I think that sex is a great way to connect with others, and relieve tension. Sex is healthy, sex is fun, as long as you are responsible consenting adults! I believe in being free to express yourself in the bedroom. Communication and consent are key, then the fun can begin!
Why Being Non-Monogamous Appeals To Me
Personally, polyamory is not for me. For many, they like having more than one partner. Polyamory (many loves) is multiple full on relationships. For me, I prefer non-monogamy that includes only being sexually open. I like having a primary emotionally committed partner, with sexual openness.
We are loyal to one another, but play sexually with others. I am a very sexual person and traditional relationships do not meet my sexual needs. I also enjoy watching my partner pleasing and being pleased by others.
Misconceptions About Non-Monogamy
Typically people don’t understand the difference between cheating and non-monogamy. I prefer to specify that I practice “ethical” non monogamy. I like to emphasize that I do not condone cheating of any kind. I only practice and condone honest and open non-monogamy where all partners involved are aware.
What Constitutes Hotwifing & Cuckoldry?
I am one who gets off on watching my partner with others. Both of these are a type of voyeurism and that is a common fantasy. Cuckolding typically involves humiliation of the person’s partner while they have sex with another. Hotwifing is more the man wants to watch or simply know his partner is being pleased by another man.
Both of these involve a man with an unfaithful woman though he is turned on by this. I have yet to see much about a woman who likes to do this with her man. There is a term cuckqueening, though it does not seem to be popular in porn or talked about much.
Tip To Explore Non-Monogamous Relationships
Do your research. You can learn about other couples experiences online, or read books on non monoamy. There are meet up groups for polyamory or other non-monogamy types. I got my journey started in a polyamory meet up group. The most important thing is to do this for you. Both partners should enjoy it and there should be constant communication. You never know when jealousy can rear it’s ugly head.
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