Convincing Your Partner To Try New Things In Bed

“I am keen to try new things in the bedroom other than our normal sex routine but she does not. How can I convince her to do so or attempt to try something new?”

I would definitely start with recommending something a little on the softer side if your partner is not too keen on trying new things. For example, instead of pulling out a huge dildo what if you started with some romance to open her up like:

1. Candles – candlelight is really flattering to women and makes them feel sensual. For an added bonus make sure one of the candles is a soy massage candle. Not only is it great for the light but the wax melts down and can be used for a great massage!
2. Rose Petals – a dozen roses go a long way. Take the petals off of 6 of them and create a path leading to the bedroom or in front of a fireplace. Scatter them around and make sure there are some lingering on her pillow. She’s guaranteed to feel special!
3. How about a luscious chocolate mint organic lubricant like no other that is going to knock her socks off? Ever heard of Sex Butter? (http://www.sexbutter.net) Not only will she be ready and willing in minutes and there for the duration – both of you will enjoy the intensified sensation bonus when it comes to the big O!

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Bonnie Gayle, Body Image Expert and the Founder of Boudoir Butter & Sex Butter, educates hosts the podcast show on 65 networks, “Body Beautiful” covering feeling comfortable & confident in your body, connecting intimately & stepping into your sexual deliciousness. Bonnie’s believes releasing yourself from body bondage, body and sexual shame and learning to love your self are “an inside job”! Her products, Boudoir Butter & Sex Butter are sexually empowering pleasure enhancements made with organic plant-based oils to inspire your own natural juiciness!

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