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What One Should Know About Femdom

My thoughts on kink are that alternative lifestyles can be therapeutic and/or life changing. There is a place for anyone and everyone in the community, young or old no matter what size, shape, or color they may be. When someone explores their sexuality, they improve their quality of life.

How My Interest In Femdom Started

I’ve always been a dominant woman, but when I was 22, I’ll officially say it started. Life really wasn’t treating me the best. I had been nude modeling with local photographers for pay and it just was not enough. I just couldn’t live in poverty anymore, I have two mouths to feed. So I was looking for any option to get myself out of where I was. I tried being a sugar baby, but all the dates I went on were so strange. I would go out on a dinner date, which I required them to pay for, then 99% I never saw again. Most wanted to give me an “allowance”, then control my day to day schedule, or they thought I was gonna be like a prostitute (power to those who are, you ROCK). I was not comfortable with any of that.

So one day, I was talking to this girl about it and she told me about “findom” and that she abused guys for money. A light bulb went off in my head and I google searched all the terms I heard her talk about. Surprisingly to me, this was all nothing new to me. I have been doing this to people for YEARS with a smile on my face. I thought I was just a shitty person, turned out there’s a whole community for queens like myself and we get paid to do it. So I made a Fetlife profile, then a twitter stage page and it went from there.

Misconceptions About Femdom

A misconception about femdom is that we wear leather and latex with six inch boots all the time. I will happily bust your balls in sweat pants, a sweat shirt, with no make up on. Costumes have nothing to do with a dominant mind.

Another misconception is that femdom is easy money and it is just handed to you. I spend hours answering pointless messages, dealing with the emotions of my clients, and editing my videos and stage pages. Any message I miss is potential money missed.

Favorite Domination Activities

My favorite things are findom, ball busting, and foot worship. Findom is money domination and I love taking what’s yours. That honestly fuels me. Ball busting is loads of fun! I make a guy give me some sort of tribute, then I kick and abuse his balls until I’m happy (:

Foot worship is self explanatory. Having someone on the floor worshipping my feet and the ground they walk on makes me feel like real royalty and I love that.

Characteristics Of A Good Sub

The characteristics of a good sub are:

Having A stable job 40k a year or more type of thing

How they approach, is it an inquiry or just a hey sexy

Proper Grammar

Tribute without asking

Not needy

Well dressed

Well mannered

No wife no kids

The rules for me is I do not tolerate broke, hesitation, needy, or creepy. You must have a stable job. Everything is my way or the highway. If you can’t show me your ID and aren’t okay with my security clearances, I have no use for you. You must give me 24 hours notice for any plans with me. And I won’t consider giving you the time of day until you’ve benefited me in some way first.

Why Do Subs Enjoy Humiliation?

Everyone is hardwired differently. Say how a man is sexually attracted to a woman’s body parts, some men are sexually attracted to being humiliated. The part I enjoy is that I get to be as mean and nasty as I am and make them do these things to make me laugh and then get thanked and paid for it.


Princess Lextacy – Professional princess from Cleveland, OH . It’s my way or the highway and you’ll do what I say with a smile on your face.

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Princess Lextacy

Professional princess from Cleveland, OH . It's my way or the highway and youll do what I say with a smile on your face

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