Sex is amazing. It can teach you so many things about yourself and others that words can have a hard time quantifying. Sex has an incredible way of bringing people closer physically, mentally, and emotionally in ways nothing else in this life can really match. All with the added plus of being fun and feeling amazing.
Defining A Good Sexual Experience
Any consensual sexual experience in which the participants come away from it having had an enjoyable, pleasurable, or informative time is a good sexual experience in my eyes.
How Long Sex Should Last
In a general sense, anywhere from 30-40 minutes makes for a great time. It allows time for foreplay, as well as both partners wants and needs being fulfilled, multiple times over. On the rare occasion, with the right partner, hours can make for the right amount of time.
And sometimes 5-7 minutes for a “quickie” is all you need. It really just depends on the mood!
As far as lasting longer goes, I’d really advocate learning as much as you can about your body and how far your sexual stamina extends. Explore and find where your “point of no return” is and what exactly gets you there. Once you have a grasp on that sensation, it’s just a matter of pacing yourself. It’s completely okay to slow down or even stop completely, and move to oral sex/using your hands/what have you to give yourself time to recuperate.
What Men Don’t Get
The gripe that I’ve heard most revolves around foreplay. Lots of men seem to want to jump right in and get off to the races. Take your time, everyone involved will be more thankful for it in the end.
Tips To Give Her An Amazing Time
It’s highly dependent on the individual and what their preferences are/what gets them off. I’ll always discuss beforehand what sensations they enjoy most, and try to center the experience around that.
Ways To Kink Sex Up
I don’t know if I’d say that I’m “experimental” necessarily, but I’m always up for trying new things and fulfilling fantasies, especially if a partner is keen on it. Kind of like a human “choose your adventure” book. I’m a big pleaser in life, and I’m always trying to make people happy, which definitely translates into sex.
As far as trying to spice things up goes, communicate with your partner/s. Ask them if there are things they’d like to try, or tell them if you have things you’d like to. It all boils back down to communication.
Oliver Davis – Hey! I’m Oliver Davis. I’m a content creator and performer based out of Las Vegas, who’s been involved in the industry for nearly two years.
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