Tag: Fantasies

  • Exploring Camgirl Nikki’s Favorite Fantasies

    Exploring Camgirl Nikki’s Favorite Fantasies

    Personal I love sex. Of course, like any work there are good days and bad.  I’m a little bit of an attention seeker and used to masturbate in front of my last boyfriend or send him videos to get his attention. He was the one that suggested ‘if I like to masturbate so much, I might as well get paid for it’.  So, I did.

    It took me a while to overcome the nerves and to understand how it all works, as I‘m not good with computers. But after a couple of weeks when I started to make a regular income, it just got more exciting each time… Sometimes before I start, I get a little stressed worrying about how I look, but once I get a few clients giving me compliments, I relax and get right into it.

    Overall, I think this is a great way for some to make money but it probably doesn’t suit everybody, you need to have a genuinely high sex drive as you can’t really do a good show if you’re not enjoying yourself.

    How Experimental Are You?

    I don’t know if I’m super experimental.  I’m not consciously looking for new ways to have sex. I do love nasty sex.  I get fixated on new kinky ideas and follow it all the way.  I particularly love it when my clients introduce me to their fantasies then play it out on cam, I really get into it and it makes my day so much more interesting and exciting dealing with new kinky fantasies.

    Normally I like to be submissive, I love being a sex slave or toy to be played with and be told what to do. Especially if it gets messy, maybe drool from gagging, running over my naked body, being made to push my limits.  But recently I’m also getting into the Mistress thing.

    I could really imagine meeting some of my clients and treating them like slaves, forcing them to lick my asshole or sit on their face, things like that. I think I just love the master/slave dynamic in either direction it’s played out.

    Uncommon Sexual Fantasies I’ve Heard Of

    I’m not sure what is common or uncommon as only a few years ago I was completely naive about sex and only had one partner. Now I get into all sorts of sex games and fantasies.  I love watersports – peeing on each other is amazing.  I had my first show for a female client not long ago, I had orgasm after orgasm on cam with her.

    Other things I find myself getting really carried away with (as fantasies only) are age or incest related. Maybe it’s just because it’s a little different from the usual. I know it’s very controversial. I can’t do such fantasies on my regular cam site, as they don’t allow.  But I have clients that like to talk to me as if I were their little girl.  I don’t really see it as wrong as I’m blatantly not underage, or related (I’m an obvious Milf) lol.

    So it not as though I‘m encouraging any real illegal behavior.  I think it’s important people differentiate what is a turn on in fantasy from real life.  That said, from what I see, the ‘daddy’ thing seems to be quite a common thread in the porn industry.

    My Favorite Sexual Fantasies

    I think it’s the slave thing, I love that feeling of a client being my master, telling me what to do and giving in to his demands.  I find I can relax and not worry about what they want to see because they are telling me exactly what they want from me.  It makes the job that much easier not having to worry about what kind of show I should be performing, as a result, less stress having to think equals more fun.  As long as the client shows their appreciation by being generous along with their demands so I don’t feel taken advantage of.

    In real life, with a trusted partner, I love the feeling of being gripped around the throat with one hand or my  mouth forced open while being fingered hard with the other while he spits in my mouth.. I also love having my head held while his big cock is down my throat or made to rim him. I get so carried away doing this I could go into a frenzy licking his asshole. I’ve no idea why it drives me so wild but I absolutely love it.

    So it’s an easy step for me to play slave to my masters during cam shows.

    Advice For Beginners Exploring Their Fantasies

    I think you just have jump in at the deep end, don’t over think it and don’t beat yourself up if you don’t get it right, some people are just not clear about what they want.  If it doesn’t cause you harm then go for it.

    If you talking about fantasies while doing cam shows, the only thing I would strongly advise is to avoid things that can put you out of action and make you lose money as a result. During one crazy, kinky session I was asked to fuck myself with the heal of one of my stiletto shoes.  It was a great show, I really enjoyed it at the time, it got very nasty and I liked that hehe.! The next day I realized I had done some damage to myself and had to take a few days off from camming.  I won’t be doing that again as much as I get tempted.

    Other common things you should avoid that can cause problems is using the same dildo in your pussy after fucking your ass with it..  At the end of the day if you don’t cause problems to your health, made someone happy and made money at the same time; it’s a job well done.  A win-win.

    Just try have a common-sense approach, keep yourself safe and go for it. You’ll be surprised what gets you going if you give yourself over to new ideas.


    Nikki – Nikki Is a petite Asian girl with an enormous sexual appetite. She has been camming for nearly 2 years. Streamate  is  her regular site that she appears on most days but loves the opportunity to work without rules in private Skype shows for  her more trusted clients and occasionally  she appears on Chaturbate but  prefers the private show format  Streamate offers.

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    Twitter:  @Rhonarox or @Ncremeux

    Skype show requests or personalized videos  can be emailed to her on Rhonarox99@gmail.com.


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  • 50 Shades of Uber Fan-Fiction

    50 Shades of Uber Fan-Fiction

    Whoever would have guessed that a chaste Young Adult romance written by a sober, non-smoking Mormon housewife would ignite the erotic romance world and spawn the best-selling novel in literary history?  The tale of a virginal high schooler who falls madly in love with a handsome and mysterious teen only to discover he is a vampire, ignited erotic literature, namely erotic romance.  This popular literary sub-genre owes a great debt to Twilight, the virginal heroine and an alpha-male character named Edward Cullen.

    While Twilight didn’t involve sex, its plotting and intense romantic elements have served as the template for several erotic best sellers that first saw the light of day on fan fiction boards;  Sempre by J. M. Danhower, Beautiful Bastard by Christina Lauren, Sylvain Reynard’s Gabriel’s Inferno, The Dark Heroine by Abigail Gibbs, and most famous of all, Fifty Shades of Grey, E.L. James’s publishing phenomenon.

    Twilight won the hearts of countless teens primarily because of the male love interest.  The author, Stephenie Meyer, created Edward Cullen, a monogamous Byronic alpha-male who becomes obsessed with the female protagonist from the moment he sees her.  Bella, the protagonist, imprints her very being on Edward’s  soul and he adores her to the point of not wanting to live without her.  As therapist Sari Cooper noted in a 2012 series of lectures about Fifty Shades of Grey, “The experience of being desired is a huge erotic trigger for women. It’s the experience of being that special someone. There is no one else in his eyes. He only has eyes for her. She is the one he longs for. It combines the erotic with the sensual. Being desired is such a turn on for women.”

    Being desired was the key component that made so many teens and adult women adore Twilight’s Edward Cullen, the troubled teen vampire and his relationship with the protagonist, Bella Swan.  The author of Twilight, Stephenie Meyer made seventeen-year-old Edward outrageously handsome, powerful, brilliant, well-traveled and sophisticated.  On the other hand, her protagonist, Bella Swan, was an ‘every girl,’ lacking in grace, charm or social skill.  In the novels, Bella’s klutziness became an endearing trait, something that didn’t transfer to the screen, an average girl that many teens could identify with.  Twilight gave real meaning to the phrase, he’s into you.  Bella had a beautiful lover who adored her to the point of obsession and yet, she never had to put out. Teens adored the novels as well as their mothers, who gave thanks that Bella and Edward’s relationship, though passionate, was a non-sexual one.

    However, the emergence of fan fiction, or be more specific, uber fan fiction changed the way some viewed Twilight’s chaste characters  Writers define uber fan fiction or uber fic as a story that takes the essence of the characters and places them in another time, another place, or another reality. The uber characters do not have the same names and do not have to be mirror images of the canon characters.  Sometimes they are descendants or reincarnations; usually they resemble the originals physically, and they share the same type of bond.

    Of course uber fan fiction can be devoid of sex, but the most interesting married fan fiction with erotic fiction, a sometimes uneasy union.  Erotic fiction embraces the forbidden.  Works like The Sexual Life of Catherine M., The Story of O and Anne Rice’s infamous Sleeping Beauty Trilogy, which outsold her mainstream success, Interview With a Vampire, are  filled what E.L. James called kinky fuckery: floggings, brandings, BDSM, multiple partners, rampant bisexuality, but without romance.  Uber fan fiction changed that.

    Though James was not the first to blend the story-structure of Twilight with the carnal, she was the most vocal about the debt she owed to Twilight.  “Well, it all started way back in the day when I saw Twilight, the film, and I loved those books.  I could not put them down, absolutely avidly read the books. This switch was flipped. I had to write, started writing, wrote a novel, then I discovered fan fiction.  I wrote about Edward and Bella and then decided to write about Christian and Anastasia.  I took the fan fiction, and a friend of mine re-wrote it and I thought, if he could do it, so could I, and now I am here.”

    Indeed, James is here!  Her work controversial work has sold over 70 million copies worldwide, made women everywhere, from student to soccer mom, examine their erotic lives and brought sexual experimentation to the mainstream.  Writer, Charlotte Rose, attended a lecture that Cooper delivered at the Washing Square Institute in 2012.  Cooper’s entitled her talk, “Fifty Shades of Grey: What You Can Learn about Sex Esteem from the Bestseller,” and noted ten erotic triggers written into Fifty Shade of Grey and incorporated into other erotic romances.

    1.  Powerful hero.

    “He is dark, mysterious, and possibly dangerous – a total Alpha male. He’s wild, dangerous, and unpredictable.  Being with him is like a rollercoaster ride.”

    2.  Awakened Heroine.

    “She is innocent, the yin to the yang of Christian Grey. She is a young woman awakened by this man who knows a lot more. “

    3. Christian Grey uses all the senses – taste, touch, sight, scent, auditory.

    “For example, Ana is always talking about how he smells and he about her scent. He also consciously uses these different triggers to arouse her.”

    4. Music is huge part of it.

    The many musical moments in the book inspire erotic or emotionally charged encounters.

    5.  He appeals to her psychologically.

    “He sends signals to throw her off balance, such as his first gift of the collector’s edition of Tess of the d’Urbervilles. He attaches a quote from the book that says there may be danger waiting.  It creates more intrigue for.”

    6. There is stimulation of all the erogenous zones and multisensory anticipation. “Christian does it with such expertise, and so much foreplay, with plenty of time to get Anastasia ready.”

    A. Primary erogenous zones. Genitals and breasts.

    B. Secondary erogenous zones:  Earlobe, neck.

    C. Tertiary erogenous zones: Feet, arms, scalp.

    7. BDSM.

    “The book has opened up the door into things people may not have considered before. In Fifty Shades, Ana has many fears about being hurt, but when she is in the red room of pain she is not just in pain—she is in a state of arousal beyond what she would normally feel. Sexual arousal sometimes involves working with negative emotions such as fear and anxiety. It’s the experience of being on a roller coaster that enhances the state of arousal.”

    8.  Love.

    “Ana pushes for ‘more’ than being his submissive and he ‘tries’ because he will do anything to keep her.  He’s only had subs [submissive female partners] before, women that he has controlled, and he is pushed to his hard limits by Ana who is demanding more. That’s what people love about the book. They want the romance, the emotional tension. Will it work out for them? They want to know!”

    9. The experience of being desired.

    “This is a huge erotic trigger for women. It’s the experience of being that special someone. There is no one else in his eyes. He only has eyes for her. She is the one he longs for. It combines the erotic with the sensual. Being desired is such a turn on for women.”

    10. He’s loyal. 

    “At first we are not sure if we can trust him. She talks about his ‘stalker tendencies. ‘What wins Ana over, and wins the reader over, is he’s very loyal. And when she needs him, he’s there.  I think it works because women can feel the fantasy of having that danger, with the security of having a good relationship.”

    With the exception of items 6 and 7, we can find these same elements in Twilight, the book that started it all.  Though I named a few fan-fiction titles, more pop up daily.

  • INFOG: Sex Fantasies

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