My views towards dating vary, depending on what the people want as an outcome. Whether it is purely sex or if it is to develop a relationship, I do think dating should be easy going and fun. If it’s to develop a relationship, it’s always good to get to know each other, slowly, and try out things that each other likes, such as types of food and adventure!
How Men & Women Differ In Dating
I’m not sure that men and women differ in dating views, but more on a personal level. One person may have view a date possibly going further physically, while the other person has expectations of a date possibly turning into a relationship – if it goes well!
Unrealistic Dating Expectation Encounters
I have had dates with men who immediately began speaking of marriage, on the first date. I think that’s the most unrealistic expectation. I know that it has happened before, but usually it’s the best way of making sure there isn’t a second date.
I’ve encountered men who have demanded fidelity from me, not even on a first date, but within moments of meeting them. That is beyond unrealistic, that is insanity!
My Expectations Of A Date
I don’t believe in having expectations, other than being treated well. I expect to be treated with respect. If those expectations are not met, I have no interest!
Does Physical Attraction Matter?
Physical attraction is very important, but I’m the kind of person where a physical attractive person can become unattractive if they have an ugly personality and vice versa. I have found some men very attractive after getting to know them who I wouldn’t have otherwise looked twice at.
Generally, I do like certain physical aspects, I like dark hair, a smooth and hard, fit body, slightly taller than me, a sense of style, a sexy scent, intense eyes, but again, that is what physical attracts me, but it has to belong to an interesting guy with a great personality.
What Turns Me Off
I’ve had many bad dating experiences. Any sign of a guy turning into a stalker is a HUGE turn off for me. I’ve never experienced a guy not bringing his wallet on a date, but I’ve heard of it. That would be a huge turn off. Speaking of ex’s on the first few dates would be unacceptable. Poor hygiene or lack of effort would end the night short.
Coming on too strong would turn me off. I once went on a date with a guy to have a drink and shoot some pool. He wouldn’t take his eyes off of me and was sort of treating me like he was star struck. Later that evening he told me he loved me. I find that to be one of the creepiest experiences ever.
Kelli – I’ve been modeling most of my life and I love all genres, but I lean towards edgy glamour. I’m located in the Toronto area. I’m a huge animal lover and live with my dog and guinea pigs. I work as a sex advice columnist for Dark Side Magazine.
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