My views towards sex are positive; I love sex, I love giving and receiving in all aspects. I am adventurous and love trying new things, new toys, new positions and new experiences. I became a sex worker just under four years ago and from then on my eyes have been opened even wider to new things I would like to try and things I have tried and never thought I would like, but did. I view sex as almost an artform, a creative outlet to be yourself and enjoy every aspect of yourself.
I discovered masturbation at a young age and never looked back after that; after getting my first sex toy when I was 16 years old, I explored myself even deeper, realizing I needed to know what I like before I can show anyone else what I liked. Since then, I have always loved to give pleasure; the pure moan of a man or women is my biggest turn on.
Why I Love Using Toys During Sex
I love that you can always explore new things about yourself and partners; trying new sensations can be so erotic. I love that I can have multiple sensations on my nipples, clit and g-spot or on my partners’ testicles and penis. I love that you can explore any type of kink to any level; whether you would like to try handcuffs for the first time all the way up to using butt plugs to see if you would enjoy butt play, or nipple clamps to see if you enjoy the pressure on your nipples. The possibilities are endless!
Misconceptions About Sex Toys
A common misconception is it’s only for the woman. There are plenty of partners I’ve had who enjoy using toys, not only on me, but for themselves as well. There are so many things on the market for men and women that can be tried out.
A disadvantage I would say is if you don’t communicate how you’d like the toy used or even show your partner; that can really turn you off from using them together.
My Favorite Toys
I love using my WeVibe Tango bullet; it’s powerful and I can use it if I’m being come at from behind or missionary. I also enjoy the WeVibe itself because it vibrates on your g-spot and your clitoris while something can be inserted into you; so many sensations can be very pleasurable for myself.
Make It Entertaining For Men
I think showing them (who doesn’t love to watch once in a while!) about how you play with yourself and how you like this to make yourself cum. You can definitely bring it up also in a way explaining how much it will enhance your pleasure in your whole sexual encounter; and when you’re more into it, he’s more into it!
Do’s & Don’ts When Using Toys
Definitely COMMUNICATE: that doesn’t just go for toys but for all sexual acts. You really have to discuss with your partner what you want to get out of it and why you want to try certain things and make sure their open to it. But, it does go both ways and really discuss your fantasies when using toys. Communicate during using them as well, what feels good; a little to the left, any directions that can increase anyones’ pleasure is key.
Crystal Cain – My name is Crystal Cain; I am a young, blonde, bubbly companion currently hosting in Toronto, Ontario. I have been a sex worker for almost four years and have loved every day of it; I am a pansexual, sexual deviant and proud of it!
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