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  • How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

    How to Enjoy Giving Him a Blowjob

    I personally love giving blowjobs. As a lover, I tend to focus more on giving than receiving, and I feel like blowjobs are the perfect way for me to do that. It’s so satisfying to see a man’s eyes light up and his head cock back when I surprise them with giving head.

    Giving My Very First Blowjob

    I was still a teenager, it was in the backseat of my now ex-boyfriend’s car. I was nervous, had no idea what I was doing, and worried I wouldn’t do a good job. I fumbled around awkwardly for a few minutes before I found my groove. I gained a bit of confidence and tried experimenting with more, using my hands and playing with the balls here and there. I treated it like a learning experience. We ended up having sex, so I didn’t swallow or get a facial or anything that time.

    To Swallow or Spit?

    I prefer swallowing, I’m usually much too focused on making my partner cum to pull myself away for a facial anyways. I kind of go into another world when I’m giving a blowjob. My goal is to make my partner feel as good as possible, and I put everything I have into that goal. I honestly love the feeling of a guy finishing in my mouth too.

    Tips to Enjoy Giving a Blowjob

    I know a lot of my hesitation came from not knowing if I was getting the job done and not having that confidence in my ability. I feel like an open line of communication with your partner is important, asking them to let you know they like what you’re doing, if they’d like to try something else, so on and so forth.

    It really helps me to have that reassurance. I also spent a lot of time on porn sites watching amateur POV blowjob videos, trying to see other girls techniques and what guys like to see or have done during a blowjob. (I’m the kind of person who extensively researches everything she’s even just mildly interested in)

    My Favorite Positions

    Switch it up! To me, it all depends on the setting. Shower or other small spaces? I’d get on my knees.

    Couch or chair? I’d have him sit back and let me get between his legs while I’m on the ground.

    If we’re in bed, I’d just have him lay back and sit on his face so I could ride his tongue while giving him head. There’s so many possibilities to explore, why stick to only one?

     

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  • Become a blowjob queen with these tips

    Become a blowjob queen with these tips

    Personally, I love giving head. I consider myself to be pretty submissive in the D/s sense, and there is nothing I like more than servicing my partners. Giving a Dominant guy head is a giant turn on. But like with anything sexual, all parties need to be signed up for the same thing. Giving someone head when you’re both into it can be one of the hottest experiences but there is literally nothing worse than being pressured into giving head when you’re not up for it or receiving from an enthusiastic partner.

    Preparation before giving a blowjob

    Preparing to give someone a blow job can entail a couple of different things but really, you just have to be prepared to get messy. Drink some water, because you’re going to produce a ton of spit. I like to massage the sides of my neck and near my throat a bit to relax the muscles and my gag reflex. I tend to try and deepthroat my partners if they’re not too girthy and when I can manage it. Some warm tea just before doesn’t hurt! (Just try to avoid any herbal brands that carry essential oils like peppermint, chamomile or some other numbing agent)

    Don’t ever miss these parts of his body

    Well, not only ladies give head and it is really important to remember that everyone is different and likes different things. I really cannot stress enough how much talking to your partners before engaging in any kind of sexual experience plays into how hot it will end up being.

    When I was shooting my blowjob clip with Owen, there was a lot of “Does that feel good? Am I covering my teeth enough?” and him responding eagerly with “Yes”, “Suck here, lick there”. Communication is so so important, even if it’s just a one time thing. If you’re receiving, you’ll probably feel a lot more relaxed if you feel like your partner knows what you like and if you’re giving, you’ll have a better understanding of what to do to make the receiver feel good and probably give a more confident blow job.

    After all, isn’t that the point? The odds are that your partner knows their own body better than you do, so they’ll be able to tell you what feels good and where to stimulate.   It just depends on who you’re with and how they like being touched. Personally, I’m all about some enthusiastic ass eating and sucking balls. I really like using my mouth to please people haha.

    Kinky locations I’ve given a blowjob

    I mean most of the places I’ve given head have been on cam or during shoots. I like the idea of being watched and told what a pretty slut I am as a role play scenario haha. I try to avoid public places. I’m super into consent and don’t like the idea of actually being arrested so I tend to keep my bedroom antics in the privacy of someone’s home. I’ve certainly given head in places I probably SHOULDN’T have…but those are stories I’m not sharing with the net!

    Tips to make a guy go weak in the knees

    Suck. The name is pretty misleading, just don’t blow. Round your lips over your teeth, relax your tongue before taking the cock into your mouth and then use it to massage the shaft while you move your head up and down. Suck the tip and keep your rhythm.

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    Planning on Touring through the UK and Europe for the month of October to shoot with FourChambers and hopefully some rubber fetish sites!​

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  • Jenny Blighe is hot and she loves giving blowjobs!

    Jenny Blighe is hot and she loves giving blowjobs!

    Jenny Blighe heats things up in this naughty and erotic interview, giving blowjob tips, talking about sex positions and an unfulfilled fantasty which looks like it is going to come true very soon!

    Hi Jenny, it’s a great pleasure to interview you on SimplySxy. Can you share a little about yourself and where you’re from to our readers?

    Sure! My day to day really involves normal everyday activities of being a mother of two small kids! I’m originally from Arkansas and just recently moved back in April to keep the kids closer to their grandparents/aunts/uncles. When I’m not cleaning, cooking, playing outside with them, helping with schoolwork, or just doing the normal mom stuff, then I work! Everyone always asks when I sleep and the answer is randomly!!! I sleep when I can because my schedule can be very hectic! I am lucky to have a boyfriend, who is also my business partner and a very amazing father figure to them! He is my co-star (lol) in all of my videos on ManyVids!

    Oh, and I’m a natural redhead! I do like to experiment with different variations of red from time to time, but I’m a real ginger. 🙂

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    You have numerous blowjob videos on ManyVids which are extremely hot! How much do you enjoy giving blowjobs and can you share one mind-blowing tip with our readers?

    You know…my fans have been very open about their love for my blowjob videos, so I try to keep them as interesting as I can for them and even more frequent now than I used to. I have so many ideas for future ones as well. The blowjob vids will definitely not stop anytime soon!! I absolutely LOVE giving blowjobs. I have always had an oral fixation anyway, so I usually have something in my mouth…a finger, a pen, you name it! Being able to satisfy that need of mine while also blowing his mind is an absolute turn-on for me.

    Hmm..a mind-blowing tip, you say? I guess I would say don’t rush into it. Start slowly and seductively. Tease him with a little tongue, making him want to shove it in your mouth even more. Small kisses up and down the shaft will drive him crazy as well adding some ‘I know you want to ram it in so bad’ eye contact.

    Be playful. He doesn’t just want his dick sucked, he wants to see you enjoying it! Deepthroating is encouraged and from my experience, guys really enjoy “streamers.” I’ve heard many girls say they get embarrassed when they gag hard, but don’t be! Once he’s going, allow him, use that mouth to his full satisfaction and he will literally thank you with a massive load wherever you like. Well, as long as you throw in a little naughty talk and make sure you don’t forget to show some love to his balls 🙂 How’s that for a tip?

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    Are you more of a lingerie or bikini babe?

    Lingerie, for suuuure! I own some pretty stellar bikinis, but I have unlimited lingerie at the moment from purchases over the past 3 years!! I literally have still not figured out an easy way to organize my sets yet lol. If any of you know how to really organize a ton of lingerie I’d love to know lol! I’ve tried so many different ways!

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    Do you prefer to spit or swallow?

    Let’s just say this…if it’s not on my face, it’s usually down my throat!

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    Which is your favorite sex position?

    This is always a tricky question because I am a naughty, naughty girl in bed lol. So, I don’t just like to be in one position. I really like to be in a more submissive position when being fucked. I want to be used and choked…and don’t get me wrong, I love passion as well. I really try to mix the two as much as possible. However, if I had to choose a position that I would say feels the best…I’d say from behind. Basically, where I am laying on my stomach completely flat and he’s behind me giving it to me deep. In this position, he’s able to penetrate so deep that I go nuts!!

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    What is the naughtiest thing you have ever done?

    The naughtiest thing I’ve ever done would probably have to be either the couple of threesomes I’ve had with two friends of mine or all the time I’ve had my boyfriend come home early for his lunch break just so I could suck his dick and have him fuck me over the dresser. I wouldn’t allow him to even take off his outfit. I’d make him pull his dick out and send him back to work with my pussy on his dress pants. 🙂

    Is there a fantasy of yours which has yet to be fulfilled?

    Yes, actually. I’d really like to be at a bar or somewhere public wearing only a trench coat and heels…completely nude underneath (maybe some thigh highs). I have a few drinks and leave waiting for a ride when suddenly my ride pulls up and throws me into their backseat & blindfolds me. He then drives for a few minutes, stops, and comes to open the door. He un-blindfolds me, opens my coat, and begins to fuck me good. 🙂 This is probably going to end up being a video of mine at some point now that I’m thinking of it lol.

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    Thank you again for being on SimplySxy, Jenny. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I’d have to say sexy, in my opinion, is being confident in who you are, not cocky, and showing off your best features. Doesn’t mean body parts necessarily. People with an amazing personality can be extremely sexy. Sexy has so many different meanings, doesn’t it? 🙂

    I will be at Exxxotica in Dallas in August & will be promoting ManyVids as well as doing a few signings at the MyFreeCams booth. Aside from that, I am doing my first magazine shoot at the end of this month for STRIPLV magazine @STRIPLVMAG & am very excited for that to come out! The issue itself will be feature my very first “bush” photos! This will once and for all show that I am a natural redhead lol

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  • A Treatise on Fellatio

    A Treatise on Fellatio

    It’s just a penis, right? Probably not worse for you than smoking…

    So, most guys love it, right? Let’s be honest, most girlfriends and wives find it more of a ‘job’ and find it less than appealing to do it. As a result, the experience might be uncomfortable or even painful for the recipient. Doing it well however might make the whole experience more reciprocal and enjoyable for the both of you. This short article hopefully discusses the key points on a good blowjob (guy on guy/girl on guy).

    Cut or uncut

    This basic point makes a world of a difference and affects technique and process. For those not in the know, a cut penis is a circumcised penis with the foreskin removed. An uncut penis retains the foreskin. The foreskin protects the glans (head of the penis) from the outside, making it more sensitive. A cut penis, having no foreskin, is more exposed to the constant sensation of clothes and other stimuli. The approach between the two therefore is different and will be dealt with separately below.

    The process (uncut)

    If you’ve been fooling around for a bit, your man is probably already ready to go. But if not, gently use your tongue to tease the tip of the penis. Using your mouth, enclose the entire flaccid penis and suck gently. Be careful with your teeth when doing this. Try and curl your lips inward so your teeth don’t graze the goods! By now your man should be up and ready or on the way. Use your hand to gently draw the foreskin back to expose the glans. Do not pull back too hard too fast and too quickly as this will cause the foreskin to draw back on the frenulum (bottom of the glans at the tip of the penis) which may cause tearing of the skin and general discomfort. Curl your tongue around the glans and lick like you’re licking a popsicle stick. Don’t be afraid of using a bit of saliva. More lubrication allows more movement and more pleasure as a result.

    The shaft of the penis is also important. Lick up and down, curling your tongue along the way. Suck gently along the way, especially focusing on the glans. Keep the shaft wet so you can slide your hand up and down the shaft. Again, you are not shaking a martini: do not stroke/slide your hand quickly and too fast. Particularly in an uncut gentleman, this may cause some tearing, pain or discomfort. Your man will give you a good idea of what is a good speed and pressure. Many women move up and down the penis with their mouth, simulating entry into the vagina. The verdict is still out on this method. Some guys find this pleasurable, others, not so much. I tend to think, if a man can do the same with your vagina, why get a blowjob? I would recommend paying more attention to the glans and shaft as outlined above.

    Your man does not just have a penis. His other jewels are also a whole new world of pleasure. Play with them with your fingers while you are sucking him off. Then take a ball in your mouth and again suck gently. Lick the balls while you stroke him. That should give him a world of pleasure to think about.

    The process (cut)

    Cut penises are in a world of their own. The big difference is because there is no foreskin, the glans is exposed constantly to outside stimuli like the fabric of clothes/ underpants/ water when bathing etc. It is therefore less sensitive than on a guy with a foreskin. This does not mean that the glans should be ignored completely; there is feeling there, just not as intense as an uncut gentleman.

    In this case, I would recommend less attention on the glans but instead focus on the corona (no, not the beer) where the glans meets the shaft, the slight lip on the glans. Pay some attention in licking that sweet spot as it is usually less de-sensitised than the rest of the glans. Some guys have a row of little bumps on the corona. That is a good place to be stimulated with your tongue.

    Otherwise the same attention to the shaft and balls apply to the cut gentleman. Lots of saliva and lubricant to stroke his penis while sucking would be ideal.

    The other regions

    The penis and balls are not the only erogenous zones that you can target when you are down there. Between his legs (where his thighs meet the crotch) is a good spot to kiss and gently lick. They are areas which do not receive much stimuli normally and therefore are particularly sensitive to a wet mouth.

    If you are adventurous, you can move down to his perineum, the region between his anus and testicles. Also a region that does not receive much stimuli, this can be extremely pleasurable for your man if you lick and suck this area. I’ll go into this in a later article but good hygiene is a must.

    Deepthroating

    This is for the more advanced class. You’ve probably heard that guys love this. Porn movies show this all the time and the guy usually groans like heaven on earth. It’s not usually as dramatic as that though it feels good. If your man really wants you to do it, the secret is practice, practice, practice. Practice on swallowing something about the size of your man’s penis (a carrot or your vibrator) to get your gag reflex used to something down that far your throat. Make it clear to your man however, that pushing your head down on his penis does not encourage you to deep throat and is frankly just rude.

    Orgasm

    Ah, the big finish. Unfortunately, many men have different ways in which they can make themselves cum. This might be a question of how fast they want to stroke their penis, the amount of pressure they put on their glans, amount of lubricant or level of arousal. It is difficult to replicate this with your mouth. Therefore, making your man cum after doing all that work down there is not always possible. It is rewarding when it does happen and it could happen from time to time for a various range of reasons but don’t be disappointed if it does not happen. Sex, including oral sex, is not about climax or cum. It’s about a coming together of two people who want to express their affection for each other by giving each other mutual pleasure. Orgasm is only a small part of that.

    Happy sxing,

    Steph