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For today’s questions, we’re delighted to have sex educator Darleen Proud share her answer below.
Should a couple have sex before marriage to see if they are sexually compatible?
Absolutely! No one gets married thinking ‘Hey I’ll give it a go for a year or two and see how I feel’… Why would you go into any long term agreement without knowing what you are getting into?
Sexual compatibility can make or break a relationship. In the old days couples did not have sex before marriage very often, it was forbidden. And surprisingly, very few divorces back then either. But how happy were the ladies? Did many of them enjoy sex? Did they have orgasms? The movie Hysteria suggests orgasms were something they went to the doctor for, to relieve hysteria…sexual frustration!
Sexual compatibility can be tricky, sometimes the tiniest thing can tip a new partner the wrong way… perhaps one of you is a clean freak, and requires both parties to shower before sex. Maybe one of you hates oral sex and the other one loves it. What if you are into anal play and you find out your new partner will not go there? There is an endless list of differences and preferences that can make a massive impact on sexual satisfaction. Life is way too short for average or awful sex for the rest of your life!
So yes, absolutely we should be taking the “try before you buy” approach to sex before marriage.
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