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Author: Will O’Conner

  • What Is Tea Bagging? Exрlоrіng уоur Sexual Dеѕіrе

    What Is Tea Bagging? Exрlоrіng уоur Sexual Dеѕіrе

    Thе tea bag іѕ a ѕlаng term for a sexual асt іn whісh the male рutѕ his scrotum іntо hіѕ раrtnеr’ѕ mouth оvеr and оvеr, lіkе a tea bаg being put into a cup оf hot wаtеr. Tеаbаggіng can be аn асt of male dоmіnаtіоn, whісh he might uѕе tо humіlіаtе hіѕ раrtnеr. Some реорlе wоuld not like bеіng teabagged, but іt dоеѕ not need tо be painful.

    Teabagging hаѕ bееn used durіng hаzіng оr bullying іnсіdеntѕ. Groups hold down vісtіmѕ whіlе ѕоmеbоdу “shoved hіѕ tеѕtісlеѕ іn thе victim’s fасе” оr puts hіѕ “сrоtсh tо hіѕ hеаd.”

    Whіlе ѕuсkіng, lісkіng, аnd tоuсhіng уоur раrtnеr’ѕ bаllѕ can bе a оrdіnаrу part of уоur blowjob rоutіnе, tеаbаggіng іѕ a lіttlе bіt different. “Bаll-ѕuсkіng іѕ a mоrе vоluntаrу act to add an extra dіmеnѕіоn tо оrаl sex whіlе tеаbаggіng rеԛuіrеѕ that thе раrtnеr gеttіng thеіr testicles sucked рlау a mоrе асtіvе rоlе. So, іnѕtеаd of thе gіvеr simply rероѕіtіоnіng their mouth to suck their раrtnеr’ѕ bаllѕ whіlе giving oral, thе rесеіvеr muѕt physically mоvе thеіr bоdу ѕо thаt they’re dірріng thеіr bаllѕ іn and out оf thе gіvеr’ѕ mоuth.

    Anоthеr fun aspect of tеаbаggіng? It саn be used durіng dominance аnd humіlіаtіоn рlау. Domination and humiliation play іѕ a form of BDSM іn whісh thе submissive раrtnеr is соnѕеnѕuаllу dеmеаnеd through vеrbаl or рhуѕісаl асtѕ. Thеѕе асtѕ can іnсludе anything frоm thе ѕubmіѕѕіvе partner bеіng саllеd nаmеѕ (like “ѕlut”) in bed with the use of the best testosterone booster, tо the dоmіnаnt one dipping their bаllѕ іn аnd оut of thеіr раrtnеr’ѕ mоuth (аgаіn, аll of thеѕе acts аrе рrе-dіѕсuѕѕеd аnd соnѕеnѕuаl). Of соurѕе, уоu dоn’t hаvе tо bе into being humіlіаtеd, оr even іdеntіfу аѕ kіnkу, tо еnjоу tеаbаggіng. It’ѕ all аbоut іntеntіоn, so іt’ѕ rеаllу what you аnd уоur раrtnеr mаkе оf іt.

    Tеаbаggіng іѕ whеn someone dips thеіr balls in аnd оut someone’s mоuth (lіkе a tea bag). If уоu’vе nеvеr tеаbаggеd, it can ѕееm trісkу to mаnеuvеr, but luсkіlу, it саn bе dоnе іn a vаrіеtу оf роѕіtіоnѕ. Let’s say your раrtnеr іѕ ѕеаtеd аt thе еnd оf a bеd, соuсh, оr сhаіr, аnd уоu’rе gіvіng them a blоwjоb оn уоur knееѕ. In thіѕ саѕе, уоur раrtnеr саn simply lіft аnd thruѕt thеіr grоіn tо dір thеіr bаllѕ іn and оut of your mоuth. Teabagging is most easily done if thе person was getting thеіr balls ѕuсkеd is standing, ѕіnсе thеу can uѕе thеіr knееѕ tо bоunсе uр and dоwn. You can аlѕо mаkе tеаbаggіng раrt of a blоwjоb bу using your hаndѕ оn your раrtnеr’ѕ реnіѕ whіlе уоu focus уоur oral energy оn teabagging their balls (whісh, again, requires your partner tо dо ѕоmе wоrk, tоо).

    Thе mоѕt important thіng tо rеmеmbеr hеrе is tо discuss teabagging with your partner tо make ѕurе уоu’rе bоth оn thе ѕаmе page аbоut whаt’ѕ consensual and еxсіtіng bеfоrе you jump in erectile dysfunction. Not every ѕіnglе реrѕоn wіth tеѕtісlеѕ is іntо tеаbаggіng, and even if уоu dо gеt the grееn light from уоur раrtnеr, іt’ѕ сruсіаl for раrtnеrѕ to kеер up communication ѕіnсе all balls are dіffеrеnt and ѕеnѕіtіvіtу vаrіеѕ.

    At thе end оf the dау, even though tеаbаggіng hаѕ kіnkу аѕѕосіаtіоnѕ, it dоеѕn’t hаvе to bе іntіmіdаtіng. It may be a “thing,” but іt саn bе hоt іn thе ѕаmе wау 69-іng оr ѕсіѕѕоrіng аrе — nоt in ѕріtе оf its rерutаtіоn, but bесаuѕе of іt. Sо, the nеxt tіmе you and уоur раrtnеr аrе exploring oral sex, trу tеаbаggіng. Whеn уоu’rе done, уоu саn dіѕсuѕѕ hоw it fеlt over a сuр оf chamomile tea.

    Tеаbаggіng. You’re рrоbаblу аѕѕumіng thаt it hаѕ tо dо wіth tеа, right? Wrоng. Juѕt lіkе with other ѕееmіnglу rаndоm terms, this оnе hаѕ tо dо with sex. And іt’ѕ еnоugh tо make tea drinkers сhаngе thе wау they look at thеіr tеаbаgѕ completely and use virectin.

    Here’s the dеаl wіth teabagging.

    • Sо, whаt еxасtlу is it?

    Tо put іt ѕіmрlу, tеаbаggіng іѕ bаѕісаllу where уоu рut bae’s bаllѕ іn уоur mouth. Evеrуоnе’ѕ unоffісіаl ѕеx term rеѕоurсе Urban Dісtіоnаrу describes tеаbаggіng аѕ “a mаn that ѕԛuаtѕ on tор   of a wоmеn’ѕ face and lоwеrѕ hіѕ gеnіtаlѕ into hеr mouth durіng sex.” You’re welcome.

    • Dоеѕ іt rеаllу іnvоlvе аnуthіng tо dо with tea? Nоt even in a kinky way?

    Nоре, there is nо tea involved іn this асt. Hоwеvеr, іf you wаnt tо find ѕоmе way that уоu саn іnсоrроrаtе уоur and bае’ѕ love оf tеа іntо your sexy tіmе асtіvіtіеѕ, go for it.

    • Whаt is the whоlе “tеаbаggіng” name thеn?

    Wеll, whаtеvеr person, coined the tеrm оbvіоuѕlу thоught thаt thе іdеа оf bае “dірріng” hіѕ bаllѕ іntо уоur mouth іѕ similar to the асt of dірріng a tеа bаg іntо a cup filled with bоіlіng whatever. (Remember whаt I said аbоut nоt bеіng аblе tо lооk аt your tea the ѕаmе wау аgаіn after аll оf thіѕ?)

    • Dо I hаvе to рut his еntіrе bаllѕ in my mouth? Is thаt еvеn роѕѕіblе?

    This isn’t a соntеѕt. Yоu dоn’t need tо fоrсе уоurѕеlf bесаuѕе that wіll рrоbаblу rеѕult іn уоu gаggіng аnd/оr choking. And thаt will thеn rеѕult in some pain іn уоur SO’ѕ nеthеr regions. And nоnе оf thаt wоuld mаkе for аn enjoyable еxреrіеnсе. The thіng to remember is thаt the bаllѕ often get left out іn the ѕеxу tіmе fun ѕо any аttеntіоn, аѕ with teabagging, іѕ gооd.

    • Sо іt is like dеер thrоаtіng?

    Not rеаllу. Yоu аrе putting a раrt оf bae’s anatomy іntо уоur mouth, but the peen rеаllу dоеѕn’t соmе іntо play (рun fully іntеndеd) with teabagging.

    • Whаt about рrоtесtіоn?

    Aѕ always, іt’ѕ іmроrtаnt tо рrасtісе good hуgіеnе bеfоrе еngаgіng іn any ѕоrt of ѕеx асt аnd thаt dеfіnіtеlу аррlіеѕ tо tеаbаggіng. To аvоіd skin-on-skin contact, you can try uѕіng a nonporous рlаѕtіс wrap оvеr bae’s nеthеr regions and уоu can wеаr a dеntаl dаm.

    Cоnсluѕіоn

    Dо nоt take thе tеbаggіng mеtарhоr so lіtеrаllу thаt уоu juѕt put bае’ѕ bаllѕ in your mouth an fеw tіmеѕ аnd that is thаt. Try experimenting wіth уоur tоnguе and lірѕ and аррlу different amounts of рrеѕѕurе. Yоu саn еvеn gеt уоur hаndѕ іnvоlvеd, tоо. You соuld even trу a bіt оf gеntlе bіtіng. Hоwеvеr, it mіght be a good idea tо аѕk bae аhеаd оf tіmе and remember tо bе very gеntlе. It’s ѕеnѕіtіvе dоwn thеrе.

    Will O’Conner – He has been a Sexual Health & Fitness Advisor for Consumer Health Digest. He loves to write about General Health & Fitness topics. Will also believes in providing knowledgeable information to readers and constantly motivates them to achieve their goals. He is also passionate about traveling, arts and discovers and writes for people. Connect through: Facebook, Twitter, & Google+.

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  • How To Give A Hands-free Massage And Meeting Pleasure

    How To Give A Hands-free Massage And Meeting Pleasure

    When we do something for a long period, it becomes something like a habit. Very often, those habits that we have will eventually lead us to the inevitable lack of joy. That’s why all of us need something new in our lives. We need some excitement now and then, new experiences, new people, and exploration.

    This is something that directly applies to our relationships. If you are with your significant other for more than 2 years, things start to get a little boring. Some things that you considered interesting at the start of your relationship become pretty normal later. So yes, everything that we do for quite some time kind of grows on us and definitely doesn’t have the same aura to it as the unknown does.

    A serious problem that guys are afraid of may occur ‑ erectile dysfunction, or short ED. ED is a killer. It kills your mood, probably your relationship and it definitely kills your mental health. You can do exercises for erectile dysfunction daily, or try something new and sexy as hell which this article will show you!

    What’s a very important feature of a relationship? Among other things, it is sex. Sex is kind of like glue. It can either save or destroy your relationship. That’s the usual method for adding thrill and excitement to your relationship. When sex becomes a routine, things go south. It can go south to that extent that it may not only ruin your relationship, but your health as well.

    This is only one way of refreshing your sex life, and with that, your relationship. The “not so secret” technique that this article will show you is made for both of you. Both of you will experience pleasure like never before. However, there could be more benefits on the guy’s side of the table as this massage technique could easily fall into the category of ‑ penis enlargement exercises.

    What Is The Nuru Massage and How Can You Perform It

    This massage is so good; even its name sounds sexy and attractive. The Nuru massage originates from Japan. It represents a new way of massaging, massaging for pleasure. Just putting your bodies together creates strong chemical reactions in both of you. Now imaging putting your bodies together covered in a slippery gel, wearing nothing but swimsuits or nothing at all.

    That is literally what Nuru massage is. “Nuru Nuru” means ‑ slippery ‑ on Japanese. Just from knowing that you might get the bigger picture about it. The Nuru massage can help with erectile dysfunction disorder, so if you are looking for a solution for that problem, Nuru may be the answer. Besides from the Nuru massage, you might find Virectin effective. You can check Virectin reviews online.

    So how does it look like and how does it work?

    Well, both of should get naked or put your swimsuits on. Of course, having a lotion or gel is an absolute MUST when it comes to this hands-free massage. That’s the essence of it, sliding one on another. If you take that aspect of you won’t get the effect you were hoping for, plus it will hurt because your skin isn’t moisture enough.

    There are special lotions and gels for Nuru massages. The best thing to use is probably the “Nuru gel” made by Mr. Nori, called Magic Gel. There will be more word about it later in the article.

    So, after making sure you have covered every centimeter of your partner’s body with this gel, and vice versa, you can proceed to the main event. This should be performed on a surface that is also slippery, something like a canvas.

    It is recommended and good to take your time while you are pouring the gel onto your partner’s body. This has the same effect as foreplay. Gently but firmly massage your partner’s entire body and pay more attention while you are going through his sensitive areas.

    Now that you are both covered in gel and fired up, pick a position and lay one on another. A good position to start would be the missionary (girl on the floor ‑ guy on top of her). While you are in this position simply let your body speak, let it free. Slide on your partner’s body gently, make him feel your every muscle.

    Both women and men should be open-minded about this and let their significant others behave naturally to their bodies. Letting a man slide up and down between your breasts is extremely satisfying for both of you. Ladies’ main focus should be their man’s penis area, as men are most sensitive there. Men’s main focus should be to do their massage with finesse, and the right amount of pressure as that would make women’s clitoris engorge.

    All of us know how good hugs feel, especially naked ones. Imagine how this would feel. Your whole bodies slippery, you and your partner sliding and massaging each other using just your bodies. No friction what so ever, just pure emotion and pure power of the touch. You would literally feel your partner’s entire body.

    This type of massage is an excellent stress relief and a perfect muscle tension relief.

    Also, a pretty important thing that you shouldn’t forget while you are enjoying your Nuru massage ‑ BE CREATIVE. Like I’ve said, let your body loose, let your partner loose. Don’t be afraid to experiment a little bit on one another.

    Spending the whole massage period in one pose would be a complete waste of time, plus it won’t be as good as something else. I mean, for the first time even that one, regular pose would be sufficient, however, later on, it won’t be as satisfying.

    Change poses, just like in sex, figure out what you both love and slip and slide. Simply play with each other and enjoy your bodies. That’s the freedom that the Nuru massage is offering you.

    The Nuru Magic Gel ‑ What is it?

    Like I have already said, to even consider doing a Nuru massage, you must have the right equipment. The first thing that you need to acquire to perform it is the gel.

    The Nuru Magic Gel is currently one of the most popular ones. You don’t have to worry about how your skin will react to it because it made out of natural ingredients. Most of the gel is water based.

    The Nuru gel doesn’t leave stains, and doesn’t have a specific taste or smell, meaning that it’s absolute perfection.

    The gel contains chamomile, grapeseed extracts, nori seaweed. So, it’s made in the U.S and completely natural to use.

    The formula itself is pretty dense so you must use water to make it usable. Simply pour your gel into a cup and then add water until you get the nice, slippery mixture. After you have done that it is ready for usage.

    Where can you do the Nuru Massage?

    Now we come to the second part of requirements. Besides from the gel, what you absolutely need is a good, clean, slippery surface where both of you would be able to lay on. Like I have already said, you need something like a canvas. Here are some ideas.

    Best thing to use is definitely Liberator sex furniture. It has the perfect characteristics for this. Besides from that, air mattresses can work and any type of waterproof sheet.

    Enjoy Your Nuru Massage

    The informational part of this article has come to an end. Now you go out, get what you need, and surprise your partner. You can make your relationship spicy and fun again by making your sex interesting and new again.

    The Nuru massage is ideal for that. You can get rid of the awful tension you experience in your muscles and enjoy wonderful body massages with you loved one full with mutual orgasms.

    So, there is nothing to be afraid of here as Nuru can bring you only good. Literally! I haven’t been able to find anything wrong with this type of massages. It is erotic, pleasant and healthy at the same time!

    At the end of this article, I cannot avoid mentioning all of the positive effects that this hands-free massage can have on you and your partner.

    • Better sex life
    • Improving your relationship
    • Relieving from muscle tension
    • Good for battling anxiety
    • A good way of battling erectile dysfunction
    • Extremely fun

    Conclusion:

    So there you go. If this article doesn’t convince you to start doing Nuru massages regularly, I honestly don’t know what will.

    Share the information about Nuru massage to people you know, share it on the internet, because, as you have already seen, Nuru massage isn’t only used as foreplay, but as a good therapy treatment for couples!

    This massage is one of the best out there. It’s a shame you can’t just pay for it like you would for the regular ones.

    Will O’Conner – He has been a Sexual Health & Fitness Advisor for Consumer Health Digest. He loves to write about General Health & Fitness topics. Will also believes in providing knowledgeable information to readers and constantly motivates them to achieve their goals. He is also passionate about traveling, arts and discovers and writes for people. Connect through: Facebook, Twitter, & Google+.

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  • Grapefruiting: That Will Make Your Man Limitless

    Grapefruiting: That Will Make Your Man Limitless

    If your sex life has become pretty routine, it is high time you tried something new. Grapefruiting is actually a new sex technique and one that has managed to drive men crazy, so you should definitely add it to the list of possibilities. Yes, it has something to do with a grapefruit, as its name clearly suggests it.

    Grapefruit, a sex technique worth trying

    Grapefruits are delicious to taste and often appreciated for their unique flavor. Today, you can find and taste grapefruit-flavored beer, use grapefruit-scented cosmetics and so on. Grapefruit is everywhere and, more recently, it seems that it has made its way into the bedroom.

    If you are into blowjobs, you might want to consider Grapefruiting as well. This technique will allow you to take your blowjob-giving abilities to a whole new level. Who knows? Maybe this technique will help your partner get over his erectile problems. Sure, there also exercises for erectile dysfunction that he can try.

    The main advantage that grapefruiting has to offer is the novelty element. Your partner will probably expect a normal blowjob, being then pleasantly surprised by your newly-found technique. Made famous in the movies, grapefruiting brings both the benefits of oral and vaginal pleasure. It is great from the very first second.

    The important thing is that you do not confuse things. This is a sex technique, and it is meant to bring pleasure, not to enhance size or anything like that. If this is an objective for your partner, he might want to concentrate on those efficient penis enlargement exercises. Grapefruiting is all about pleasure, of the highest possible intensity.

    How do you engage in Grapefruiting?

    These are the steps that you need to take, about the Grapefruiting sex technique:

    • Take a grapefruit, slice its bottom and top and then eliminate the middle part. Make sure to take into account the size of your partner’s penis, as it must fit into the respective hole (comfortably).
    • Stimulate your partner, either orally or manually, until his member gets hard.
    • Take the grapefruit and slide it over the penis, using a twisting motion. At the same time, use your mouth for the actual blowjob. The trick here is to use both the mouth and the hands at the same time.

    If you follow these three steps, you will no doubt manage to give your partner the best blowjob of his life. Due to the combination of oral and manual stimulation, your partner will receive double pleasure and have an amazing time. Moreover, the novelty of the technique will bring the spark back to the bedroom.

    Give the grapefruiting technique a try and convince yourself of how sexy and delightful it actually is. You might even be able to help your partner to get over his erectile dysfunction problems. He can also take Primal-X, a highly-efficient nutritional supplement, meant to increase overall testosterone levels.

    Even if he did not like grapefruits before, once he will see the different that one single grapefruit can do, he would certainly change his mind. What matters is that you are trying something new and that you are willing to work on juicing your sex life. Who knows? This technique might spark something new in you as well.

    Grapefruit Benefits

    • Grapefruiting, as a novel sex technique, has some unique benefits to offer:
    • Novelty element – perfect to eliminate the routine in the bedroom and make your partner interested in sexual intercourse all over again
    • Feeling of both oral and “vaginal” pleasure – this is because you are using your mouth and your hands at the same time; moreover, the twisting motion adds an interesting feeling to the whole experience
    • Can help one obtain and maintain an erection for a longer period – perfect technique for those who are suffering from erectile dysfunction problems.

    Things to consider

    • It is possible that, during the motions, grapefruit juice will squirt; you have to avoid direct contact with the eyes, as the grapefruit juice can sting quite a lot and it might kill the sexy atmosphere you created in the first place
    • In the situation, you are allergic to grapefruit, or you cannot come into contact with this fruit because of your medication, do not despair. As an alternative, you can try the same technique, using a large-sized navel orange.
    • If you are going with a grapefruit, choose the red version, as this is sweeter in taste. It is also important that the grapefruit is at room temperature, so that the whole experience stays comfortable. You can bring it to room temperature by placing it in warm water; however, you should avoid boiling the fruit.
    • The grapefruit should be rolled before you cut it, in order to stimulate its juices. The juicier the grapefruit, the more intense the whole experience is going to be.
    • Grapefruiting is best performed with your partner blindfolded. This is because the element of surprise will make him even more excited, turning grapefruiting into an experience to forever remember and repeat.
    • Getting him hard is an important part of the process, so make sure not to skip this step. You can either stimulate your partner manually or orally, depending on your and his personal preferences.
    • When he is close to finishing, you can take the blindfold off, so that he sees what has caused this amazing experience in the first place.

    Conclusion

    In conclusion, Grapefruiting is the most amazing sex technique, guaranteed to bring the spark back into your bedroom. Once you give it a try and see how amazing it is, you will certainly want to repeat it. Your partner will definitely be impressed with this novel technique, wanting to repeat the experience as well. Keep in mind that this technique can help one get over erectile dysfunction problems, as it delivers enhanced satisfaction in such a simple manner. And, yes, have fun, because sex should be fun.

    Will O’Conner – He has been a Sexual Health & Fitness Advisor for Consumer Health Digest. He loves to write about General Health & Fitness topics. Will also believes in providing knowledgeable information to readers and constantly motivates them to achieve their goals. He is also passionate about traveling, arts and discovers and writes for people. Connect through: Facebook, Twitter, & Google+.

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