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  • What It’s Like To Be A Student & Escort In Germany

    What It’s Like To Be A Student & Escort In Germany

    I really enjoy being an escort for all occasions. A classy business dinner, travel companion or FMTY: there are so many possibilities to meet each other. Perhaps I can fulfil an unspoken fantasy or make a long-held dream come true. 

    I like that the gentleman doesn’t have to pretend with me. In “real life” there is so much pressure on the shoulders of many men. They have to conform to a certain image or meet high standards. With me, they can let themselves go.

    As an escort I can also live my passion: I love to travel and appreciate the great restaurants and hotels I get to visit. But I am even more fascinated by the unforgettable moments with special gentlemen who plan extraordinary dates.

    I enjoy the anticipation and the tingling before every date and hope that I will find that I leave gentlemen with a positive gut feeling after the date.

    My Initial Impression of Sex Work & Escorting

    I have been fascinated by this world for a long time. Every tv show and every book I found about it I soaked up like a sponge. I’m a very curious person and have always asked myself: “What if I were to live this life?”

    Accordingly, I had a rather soft-washed and romantic idea of it. Often you only got a glimpse of the extremes. 

    What appealed to me was the “empowerment” that the women had. They had completely different opportunities, especially as students. And I notice that now, too: While my fellow students have to turn over every euro twice, I spend my time in luxury hotels and don’t have to worry about my bank balance.   

    What Made Me Decide To Go Into Escorting

    I thought about taking the plunge for years and then decided not to. But then when I started my dream studies, I had to leave the job I loved. It was the perfect chance to start escorting. Because by studying, I could suddenly be much more flexible with my time and was no longer bound to my working hours. 

    It sounds cheesy, but it’s exactly how I imagined it – and more. I experience exciting things, get to know exciting people and always enjoy the tingling sensation of a first date again. It’s special, it’s wicked and the most important thing: it makes me happy.

    Common Misconceptions About Sex Work

    I am bothered by the assumption that sex work is not real work. Yet as an escort, I am a marketing and social media specialist, stylist and make-up artist, web designer, planner for travel escorts and photo shoots, content creator and SEO agency all rolled into one! And of course I also pay my taxes – just like everyone else. 

    Is It Tough To Be A Student & Escort At The Same Time?

    I have the comparison with my previous professional life, which would not have been compatible with escorting. As a student, I find it easier to schedule dates. But I am not infinitely flexible. A longer travel escort, for example, is only possible during my lecture-free time. I need a bit of advance notice.

    But apart from that, the two worlds can be combined perfectly. Sometimes I go straight from the hotel to the lecture. No one has to know that I wear my Agent Provocateur lingerie under my outfit. And I always have my index cards in my handbag. That way I can study a bit on the way to the date. 

    It is sometimes a challenge to be an escort and a student. But I wouldn’t have it any other way! I enjoy every moment of my life and these two worlds are a big part of me.

    Tips For Students Who Wish To Escort

    If you are attracted to this world, give it a try! But take the time to find out the right timing. Research books and blogs and try to imagine yourself having the experience. 

    Maybe you’ll find a colleague you like and who inspires you. You could write her a friendly email and ask her if she would like to become your mentor.

    It is a lot of work, especially as an independent escort. Find out what you really need at the beginning (good photos and an appealing Advertising presence, for example Twitter or your own website – depending on what appeals to you more) and what can wait a little longer. Expensive underwear and shoes are not the biggest priority. The most important thing is: Be yourself and have fun, then success will come on its own!

    Maya Belfort is an independent escort in Germany and worldwide. A charming companion, kinky playmate and sensitive lover, she loves to explore the most beautiful sides of Germany with a gentleman. GFE and travel companionship on exciting weekend trips are her favourite disciplines. Besides the sensual escort service, she is studying in a big German city and gathers new experiences on her numerous trips.

    Follow Maya Belfort on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayabelfort

    Website: https://en.mayabelfort.com/

    Article images courtesy of Maya Belfort

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Germany With An Escort

    Why You Should Enjoy Germany With An Escort

    Technically, I “only” work part-time as an escort. I study at a German university on the side. But my heart belongs to sensual escorting. It is important to me that a gentleman feels comfortable with me and can address his wishes quite openly. After all, it is about fulfilling the most personal fantasies.

    As a private escort, I want to create a space where the gentlemen can live out their lust openly and without prejudice. There is no service list that I work off. Every date is absolutely unique – how we meet, what we do together, where our evening ends. As an independent escort, I create my own rules. This makes the encounter personal and simply genuine. I have heart beatings and butterflies in my stomach before every date. And I hope that the gentlemen will feel the same way!

    How Is The Escorting Industry Like In Germany?

    Of course, I cannot speak for every escort in Germany. My colleagues are simply too different and diverse for that. For myself, working as an escort in Germany is a wonderful way to pursue my passion. I feel comfortable with my work and get to know many interesting people.

    For me, working as an escort is a very natural thing. Sex work is legal in Germany and regulated by certain laws. For example, I have to register and of course pay taxes. 

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am very balanced and bring that emotional stability to our date. I manage the dance between social butterfly and sensitive companion. I manage this so well because on the one hand I am quite introverted and like to listen, but on the other hand I also have extroverted sides to me. Thanks to my empathy and social competence, I know exactly what is “required” and when – this enables me to adapt very well to my counterpart.

    I am also a very organised person. I love planning things – for example, a nice trip or a special outing. And if something goes wrong, it’s not the end of the world. Then we laugh about it and find another solution. 

    Enjoying The GFE With Me

    Experience shows that time passes very quickly with me. We need a little more time to have good conversations. And private time is also exciting and should be duly celebrated. That’s why I’m often booked for longer encounters. Even my dinner date is relatively long at five hours.

    GFE in Germany is a very popular concept and often designed for a longer relationship. I often hear that people can quickly relax in my presence and take a break from everyday life. It is important to me to build a relationship even before the date. Therefore, we stay in contact after the booking (if you want that) and a phone conversation before our date is also possible. I patiently answer all your questions and take away some of the tension before our first meeting. 

    Best Duration To Enjoy Germany With Me

    My favourite encounters are weekend dates and travel companions. Every major city in Germany can be reached within a few hours. That leaves plenty of time on a weekend for sightseeing together, for adventures and quiet moments. Are you more drawn to the countryside? Germany has many castles that are now home to romantic hotels. In a wellness hotel we can relax together and feel like lord and mistress of a castle. Or we can rent a vintage car and explore the area.

    The area around Frankfurt am Main is ideal for this: Around the metropolis there are numerous casinos, thermal spas and enchanted forests that we can explore together. By the way: Germany has some of the world’s best and most exclusive swingers clubs, for example Schloss Milkersdorf near Berlin.

    What Does A Gentleman Need To Know Before Engaging You?

     I like to keep things plain and simple in my everyday life. That’s also how I like to handle a booking. Of course, I’m very happy if you read my website carefully and maybe even take a look at my FAQ. But you don’t have to read every single word. It’s enough if you look at my picture gallery (and honestly – we all look at the pictures first, that’s perfectly okay) and fill out my contact form carefully.

    There you will find all the information you need to get an answer from me. If you do take the time to browse the website a bit more, I would be very happy. I am honoured that you are taking the time to get to know me better.

    Etiquette & Rules To Follow

    I believe that we all become the lovable person we are through our experiences, interests, hobbies, happy moments and mistakes. And I firmly believe that everyone is lovable. My experiences have shaped me into the person (and escort) I am today. Every journey that has broadened my horizons and every skill I have learnt on a course has changed and influenced me.

    So I enjoy the company of men who have experienced something, who have something to tell and from whom I can learn something. And who can take something away from me from the encounter – even if it’s just a nice memory. I’m interested in the rough edges, the vanilla sides and the kinky fantasies.

    In short: I want the gentleman to be able to be himself and to understand and respect my limits as a person and escort. 

    Maya Belfort is an independent escort in Germany and worldwide. A charming companion, kinky playmate and sensitive lover, she loves to explore the most beautiful sides of Germany with a gentleman. GFE and travel companionship on exciting weekend trips are her favourite disciplines. Besides the sensual escort service, she is studying in a big German city and gathers new experiences on her numerous trips.

    Follow Maya Belfort on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/mayabelfort

    Website: https://en.mayabelfort.com/

    Article images courtesy of Maya Belfort

    Like to be featured on SimplySxy? Drop us an email at editorial@SimplySxy.com!