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  • Are vibrators killing your pleasure?

    Are vibrators killing your pleasure?

    If you’ve seen my talks at Sexpo, you’ll know I warn ladies in particular, about the dangers of overusing vibrators.

    So I wanted to use this week’s blog to explain why!

    But before I tell you how vibrators kill you pleasure, let’s looks at how the vibrator came about shall we?

    Would you believe the vibrator was actually a household appliance – the fifth in fact, to be electrified.

    In the 1800’s, women were being diagnoses with ‘hysteria’, which showed up in the form of erratic behaviour.

    Today we have different names for ‘hysteria’ such as PMS, road-rage, downright bitchiness!

    And in order to treat this very serious ailment, women would line up at the doctors for a clitoral massage to help ease them of their woes.

    Now as you can imagine – women grew quite fond of this treatment!

    Fast-forward to 1899 and one smart chap invented a device that women could take home and service themselves.

    Thus, the vibrator was born.

    Advertisements started popping up in women’s publications, with such taglines as “Vibrate your body and make it well,” “Take the edge off things,” “Nature’s own cure-all” and “Magic power… will make you feel like a new person.”

    These ads made no mention of sex, orgasms, or even ‘hysteria’ – the so-called ‘disease’ for which vibrators were said to cure.

    Now there is no arguing that sex toys – such as vibrators – can be fun and bring a lot of spice to the bedroom.

    But before you arm yourself with a cache of vibrators please consider what I am about to say, extremely carefully…

    Overuse of vibrators can actually desensitise your special bits.

    If you consider a tongue, a finger or a penis; they cannot go near as hard and fast as a vibrator!

    This is why women who use them a lot, often have trouble orgasming with their partner.

    You see, the more stimulation you get to reach orgasm, the more you need.

    So over time you sensitivity – the very same sensitivity that will open you up to deep orgasmic pleasure – is lost.

    This is why vibrators can be such a pleasure killer!

    What you also need to consider is that most vibrators only focus on your clitoris, and sometimes other regions of your genitals like your G-spot.

    Yet the whole body can be a pleasure zone, if you take the time to wake it up.

    And when you do invest time in increasing your sensitivity as opposed to decreasing your sensitivity (which you do when you use a vibrator) that’s when you’re going to start to experience those full body orgasms; orgasms you feel throughout your entire body as opposed to just being confined to your genitals.

    But I’ve already lost sensation, what now?

    No sweat!

    Get yourself a Jade Egg. 

    The Jade Egg is designed to awaken the tissue in your vaginal canal so you start to feel more pleasure inside the vagina.

    Even if you don’t use a vibrator much, most women’s vaginal canal’s are quite numb, hence why they don’t experience G-spot and cervical orgasms.

    Less really is more when it comes to pleasure.

    You want to be so sensitive that someone blowing on your skin is enough to arouse you into ecstasy!

    Personally I do NOT use vibrators for this very reason.

    I want my entire body to be as sensitive as possible, because that’s where we open ourselves up to experiencing the most pleasure.

    All of that said, if you’re not yet willing to trade in your vibrators for a Jade Egg, then make sure your toy box does NOT contain anything with phthalates in them.

    Phthalates are carcinogens.

    You find them in those squishy, jellylike dildos – the really cheap ones.

    They’re toxic!

    They leech chemicals into one of the most absorptive place in our body.

    If you have any toys like that, please throw them out.

    NOW!!!!!!

    Studies have even linked them to cancer.

    What you want are toys that are non porous, and made of materials such as silicon, glass or stainless steel.

    Or just get yourself a Jade Egg and enjoy the deliciousness of deep vaginal orgasmic bliss!

    This article has been republished with permission from Tamara Mercieca

    Please visit Tamara’s website  to view the original post and more of her works.

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  • Ladies beware: Your sexual organs could quite literally fall out of you!

    Ladies beware: Your sexual organs could quite literally fall out of you!

    We all know the side effects of not brushing our teeth. Abandon the toothbrush long enough and your teeth are likely to rot and fall out.

    Well. a woman’s sexual organs are no different.

    Autopsies done on nuns have shown their sexual organs completely rotted out due to non-use.

    And this is more common than you might realise. One in two women will experience some degree of prolapsed sexual organs in their lifetime.

    One third of women will have a hysterectomy by the time they’re 60-years-old.

    I don’t know about you, but I want to hold onto my most womanly parts! What’s important to understand is that these issues are a symptom of our sexual organs not getting enough TLC. We go to the gym and exercise three times or more a week, but how many women exercise their vagina?

    How many of us dedicate time to ensuring our sexual organs remain fit?

    And I’m not talking about doing Kegels exercise. If you want to look after your sexual organs, you need to pay them some attention, or you run the risk of them not working as they were designed.

    Did you know one in three women over 35 are infertile?

    This is shocking given that our body is made to remain fertile right up until menopause.

    Then you have the harrowing statistic of 12% of ALL women of childbearing years being unable to conceive naturally.

    Infertility, prolapsed sexual organs and other women’s health concerns don’t need to be a part of your life.

    Why would you want them to be?

    There is a preventative measure you can take, that is inexpensive, and will keep your sexual organs fit and healthy until the day you die.

    That preventative is the Jade Egg practice.

    The Jade Egg was used 5000 years ago by Queens and concubines in China in order to stay youthful, keep their sexual organs tight and resilient and deliver the Emperor immense pleasure in the bedchamber!

    But what’s important to understand here, is that the Jade Egg was used as a preventative, and while it can certainly be used to help reverse the degeneration that is the result of a lack of self-care, women can actually stop this unnecessary aging in the first place.

    Just 2-3 Jade Egg practices per week is all that’s needed to help cure incontinence, bring fresh blood to the sexual organs so they remain in optimum health and increase your chances of conceiving.

    But what the Jade Egg practice offers women of today is a respite from their hectic schedule.

    Down time.

    Time to be with themselves, be still, connect with their body, listen to their intuition and become more centered.

    What busy woman doesn’t want to escape the hustle and bustle of life, where everything is go go go 24 seven?

    And the great news is that the Jade Egg practice is anything but a chore.

    It’s a time to be still.

    To connect in with your body. It’s much like a meditation of self-love.

    And not only will your sexual organs thank you, you’ll experience more pleasure in the bedroom as you awaken the vaginal canal so you can experience G-spot and cervical orgasms!

    …orgasms that often remain elusive to women because their vaginal canal is numb.

    So if you don’t want to become a statistic it’s time to start exercising your lady parts.

    Giving them some love. We hear about the risks of breast cancer all the time, but we don’t hear as much about cervical and ovarian cancer.

    We know about these cancers of the sexual organs, but we don’t necessarily know how common they are until we receive the diagnosis.

    Every ten hours a woman in Australia dies of ovarian cancer.

    One in 70 women will develop ovarian cancer in their lifetime, with only 20% of these women surviving longer than five years.

    While cervical cancer isn’t quite as common, you still have a one in 155 chance of becoming a statistic.

    I don’t tell you all this to scare you.

    I share this with you so you can be aware and start taking steps so you don’t end up with an unfortunate diagnosis and the difficult decision on how to heal yourself of illness and disease.

    All of the afflictions I have mentioned today can be prevented through a regular practice with a Jade Egg.

    I myself used the Jade Egg as part of my holistic treatment to return my cervix to full health after being diagnosed as being the stage before cancer when I returned an abnormal pap smear result in my early 30s.

    These kinds of issues of the sexual organs can be healed naturally, and most importantly, they can be prevented.

    That is my message today.

    Don’t wait until you have a life-threatening diagnosis.

    Get in first. If you take care of our body, using a tool such as the Jade Egg practice, your sexual organs have the best possible chance of functioning as they are designed too.

    Simple as that!

    Ok. Take a breath….

    I know I needed to when I discovered the shocking truth about the state of most women’s sexual organs. Our sexual organs play a vital part in our overall health so please don’t let them die a slow death.

    Buy yourself a Jade Egg and reap the benefits of having ripe sexual organs right into old age. It was disease that brought me to the Jade Egg, don’t let disease be the thing that brings YOU to the Jade Egg.

    Get in first so you don’t have to experience the same fear I did.

    The Jade Egg really is a ladies best friend.

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