks and balls, I have some BDSM gear like strap-ons, and so much more!

My favorite is probably this realistic feeling dildo I have. It used to be my Jopen Vibrator but that has been replaced with a small cordless magic wand from Fondlove.

Advantages Of Using A Toy During Masturbation

Well, I know exactly how to use both the dildo and the wand in a way that I can achieve the most EXPLOSIVE orgasms ever! I also was finally able to make myself squirt on camera, thanks to the combination of both!

It’s great to experiment with different pieces, however, I like to get things done if you know what I mean, so I typically use my faves!

Favorite Positions & Techniques

I like to lay back, get comfy…maybe watch some porn, not needed if I am really horny haha…and I start off slower and increase speed and motion until I feel it about to explode.

Sometimes, I will edge myself a bit and delay the orgasm so that it is SUPER intense. I usually have my legs up when I masturbate alone as I do when I film for my sites!

Sex Toy Tips For Beginners

I suggest finding out exactly what you like! The buttons you press to turn yourself on, the unique way you need to be loved and touched to achieve orgasm.

Then find toys that mimic what it is you like! Anal? Butt plugs, or beads! Maybe a nice soft dildo! Maybe you like BIG ONES!! There is a huge selection of body safe toys and lube out there so don’t be shy, give ’em all a try!

And remember, clean and sanitize your toys before and after use!

Jada Silk – Alternative Model, Stripper, Phone Sex Operator and Adult Content Creator, I have been in the Sex Work industry since I was 18. Over 15 years of professional adult entertainment under my belt, and I am learning, growing and loving the industry more every day. Look forward to the future! TheJadaSilkShow.com has all my social media links and content! Follow me and Subscribe!

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