There was one time when I doubted my hubby’s intention regarding the swinger world. He told me “I don’t want to be with anyone else but you … But I want you to be with lots of men and fuck like crazy”. I was hardwired to expect the opposite from men. They’re usually the ones who go and stick their sticks inside as much females as it’s humanly possible. Why was this man that I love asking to reverse roles? Did he have a hidden agenda? Did he want to play it as a future card whenever he felt like fucking a stranger at a party?
Plenty of ideas went through my mind at the beginning, but then they dissipated on time. I found out he was really into assuming the passive role in the relationship while wanting me to develop an uncanny lust for fuck buddies and keep him posted. The moment of truth for 
me occurred during our first rendezvous with a swinger couple about three years ago. Both of them were really attractive people. The four of us were in a hotel room
, dancing to Gossip and touching each other, but when my husband felt the timing was perfect, he just stood away and found himself a nice chair to witness the three of us having sex. Even though he found the lady amazingly sexy, it wasn’t his intention to have his way with her. He just wanted to see me getting tons of pleasure, but mainly from the man. “Fuck my wife”, he whispered at him several times.
This was obviously a new world to me. I wasn’t ready to cope with such a sexual response, but then I knew his kink was a complement of my sex drive. It was like two parts of a puzzle meant to fit perfectly into each other. I began to notice things I didn’t pay that much attention before. Like when you see Fight Club for the second time and realize it was freaking obvious that Brad Pitt was … Well, you know if you’ve seen the film. There were hints all over my husband’s behavior that made it clear: he is a proud cuckold.
Below are some of these clues I will disclose for you to find out for yourself if that man who is so attentive and amazing towards you is indeed a potential cucky. Read and enjoy …
1. He’s really eager to know about your past lovers.
2. He’s got no problem at all with you hitting the streets in a slutty outfit and even encourages it by shopping for sexy stuff by himself.
3. He’s told you that sometimes when masturbating, he pictures you with another man.
4. He loves to set you up with different dance partners at parties or bars. He’s got no problem at all with naughty dancing.
5. He loves to know if someone’s been flirting on you at the street or the office.
6. He asks for it. Duh!
7. He’s confessed to imagining you as a porn actress while watching naughty videos.
8. He keeps telling you about guys who you might find appealing.
9. He gets an erection when you tell him you’d like to be with another man, imaginary or real (the penis doesn’t lie).
10. You find a lot of ‘cheating wife’ searches in his computer.
11. He talks a lot about how he feels not capable of pleasing you.
Of course, it’s not mandatory that showing any or some of these attributes actually means your husband wants to be cuckolded, but most men with hotwife fantasies have them. So it’s just a guideline for you to explore. Don’t go and spill the beans on him like it’s nothing. Try to probe him by telling him about a steamy video you saw of a cuckold couple or just bringing the topic to the table because you happened to read it in a magazine.
Now, find out for yourself and enjoy it.
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