I’m about liberation. Sex is beautiful, magical, creative… it is one of the most important things in life.
I have always enjoyed exploring my personal fetishes. The earliest example of this I can remember is secretly wearing black lace stockings and suspenders under my school uniform when I was a teenager. No-one else knew that they were there, but just feeling them could help me feel good and have a better day.
Fetishes I Love
My list of personal fetishes includes certain kinds of lingerie, bondage, foot worship, and certain fabrics. They may sound a little disparate, but in my mind, they overlap perfectly.
I love to wear erotic vintage lingerie in sensual fabrics that look and feel good, like satin or tulle. Corsets, girdles and deep suspender belts are a beautiful examples of a kind of bondage worked into an everyday garment that you could wear to a church picnic, if you wanted to – they are not restricted to the bedroom, but that sense of physical restriction when you wear them is an echo of rope bondage. I love classic rope bondage and associate it with the 50s, when every woman wore fabulously sexy lingerie as a matter of course.
I am so in love with foot play, vintage lingerie, stockings, bondage, satin, sheer clothing and high heels that I am going to make separate websites dedicated to each! I just can’t get enough.
I never put off trying a new fetish. Why wait? If something looks like it might be fun, I want to try it. I did a photo shoot for Time Out London where I was dressed as a latex cat and led around Paddington Station in London on a collar and led by a beautiful blonde journalist.
Sex & Fetishes
I don’t see sex and fetish as two separate parts of my life; they are part of my everyday life and who I am. I’m not like, “Tonight is vanilla sex night. We’ll do fetish stuff tomorrow, darling.” Very few people only want to have missionary sex with the lights off and nothing else. Everyone likes something special – everyone is a fetishist.
Anita De Bauch is an international retro fetish, pin-up and nude model with distinctive red hair, white skin, blue eyes and red lipstick. As well as writing a book on modelling and doing a little acting here and there, Anita likes to collect skyscraper high heels, fully fashioned seamed nylon stockings, tightlacing corsets and vintage erotic novels.
Anita’s fetish sites will eventually be linked from anitadebauch.com when they are up and running. Follow her on social media for updates. To buy a pair of Anita’s worn stockings, visit anitadebauch.com/site/stockings.