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  • What It Means To Be Bisexual

    What It Means To Be Bisexual

    I enjoy making love to women as much as men. It makes me enjoy the best of both worlds and spices things up.

    Discovering My Bisexuality

    Ever since I was a teenager, I liked to touch and kiss girls but I never went all the way until my mid twenties with my best friend and it changed my whole sexual preference forever. I just like how women smell , taste, feel overall, and love their sensuality.

    Misconceptions On Bisexuality

    From what I have encountered many times, straight women might think that being bisexual means being attracted only to women and that’s a common misconception.

    How To Explore One’s Bisexuality

    In my opinion, it is best to have your first experience with someone whom you trust and know for a long time. Most importantly, it’s a clear line of communication of what parents want / need to gain from this experience. Also, it’s best to take things slow, don’t be aggressive and don’t allow anyone to do anything you are uncomfortable with.

    One Important Tip When Dating A Bisexual

    As I mentioned before, the most important thing is communication and making sure that you and your potential partner(s) is/are on the same page regarding needs and wants. 🙂

    Naia Bee – Russian boobilicious queens with 38HH. Love animals and nature, devil in billiards a little, likes long walks and road trips, practices yoga. Enjoys exploring my sexuality and others.  Bisexual sensual deviant.

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  • Under Pressure to Perform During Sex

    Under Pressure to Perform During Sex

    So my name is Jakeb Arturio Braden and I have been writing articles and vlogging for many years now on the issues that affect my gay and bisexual brothers.

    So I am bearded and masculine and would classify as a bear of sorts and I have been and seen a lot of changes in things over the past 23 years since I first came out as gay.

    I enjoy sex, good sex, horny sexy feeling that deep connection with another man. I can’t help but think though that as gay and bisexual men we may put too much value in it as a way of expressing ourselves and connecting to each other. Especially in the bear community, every Bear film, photoshoot etc seems to always depict that sex is easy to come by. Always horny and we’re always ready for action at the drop of a hat. I recently watched Bear City 2 and Where the Bears Are Season Three.  Both these showed a parade of hot bears having porn style sex etc. Yes, Iain Parks is horny and physically my ideal bloke even though there are many sexy blokes in Where the Bears Are.

    Now I am not saying that this is necessarily a bad thing! I can’t help but wonder if we put ourselves under undue pressure in regards to our sex lives; what and how sex should be. Perhaps having unfair expectations of ourselves and our sexual partners. I am amazed at how many times guy lose interest because I am not going to turn up at their homes and perform like a porn star. Instant gratification much? Personally, I find the build up as much fun as actually having sex.  What is this really about? Have we really as a community just become a porn film or stereotype forced on us by the Gay Media?

    What is wrong about wanting a bit more from sex? Wanting a sense of connection.

    I am sure that actually, the intense passion and abandonment is more likely with someone you have spent some time to get to know than with someone you feel pressurised to “perform” for!  I’m not saying that it has to be all hearts and flowers, yet don’t we owe it to ourselves and each other to treat each other with a bit more respect than purely seeing each other as sexual objects?

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