“I am keen to try new things in the bedroom other than our normal sex routine but she does not. How can I convince her to do so or attempt to try something new?”
I would definitely start with recommending something a little on the softer side if your partner is not too keen on trying new things. For example, instead of pulling out a huge dildo what if you started with some romance to open her up like:
- Candles – candlelight is really flattering to women and makes them feel sensual. For an added bonus make sure one of the candles is a soy massage candle. Not only is it great for the light but the wax melts down and can be used for a great massage!
- Rose Petals – a dozen roses go a long way. Take the petals off of 6 of them and create a path leading to the bedroom or in front of a fireplace. Scatter them around and make sure there are some lingering on her pillow. She’s guaranteed to feel special!
- How about a luscious chocolate mint organic lubricant like no other that is going to knock her socks off? Ever heard of Sex Butter? (http://www.sexbutter.net) Not only will she be ready and willing in minutes and there for the duration – both of you will enjoy the intensified sensation bonus when it comes to the big O!
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