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  • 4 Tips for Using a Strap-On Dildo on Your Boy Toy

    4 Tips for Using a Strap-On Dildo on Your Boy Toy

    There are lots of couples that want to spice things up when it comes to their sex lives and doing the same thing time after time can become a bore to them. If you are looking for ways to make your sex life more exciting and liberating, one of the things you can do is consider the use of a strap on dildo on your boy toy.

    This is something that more and more couples are experimenting with, and many couples get immense pleasure and excitement out of trying out new moves and experiments such as this during sex. This is something that can take the excitement to a whole new level for both parties, which is why it is something that is well worth trying if you want to enjoy a truly unique and liberating experience.

    Some Tips to Help

    If you are considering using a strap-on dildo on your boy toy, there are a number of tips that can help to make the process far easier and more fun for both of you. This includes:

    Discuss with Your Beau

    If neither of you have ever experimented in this way before, make sure you discuss it with your beau to ensure he is happy with the whole situation and willing to give it a go. The last thing you want to do is surprise him when you are getting intimate, as he will most likely go into a state of shock and run for the hills.

    Use Suitable Lube

    You should make sure you do not skimp on the lube if you are planning to use a strap-on during sex with your boy toy. You need to make sure you use the right lube based on the strap-on your purchase so make sure you double check before you make your purchase.

    Don’t Rush Things

    Again, if you are both new to this – or if he is new to it – don’t be tempted to rush things. Make sure you check that he is comfortable with what is happening every steps of the way, as otherwise it will ruin the experience for both of you. Just take things slowly and make sure you communicate and get feedback to determine how comfortable he is.

    Use a Condom

    It is also advisable to use a condom on your strap-on, and this is for a couple of reasons. First off, it will help to make the experience more comfortable for your boy toy, which is good news for both of you. Second, it means that you won’t have to worry about scrubbing the strap-on down afterward, as a condom will make the cleaning process far easier.

    A New Twist on Your Sex Life

    If you want to put a new twist on your sex life, this could be the ideal solution as long as it is something that you are both willing and open to try. You can then both look forward to a unique experience.

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  • 4 Tips for Using a Strap-On Dildo on Your Boy Toy

    4 Tips for Using a Strap-On Dildo on Your Boy Toy

    There are lots of couples that want to spice things up when it comes to their sex lives and doing the same thing time after time can become a bore to them. If you are looking for ways to make your sex life more exciting and liberating, one of the things you can do is consider the use of a strap on dildo on your boy toy.

    This is something that more and more couples are experimenting with, and many couples get immense pleasure and excitement out of trying out new moves and experiments such as this during sex. This is something that can take the excitement to a whole new level for both parties, which is why it is something that is well worth trying if you want to enjoy a truly unique and liberating experience.

    Some Tips To Help

    If you are considering using a strap-on dildo on your boy toy, there are a number of tips that can help to make the process far easier and more fun for both of you. This includes:

    Discuss With Your Beau

    If neither of you have ever experimented in this way before, make sure you discuss it with your beau to ensure he is happy with the whole situation and willing to give it a go. The last thing you want to do is surprise him when you are getting intimate, as he will most likely go into a state of shock and run for the hills.

    Use Suitable Lube

    You should make sure you do not skimp on the lube if you are planning to use a strap-on during sex with your boy toy. You need to make sure you use the right lube based on the strap-on your purchase so make sure you double check before you make your purchase.

    Don’t Rush Things

    Again, if you are both new to this – or if he is new to it – don’t be tempted to rush things. Make sure you check that he is comfortable with what is happening every steps of the way, as otherwise it will ruin the experience for both of you. Just take things slowly and make sure you communicate and get feedback to determine how comfortable he is.

    Use A Condom

    It is also advisable to use a condom on your strap-on, and this is for a couple of reasons. First off, it will help to make the experience more comfortable for your boy toy, which is good news for both of you. Second, it means that you won’t have to worry about scrubbing the strap-on down afterward, as a condom will make the cleaning process far easier.

    A New Twist On Your Sex Life

    If you want to put a new twist on your sex life, this could be the ideal solution as long as it is something that you are both willing and open to try. You can then both look forward to a unique experience.

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  • How To Give Strap-On Blowjobs

    How To Give Strap-On Blowjobs

    I love everything to do with blowjobs.  Giving them, receiving them, and watching them makes me super happy.  I enjoy the feeling of a cock in my mouth, especially when my partner lets me know he appreciates my effort.  There is nothing hotter than blowing a guy and hearing him moan.  Unless I am strapped and I am the one moaning!  Typing this out I realized I have never given a blowjob to another woman who is strapped.  Thanks, SimplySxy for giving me a new mission!

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    What I Love Strap-On Blowjobs

    Receiving a strap-on blowjob is an incredibly erotic physical and mental turn on for me.  I have always been a bit of a tomboy, which means I have always been very curious about penises.  I’ve always wanted to know what it feels like to have one, to stroke my own, to have sex with one, and to have a blowjob with one.  With that interest, I have also been intrigued by taking the role of penetrator instead of the one who is being penetrated.  Strapping on allows me to access the more male aspects of my mentality and truly cater to them.

    For me, the physicality of being turned on follows when I am stimulated mentally.  Being able to look down and see a man or a woman with “my cock” in their mouth is one of the most heady experiences I have ever had.  Feeling the harness tug and slide against me as my partner pleasures me drives me over the edge.  And, yes, I have had an orgasm (without any touching!) while receiving a strap-on blowjob!

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    Recommended Strap-Ons To Use

    Finding the right harness is important.  You want a harness that is comfortable when you tighten it up.  It’s got to be something you can wear for a decent amount of time.  Proper fit is huge.  A harness that is too large will create too much play in your dong (think partially erect cock versus completely erect cock – it’s much easier to suck a completely erect cock).  If your harness is too small or has other fit problems, you will have issues with discomfort.

    Picking a dong is more a personal preference.  There are many different sizes, colors, and shapes to chose from.  Think about exactly what you may do with your dong – will you just be receiving blow jobs or will you use the dong for sex as well?  If you plan to use your dong for sex, will you use it strictly vaginally or will you throw in some anal?  I have quite a few different dongs as I use mine for all of the above.  The one thing I would recommend strongly is to check the material the dong is made from.  My personal preference is silicone as it is easy to keep clean and safe for all types of play.

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    Techniques For Blowing A Strap-On

    Be invested in that blowjob.  Someone who does not want to be giving a blowjob is a huge turn off for the person receiving.  Get in there.  Get sloppy.  Go to town.  Go nuts!  With a strap-on, you don’t have to worry about hurting someone’s dick so you don’t have to worry about teeth, etc.  The key is to enjoy what you are sharing with the other person, because that is what makes a blowjob truly erotic.

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    Involve Some Hand Play

    For me, I rest my hands on my partner’s head or shoulders (I prefer my blowjobs standing up).  I have never been one to push my partner’s head onto my cock, unless they happen to love deep throating.  Then, you better believe I make them deepthroat like there is no tomorrow.

    Do what feels right for you with your hands.  The whole purpose of a blowjob is to get everyone turned on and ready for sex.  If you want to touch your partner, touch your partner.  If consent has been given to finger the woman wearing the cock, finger her.  Talk about these things before you get down to business so you are fully prepared to enjoy yourself and your partner.

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    Kink It Up A Notch

    Use a toy on the giving party – remote control egg for a woman, prostate massager for a man.  If your guy doesn’t like anal play, give that boy a masturbator sleeve so he can have fun with himself!  Those are very basic suggestions. Get creative.  Sex is all about finding new ways to enjoy yourself and your partner.  Explore different things that get both of you so turned on that post-blowjob you will have the most amazing, mind blowing, animalistic sex imaginable!

    Vhex – I’ve been in the adult industry in some form or fashion for the past 18 years, but have been a kinky person all my life.  I’m that fun enabler who will push you to broaden your sexual horizons and take great delight when you enjoy something new. Follow me on my website www.vhex666.com and Twitter @vhex666

    vhex666.com, is updated twice a week with photos and videos. Cum join me in my deviant adventures!

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