My once conventional views on sex have definitely been altered since becoming a sex worker. Once an underutilized tool, it now stands central to my business. Sex is more than the process of intercourse. For me it encapsulates an entire myriad of stages, from the tiniest of details during preparation, the development of anticipation and the unfolding of foreplay. I’ve just made it sound all so mechanical, but I assure you I savor every element.
What Is A Prostate Massage
The male prostate gland is the like the female G-spot for men. It’s sometimes called the P-spot. Stimulating the prostate can give (some) men intense pleasure. It’s not for all men though, and sometimes it takes a little practice. I prefer using my index or middle finger when massaging, as I can feel for the correct spot and know how much pressure I’m giving. Alternatively I use anal toys, vibrators and strap-ons too.
Why Men Love It
It’s another level of sensation. Not having my own prostate, though I can only compare to anal play on myself, a pleasurable yet more intense feeling than vaginal play. Prostate massages are often an accompaniment to a hand-job or blowjob, and results in a heightened experience. For those men who haven’t tried a prostate massage yet, or who are apprehensive about it, I would suggest having your perineum massaged. This area between your package and your anus responds well to gentle and firm massages. Often while giving a blowjob, I will caress the perineum with my thumb, and the reactions are nearly always positive. In other cases the man has no idea what I’m doing, they just know it feels good!
One Thing To Do Before A Prostate Massage
It seems obvious, but use the toilet before you plan on receiving prostate massage. Then a good clean is appreciated. You can place a condom or glove on your finger and insert it into the anus, swirling it around to remove any ‘debris’. Have a hot, soapy shower and wipe down the area thoroughly.
Why I Love Giving Prostate Massages
I’ve never thought about the answer to this question in such detail. Usually, it’s because I enjoy watching the fierce pleasure the man receives. I guess it also has something to do with it not being mainstream for a lot of men, as it’s something a little different. I enjoy being the one to take a man’s ‘anal virginity’. It’s about having that power and watching them relish in the experience, they’re almost vulnerable in a way.
On To The Deed!
No matter if the gentlemen I’m offering a prostate massage to is experienced or not, I would start of slow, with lots of gentle touching and rubbing of the sphincter. Of course with plenty of lube! The more the anus is aroused the easier it is to insert a finger. I would never shove a whole finger into the anus at once, even on an experienced player. Slow and steady is the way to go, with regular reapplications of lube. To increase pleasure, I may use my thumb or alternate hand to massage the perineum simultaneously, or to caress the penis, either via a hand job or blowjob.
Enjoy The Moment
It can last anywhere from a few minutes to an entire session depending on the man receiving the massage. Sometimes the pleasure is just too intense and you need to slow down or stop completely. I alter between caressing the P-spot to just relaxing my finger inside their anus, this gives him time to take a breath and feel the difference in sensations. How do I know if he’s enjoying himself? Well I’ve known men who make zero sounds during a blowjob or sex, that you could hear a tumbleweed go by. It does make you question if they are enjoying themselves. It all comes down to communication, watching the changes in facial expression and the contractions of the anus.
Review From A Very Happy Customer
“She (Jordan) started off sensual and pampering, slowly turning the erotic dial up as she went, culminating in an amazing prostate massage. I enjoy prostate massage because I can experience several orgasms without actually coming, or losing arousal. I also find the prostate massage magnifies the intensity of sensation when coming for several days afterwards.
Jordan read me like a book. She coaxed half a dozen prostate orgasms out of me before taking me over the edge with her hands. Hands down (excuse the pun) the best experience of prostate play I have ever had.” – John* (Name changed for privacy)
Miss Jordan Quinn is a 25 y/o brunette, who recently completed a degree in Science and works as a companion/sex worker full time. She is a lover of travel, an appreciator of good food and an enthusiastic giggler. Repeat clients enjoy her company due to her natural smile, down to earth personality and probably her bum. She is from Wellington, New Zealand and was voted “Overall Sex Worker of the year – 2015” by the NZ punting community.
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