I grew up in a Christian household where I was expected to follow the teachings of Jesus. No drinking, no drugs, no sex. Read: no fun. I started rebelling in grade 11 when I first drank, smoked marijuana, and lost my virginity to my boyfriend.
Since my upbringing, my personal views on sex have done a complete 180. I think sex is great as long as it is completely consensual from foreplay to pillow talk.
My First Orgasm Experience
I realized that I was in the middle of my first orgasm because of how amazing it felt. I had never felt anything like it before and it paled in comparison to what I had previously mistaken for orgasms.
Orgasms feel different for everybody. For me, it starts in my throat. It feels almost as if a cigarette is being ashed in my throat. It’s not painful at all, but the sensation builds and builds until my body tenses during climax and then finally relaxes.
Is Having An Orgasm Important?
Having an orgasm is not crucial to me whenever I’m having a sexual encounter. In my personal life, sex is more about a personal connection — and since I only had my first orgasm a few months ago, it doesn’t frustrate me when my partner can’t get me to climax. I’m still figuring out how to do it too!
At work, I focus more on the client and whether or not they are going to orgasm.
Exploring My Orgasm Journey
Since experiencing my first orgasm, I’m dedicated to finding what works for me. I’m exploring all the different ways I can be brought to climax: using toys, receiving oral sex, and digital penetration.
What Do Men Not Get About Orgasms?
What men typically don’t understand about the elusive female orgasm is that every woman is different, therefore there is no one way to make all women come. Another thing is that female orgasms take time. I always compare it to a kitchen appliance… the oven has to be pre-heated before anything else! We take some time to warm up and get fully aroused.
Tips To Have Your First Orgasm
For any lady who has yet to have an orgasm, don’t give up. It took me eight years of being sexually active until I climaxed! Be creative, buy a toy, buy another toy, have your partner touch you in so many different ways until it starts to feel great. When you finally come, you’ll be so happy you did.
Brie is a budding MA in the Canadian capital. She is sexy, sweet, fit, and fun with a smile to die for. You can reach her via Twitter (@Brie_CMJ), email (BrieCMJ@gmail.com), or text (613-604-6665). She would love to share her body and mind with you.
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