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Choosing Mr. Naughty VS Mr. Nice

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Choosing Mr. Naughty VS Mr. Nice

The divorce has passed and she has let go … she has a new attitude and outlook on life.

There is no reason to be in a hurry to meet The One. Now, is an exciting time for a woman to experience her sexuality in this new frontier, “The Dating World“.

It is much different for her now, the goal of dating after divorce is not primarily to find a husband or a man to father her children but to experience something new. Moving on with her life does not mean forgetting about what she has had, it is about having those memories and moving forward, knowing more about life and relationships and who she is.

Now she can have fun and experiences the joy of being with someone with no pressure. No pressure to perform, no pressure to please, no pressure to have children …No pressure to satisfy what society or her mother would deem as ’normal’. Now it’s her time.

As a clinical sexologist, and relationship coach, I counsel many divorced women. These women that have gotten through the divorce are now experiencing a new confidence and excitement about dating again with a new sense of freedom. It is no longer just about finding Mr. Right. It is about the freedom to choose…and choosing Mr. Naughty is not a bad choice!

Mr. Naughty is all about fun, romance and passion. Mr. Naughty wants to enjoy all that she and life has to offer with no strings attached to him. Mr. Naughty is free, fun and fabulous. Great conversation, great company and great sex. He is an amazing boost and will truly appreciate all of the beauty she possesses while he possesses her. He will take her dining, dancing, show her off and be at her beck and call for all of her womanly needs. He is strong, good looking, polished and always knows what to say, what to do and, oh yes, how to do it! He is so bad that he is good, and so good to be with. He wants no ties or commitments. He is certainly not the type to ’settle down’. Keeping that in mind, she can truly have fun with her naughty friend, just beware of falling for Mr. Naughty, this can be disastrous.

Don’t forget that this relationship started off being just for the fun, the freedom and the equal understanding of the fun and the freedom. It was never meant to be permanent! Falling for Mr. Naughty while thinking he is Mr. Right can only lead her to frustration and confusion. Have fun with Mr. Naughty but not a commitment that is saved for Mr. Right. Even if it takes her a few Mr. Naughty’s before she is ready for Mr. Right again, she will experience the freedom of her 40s!


 This article has been republished with permission from Dr. Dawn Michael.


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Dr. Dawn Michael

Dawn is a Certified Clinical Sexologist and Intimacy Counselor. Her proven techniques have helped thousands of couples to not only improve their sex lives but the intimacy in their marriage as well. Promoting healthy sexuality and sex positive views for couples and individuals is one of Dawn’s passions. Dawn uses a holistic approach with her patients providing help with sexual dysfunction, age related sexual health, lack of desire and hormone related issues, working with other practitioners to find solutions to all sexual related problems.

Dawn is a public speaker and educator providing information on women’s and men’s sexual health issues. She is a professional member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS). Dawn is presently completing her doctoral studies at The Institute For Advanced Study of Human Sexuality.

A professional writer with several hundred published articles in the field of human sexuality, relationships, and sexual health. She has been a featured guest on the Ricki Lake show, Dr. Susan Block show, Playboy Radio, Howard Bragman radio, Houzz publications, Corset Magazine, Your Health Connection Magazine, PsychCentral, eHarmoney, Wellness and YourTango to name a few. Dawn is a writer for the L.A. Love & Marriage Examiner.

Get in touch with Dawn via email at dawnm42@gmail.com

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