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  • What It’s Like To Be An Over 50s Provider

    What It’s Like To Be An Over 50s Provider

    For me, an escort is providing more than a simple in/out service. There can often be meals shared, events attended, holidays taken together, deeper and more personal conversation, cooking and in many cases the development of genuine relationships with long term clients. All held within the boundaries of the amount of time booked and the envelope.

    I consider escorting to be a branch of Health and Wellness work because intimacy and natural sexual expression is so critical to our wellbeing, far more than our society tends to recognize or feel comfortable acknowledging.  Imagine if it was supported by your healthcare plan! So, that’s my way of saying I am a big fan of it. And may I add, I wish there were more men in Canada offering it for me!

    My Impression Of Sex Work Before I Started

    I of course have always been aware of the providers on the street but until I began this work I actually had no real awareness of escorting, of another dimension of sex work so to speak. During my Social Services education, I did a big paper on pornography as it was such a presence in my childhood through my father and really impacted my body image and sexual identity. That was more on my radar than anything else. I think I was craftily saving myself a sweet surprise for later in my life.

    Is Being A Provider Over 50s Unique?

    If it were not for Twitter I would have next to no awareness of the amount of beautiful, passionate mature women in the field.  I think if you could do a census, you would find the majority of women are younger but I am beginning to think it would not be by as much of a big margin as I would have previously thought.

    What Inspired You To Become An Escort As A Mature Woman?

    After making my way though the dating and hookup sites and becoming exhausted, my last civilian lover suggested I join an agency, just to see if that would be different. I went from researching agencies in my city on a Thursday, to an interview on Friday, a photo shoot on a Saturday and my first client on a Monday. After that encounter I lay back seeing that my access to men could now be unlimited and there was now an envelope to enjoy as well. I went independent within 3 months and have never looked back.

    What Makes Me Ideal?

    You will never meet another Mila. I am insatiably curious, open to experience yet grounded in the wisdom of lessons learned. I am my boundaries now, they are not something I impose or force, I am centered in myself and have nothing to prove to you. I adore the masculine and men! I do not identify as a feminist but rather am an avid promoter of common sense equality. I love exchange, of thoughts, insights, opinions, breath, touch. Eroticism, sensuality, seduction, the slow burn of good foreplay and anticipation all feed my spirit. If I choose you, I am with you totally. The Slavic woman that I am loves to host, to honor and indulge the guest, and the woman in me enjoys opening to male touch. And I am doing it all in a body that won’t quit!

    Best Duration To Spend Time With Me

    For me, 2.5 hrs has become my happy place. It allows enough time for you to arrive and ‘land’, to move naturally out of the entry to conversation and catching up to physical intimacy, if in fact that is what is desired, and then to being able to shower and dress without feeling forced out the door. My 1.5 hr visit is great for someone pressed for time, as that is how we can tend to feel in those 90mins which can contribute to a sense of delicious urgency. But it is best for a gentleman who knows how to help keep time because so often there is the potential to stay over time . And that, dear gentlemen, means you should always tip. 

    What Can A Gentleman Expect Or Prepare When With You?

    First impression, you are going to meet a woman confident and comfortable in her skin, fully present with her attention and interested in you. Be prepared to enjoy  conversation with someone who is eloquent, aware and informed, not just by information but by life. I enjoy sharing the opinions and perspectives I have on a great variety of personal and global topics and I am also always open to hear other perspectives, to be informed in new ways.  A few decades of life, experience and experimenting have brought me to a place personally that is grounded, well cultivated and relaxed and that in turn allows a curiosity and passion that burns in me like a wildfire to express itself freely.

    Plus, I get all the memes, from all the decades!  But really, what is mature except a sense of life lived, with enough time to see how things work out, and that can bring a deeper presence with less to prove and more to give. One of my most treasured quotes in  this regard is this one from Anais Nin: We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension and not in another; unevenly. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present and future mingle and pull us backward, forward or fix us in the present. We are made of layers, cells, constellations.

    Mila Doval – I am a woman who loves being a woman and is deeply wired to indulge and enjoy men. I live on the youthful side of mature.  I am cultured, experienced, travelled and bring a contagious enthusiasm and presence to all my encounters. Why? Because I love the play between the masculine and the feminine. I am wild about men who make an effort and who are enthusiastic about our time together. I will receive you in my private home. I do not entertain more than once per day or more than 4 times per week. When you are with me, I am all yours.

    Website: http://miladoval.com/

    Twitter: @xoMilaDoval

    Tryst: https://tryst.link/escort/miladoval

    Images courtesy of Mila Doval

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  • How To Be A Successful Mature Escort

    How To Be A Successful Mature Escort

    I believe our individual sexuality is a gift, something to be cherished and embraced.  I see sex work as an opportunity for those who want to fully and freely enjoy their sexuality and preferences without the strings of a conventional relationship.

    Whether they are denied that gift through circumstance, repression, opportunity or personal lack of self confidence in the dating world.  The recently divorced male for whom another relationship would be too soon. A widowed gentleman, still in his sexual prime. An executive too busy for the hassle of dating. A handicapped guy who might never find an intimate partner.  The cross dresser who is not allowed to express that side of himself at home. There’s always been a need in society for our services and I see myself as a facilitator to allow my client friend’s intimate desires, fantasies and fetishes to be realized.

    How I Got Into Escorting

    Frankly, an inadequate income in high end commissioned sales. I’d been in the “lifestyle” and a nudist for several years, married and than as a single woman. Highly sexual and comfortable in my sexuality.  By chance, I saw an ad in the Tampa newspaper looking for classy women for upscale lingerie modeling.

    I was offered the “night shift.”  From 6-10ish each evening after my day job. All the daytime spots were filled.  I called and asked, “Would you be interested in a mature woman for the position?”  The reply was absolutely and I wore a beautiful silk suit to the interview. Underneath a low black top, black stockings and gorgeous black stiletto heels.

    The manager of the shop was a stunning young woman.  We discussed my background and she said, “I like your look.  When can you begin?”

    The next Monday was my debut night.  No training in how to work, no idea or opportunity to screen the gent if he came through the outer door.  A dangerous part of the city. On my own, I decided to offer something more upscale. I carted in crystal glasses, Perrier, my own music, candles and an elegant wardrobe.

    My first client that evening resulted in a profit of $100.  When money is tight, that is a big deal. But even more importantly, I absolutely loved what I was doing. I felt I’d found my calling.

    To shorten this, I stayed three weeks, the management thrilled that I was making money for them during the slowest hours.  Jealousy amongst the daytime girls set in and it was time for me to go. Lies were spread. Thankfully, I had met the sales manager of the local adult magazine and he directed me to the world of internet escorting. I did my research and three weeks later, my first ad appeared on Eros. A month later, I resigned from my sales position and the rest of this joyous adventure began.

    What It’s Like Being A Mature Escort

    It’s enjoyable and it’s becoming more and more common.  Some of the top escorts in the world are older women. I get a kick out of being the age I am and being attractive to men of all ages and backgrounds.  I’ve visited all over the US, the UK and Ireland. It’s allowed me opportunities I’d never have experienced in my previous life. And….it keeps ME young.

    Advantages Of Being A Mature Escort

    It’s my observation that we attract a different type of client.  One who appreciates a keen intellect, the social ease one achieves from living life, the sexual experience and comfort with herself, rather than only a perfect body and face. I feel we attract the more thoughtful type of gentleman, no matter his age.

    What Does It Take To Be Successful In This Competitive Industry?

    There’s no doubt it’s highly competitive but I feel the key to success is to be authentically unique and to build your brand upon that uniqueness.  Obviously, you must take good care of yourself and your appearance but be happy about who you are.

    And like any other successful business, offer consistent exemplary service. If you treat your customer like a king, you’ll always be a queen. It costs nothing to be kind. In the end, everyone wants to be treated with respect and kindness.

    Advice For Clients Before Engaging A Mature Escort

    That she most certainly knows her own mind so treat her with respect and read her website before you contact her. Being a gentlemen is the key to a wonderful experience.

    Anneke Van Buren -A little bit older, a whole lot wiser. Ageless beauty, exceptional skills, a warm heart and a lusty soul. One of whom you will say, “How did she know?” Your mature lover, fetish goddess, sensual domina and confidant with no strings.

    Follow Anneke Van Buren on

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/Annekenordstrum

    Websites:

    www.annekepleasures.nl (escort website)

    www.annekexposed.com (my personal adult film site)

    Instagram: @annekevanburen8357

    Skype: Anneke33548

    Home base; Tampa, FL Albany, NY

    Upcoming tours:

    Albany, NY December 3-7

    Chicago, downtown, December 8-11

    Article images courtesy of Anneke Van Buren

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  • What Is It Like To Engage Mature Escorts?

    What Is It Like To Engage Mature Escorts?

    I think sex should be a fundamental part of our lives.

    The Appeal Of Mature Escorts

    The appeal is all about the fact that sexuality and the desire for sex doesn’t end at any specific age, it continues and it’s important for the industry to be able to provide a range of service providers that are comparable with the needs of clients.  Similarly, the desire for those that can provide a pleasurable interaction doesn’t fit into any specific age group either.  Mature clients like mature escorts. and younger clients can be the same.

    I have been told many times when being booked for the first time that women are looking for a ‘man’ and not a ‘boy’.  I use these terms loosely but they are invariably referring to the fact that clients are looking for a person who has life experience, who has a wider understanding of the complexity of how we can relate, who has a level of maturity and a genuine interest in their clients.

    Characteristics Of A Mature Escort

    For me it’s about being empathetic, non-judgmental, pragmatic and being a good listener.  But most importantly, it’s having had life experiences and understanding this first hand.  To know how it feels to be in a wide variety of situations and challenges that life throws up at you and having had the experience of dealing with them.  Sometimes well and sometimes not so well.  This, I think, gives a greater opportunity to connect on a very real level with my clients.

    Two Tips For Clients Engaging Mature Escorts

    Again from my own experience, there are two aspects that clients can expect.

    Firstly, the initial interactions that new clients will have.  I find that there is a quite a lot of email or SMS interaction around expectations and understanding as to how the client has come to contact you in the first place.  I find it immensely rewarding to understand this and it begins the process of trust – one of the most important aspects of any relationship between an escort and client.   Often the interaction can go back and forth many times, and I use this to process to gain an understanding of the client and also let them know about who I am – not in a this is me way, but in the way that I respond, discuss and ask questions with the client.  I feel that as a mature person I have the ability to do this and to be much more subtle about this initial interaction.  I get very good feedback about this, in that it makes new clients feel safe and develops an exciting anticipation for our first meeting.  I might add that these interactions continue with my regular clients and they find this quite satisfying as I do.

    Secondly, when I meet a client at the first appointment, I have a wider range of life experiences to draw from and as an individual I have a high level of empathy, which allows me to ‘tune’ into how they are feeling. Many of my clients have experienced loneliness or rejection, a lack of sexual satisfaction (even though they may be married or in a long term partnership), a complete lack of sex and a lack of emotional connectedness.  What I am able to provide is reassurance and acceptance, emotional and metal connection and a feeling of security and that time spent with me will be totally focused on them.  Of course sex is a big part of the interaction, but it’s always within a context of the emotional security.

    There are a couple of other things too.  A full knowledge and understanding of the female anatomy and how to satisfy my client and not taking myself too seriously.  It’s a wonderful gift to learn as you mature, knowing what’s important and what isn’t and learning to laugh and not be embarrassed.  This is reassuring to clients.

    Is There Anything Out Of Bounds?

    None whatsoever, but this depends on each escort.  I am very broad minded and very open.  My services extend from a quiet dinner with sensual sex to more erotic intense services that include anal, bondage, wax play, control and discipline and everything in between.  My job, if I can call it that, is to satisfy my clients…and of course as a mature escort, I was brought up in a much more permissive time than now!!

    Alex Miller – I’m the man your mother warned you about…and the man your mother has a secret desire for!  I’m relaxed, warm and kind, with an enquiring broad and open mind.  Well educated and urbane, I am a good listener and conversationalist.  What sets me apart from your typical guy is that I’m caring, erotic and sensual…I have a soft side.  I’m also wild, intense and naughty.  Beyond my tall handsome good looks, I love to talk, connect, touch as well as have fun.

    Follow Alex Miller on:

    Website: www.alexmillersydney.com
    Twitter: @AlexMillerSyd

    Scarlet Blue: https://scarletblue.com.au/male-escort/alex-miller?city=Sydney

    I love being in Sydney and I don’t generally tour, but you can fly to your intimate desires!

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