Month: December 2019

As a free spirited and libertarian man, I believe that sex work is one of the most emancipating profession that exists. Although it is still highly stigmatized around the world, the proper practice of this line of work can bring personal enjoyment and satisfaction, a modest financial freedom, various travelling opportunities, flexibility in your work/personal life schedule and most importantly, the ability to be your own King or Queen and think for yourself.

To outlaw forms of sex work is a moral and idiocratic crime, as no one is more deemed competent and rightful than the sex worker himself or herself to judge what he or she wishes to do with his or her body, mind and soul.

Challenges I Faced When I Started Out

As a heterosexual male escort, becoming legitimate in the industry is very challenging, and in many cases, most newcomers don’t last too long, or are perceived as a joke. There is countless amount of currencies worldwide readily available to female sex workers of all body types, ethnicities, age and social echelon. That statement is quite the opposite for male sex workers, especially if they wish to only see female clients.

Without the right networks, it does take time to brand yourself in a recognizable fashion, and the cities where a male sex worker can successfully work out of are usually limited to the greater metropolitan areas.

Although it was an uphill battle, I was able to establish my presence in the industry for over five years. Having the right networks, being fit and attractive, being multilingual and well-spoken and being creative and versatile in ways to work and advertise myself were just a few staples required to stay relevant in this industry. All gigs matter, and so do their subsequent reviews or impressions. Repeat clientele for male sex workers is, in my humble opinion, 10-100 times more important than they are for female sex workers, as the volume of opportunities for a male sex worker is 10-100 times lesser than it is for a female sex worker.

The Competitive Male Escort Business

The male escort business can be unpredictable. There are various niche avenues in which a male sex worker can practice his line of work, thus affecting the level of competition in a given city. In most cases, a male sex worker will have solid competition in major cities, especially if he is catering to women specifically. Unfortunately, too many male escorts are calling themselves as such only to attempt to have free sex with women. Some ads on leolist.cc are even worded in that way. Generally speaking, too many legitimate or amateur male escorts sell themselves short, which in consequence artificially boosts competition and attracts undesirable clientele.

To be successful, you have to be patient, fit, clever, healthy and show no sign of desperation (even if they exist). It might take some time, but the right clientele will seek out a respectable required donation for quality services. Having another way to generate income in the beginning and even throughout your escort career is highly recommended. Personally, I have accounting and financial skills and education, which have proven to be very useful in this line of work and on their own.

As for ways to advertise for clientele, I often have been more creative than just setting up an ad to sell a date or sex to women. Providing striptease for an event (bachelorette, birthday or divorce party), seeing couples, accepting men who wish to be a voyeur of a sex act performed by myself and a female sex worker or even seeing men on a platonic basis were ways to not have a going concern for myself in this industry.

Are Male & Female Escorts Viewed & Treated Differently?

Male escorts are generally less stigmatized than female escorts. However, female escorts often generate more revenues than male escorts. Female escorts have endless work and travel opportunities if they advertise themselves properly, but are also faced with much more dangerous situations and surroundings than male escorts.

To my understanding, a female escort’s body is more important to the male client than a male escort’s body is to the female client. This is a parallel to the normal dating scene, where ladies are often more objectified than men. Where male clients often seek out a sexual release, female clients would often rather have a unique rapport with genuine reciprocity, in which some various particular forms of intimacy may occur.

Misconceptions About Escorts & Male Escorts

Still to this day, many escorts are considered to be desperately in need of currency to fulfill a form of addiction. Although this stereotype can be true at times, the spiritual and legal liberation of forms of sex trade are helping for this stereotype to slowly go away.

Other misconceptions or preconceived thoughts can also be the following:

– The escort is not an intelligent person or only has his or her body to offer.

– The escort is being pimped and has no greater purpose or goals in life.

– The escort (especially male escorts) is a thug and is bating the client into a financial or blackmail trap.

– The escort carries countless amount of sexually transmitted diseases.

– The escort has no chance of living a conventional life in the future.

All of these misconceptions can easily be refuted with theoretical and practical arguments. But in the end, it is simply best to be abundant in all spheres of your sex trade and strive to build an impeccable reputation, so that actions and behavior demolish the misconceptions.

Advice For Aspiring Male Escorts

My general advice would be for any interested man to seriously reflect on why he is considering becoming a male escort, and also think about what he is bringing to the table and willing to do in order to be successful. Here are five sub topics to consider prior to joining the industry.

1. Do you simply intend to have free sex with women? Go on Tinder or Bumble.
2. Are you only in it for the money? There many other ways to reach financial freedom.
3. Do you have innate personable qualities, such as hearing skills, patience, charisma, humor and diverse forms of intelligence? This line of work is more multidisciplinary than the average person may realize.
4. Are you living a healthy and balanced lifestyle? You must, if you wish to last in this industry. If you have drug or alcohol addictions, you should be cautious.
5. Would you consider seeing men on an intimate basis, even if you are heterosexual? This is a very personal question, and the answer may differ from a man to another and also depending on what the rapport is between him and the male client.

---

Romulus – Greetings, ladies. I aim to please. I am a French Canadian educated gentleman. I am happy to provide you with the most upscale companionship for you to have a memorable time. I pride myself in being your emotional and sexual healer, as well as being a devoted conversationalist.

Discretion is a two-way street. Although I am based in Ottawa, I do travel several times per year to Montreal, Vancouver and Toronto.

Follow Romulus on

Twitter: @ChivalrousRom

Strip-o-gram gigs: indulgeexoticdancers.com

Male escort ad: https://www.leolist.cc/personals/male-escorts/greater-toronto/city_toronto_to_dec_5_10_chivalrous_romulus_women_only-4766087

Upcoming Tours:

I am touring in Montreal from Dec 27-31, as my Twitter and leolist.cc ad both indicate.

The rest of my tour is as follows:

• Ottawa Jan 1-6
• Toronto Jan 7-19
• Vancouver Jan 20-27

Ladies of the industry! Are you feeling physically and emotionally overworked and tired? Romulus can be at the rescue and spoil you with a nonreciprocal massage with strong hands and lavish oil! All of this at the comfort of your incall location… gift yourself! $120/h

Is your friend’s bachelorette event, birthday party or divorce celebration coming up? Don’t hesitate to book her a surprise strip-o-gram cowboy, policeman, fireman or spartan! Give the gift of seduction and tease to your best friend… or to yourself!

---

Article images from Romulus

Like to be featured on SimplySxy? Drop us an email at editorial@SimplySxy.com!