How To Enjoy Anal Sex With Your Partner

Please read the whole article, as there is a lot of useful information in every step, and you must not miss any for you to have the best anal experience possible!

Hello! We are Evil Kitties. And we both love anal sex. (She also loves to use a strapon on him – pegging). When done right it feels as good as casual sex if not even better! We love anything that is kinky and a little taboo, and we’re really lucky that we met each other, so we can explore all our kinks together. Before we started filming amateur porn films we had a lot of fun in the bedroom, having sex pretty much all day, stopping every two hours for a cup of tea or coffee and jumping right back into bed. But it took a while before we actually had anal sex. She had nothing but bad experiences with previous partners, because people think you can just stick it in and it will be fine. Wrong. There is a lot of work and foreplay involved before you can even begin to think that you will stick it in.

Anal sex is a process for both partners. We will explain throughout this article how to approach anal sex, so the both of you will have as much fun as you can. You cannot tell her to practice at home alone, you need to be there with her, so she gets used to you sticking something inside her butt. When you stick something in your butt yourself, your body knows it’s you that is doing it. And your butt will react differently to that kind of pleasure. Anal is way more intimate than casual sex, it connects you together on a whole different level when both of you enjoy it! You gain a different amount of trust to your other half when anal sex is done right.

Imagine that something big is being forced up your ass. Most people are usually really scared of that, but they have no problem doing that to someone else. Why? Because they have never tried it. In our opinion if you want to shove your thingy inside someone’s ass, you must be willing to try it yourself. Only then will you actually know how it feels, and you will be better at it. That is the only thing that both of you can experience almost the same way.

Thankfully he knew what he was doing when we started having anal sex. Because he likes having anal sex himself he knows exactly how to approach it. Don’t rush it. Don’t be overeager. Just take your time and enjoy every moment with her or him. If you don’t have the patience to do all of that foreplay, you don’t have any right to stick your thingy inside her/him. So keep on reading if you think you have the patience to start having anal sex. We will explain everything, don’t worry. In no time, you and your partner will start having even more fun in bed.

Why We Love Anal Sex

Anal sex is enjoyable because your colon/butt has a lot of nerve endings in it! A lot of people probably don’t know that. So everything that comes out or goes in will feel good. And when done right, it will feel amazing! On the other hand if done wrong, it will hurt like hell! And you will probably never even think of having anal sex again. A lot of women and men stop having anal sex because of just one bad experience. So be the one that makes a change, anal can be amazing, make girls and guys start liking anal sex from the first experience.

There is nothing specific that we love about anal sex, it just feels good. Don’t get us wrong, it is pretty kinky, but we do a lot of kinky stuff anyway, so it’s just something we enjoy occasionally. The great part about anal is that you don’t need to worry about getting her pregnant. So you can have all the fun you want. (if you know your partner is healthy). Your colon is really sensitive because there are a lot of little blood veins in there. So you can still catch something if you are not careful.

Making Anal Sex Enjoyable For Yourself & Your Partner

It really helps that you know you are going to have anal sex beforehand. It might be tonight or tomorrow but it’s pretty much always better to know ahead of time. Your butt knows when it’s going to receive some action. Anal is a lot in your head, it’s kind of an obstacle to overcome, but you can convince yourself that your butt is ready, just by getting horny and thinking about it beforehand. So tell your partner when you want to have it, communication is key to great anal sex. In porn it seems so easy, it’s not.

A good massage beforehand will help you out a lot! Anything to make your body relax will benefit a huge amount. A nice hot bath is also good, it will help you relax your muscles and ease your mind off the stress throughout the day. Music always helps when having sex. For us some good black or death metal really sets the mood, but you stick to your preferred genre of music, anything that will make your relax, because that is the most important thing.

Not everybody can achieve an anal orgasm, even we sometimes don’t get one, it totally depends on your mood, how horny you are and how long you are having sex. For guys and girls it is different. Men have their G-spot inside their butt. It’s called their prostate. So ladies (or guys) can give them a prostate massage for them to achieve a hands free orgasm. The prostate is situated a few centimeters or like 2 inches inside their butt. And with a proper massage you can give your partner a full body orgasm, and trust us, that is something you have never imagined if you have never felt it. You can even have more than one orgasm that way. When you have your prostate massaged, it reduces the chance of cancer, it makes you horny and it stimulates the gland to make more sperm, so you can shoot bigger loads. (What man or woman doesn’t want that, huh?)

Ladies don’t have any organ in their butt to additionally stimulate their experience, but they can still achieve an anal orgasm! Ms. Evil Kitties can achieve a few different orgasms with anal sex. It totally depends on her mood and on the foreplay and if she stimulates her vagina or clit with her vibrator. The most sure thing for her is stimulating her clit with her favorite little vibrator, it usually has the best and quickest results. The last time she was locked up in a chastity belt, so she could not receive any vaginal stimulation and she still orgasmed because she was so horny! And it was a really different kind of orgasm, something she has never experienced before.

Part II To Follow…

Hello! We are Evil Kitties, we are a bisexual couple (She 35, he 25) of European decent and we started making amateur porn videos just a couple of months ago. We love anything kinky and we like to try out new things. We like to keep an open mind and have a lot of different fetishes. We don’t film porn, we are just doing what we love, and basically we make love on camera because it’s fun and exciting!

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