I believe sex is a very natural part of life, and every consenting adult should have the right to enjoy it. Sex is an emotional and physical experience that I honestly believe is connected to the soul. Sex is also not restricted to what we’ve been socially conditioned to think it is; it’s an everchanging state of being that varies from person to person. What you believe sex is could be the opposite to someone around you. Sex has the capability of being a pure spiritual experience that opens us up to a spectrum of emotions.
Preparing Myself Before Sex
Sometimes I must mentally prepare myself to have sex as it’s an incredibly vulnerable experience. Sex is an immersive experience, and if I’m not in the right mindset it can be hard to be present. Usually I just have to meditate and clear the thoughts from my head and focus on being in the moment.
Having An Enjoyable Sexual Experience
Sex has always been a hang-up of mine, as I very rarely had enjoyable sex, especially when first exploring my sexuality. I’m lucky enough now that I have pleasurable sex frequently, but sometimes it can be impossible for me to immerse myself in the experience. I’ve always found it difficult to orgasm and require a lot of stimulation before reaching that point.
How To Have Enjoyable Sex
It may sound incredibly ridiculous, but I meditate regularly. I’ve found that for me to have enjoyable sex, I have to slow my thoughts and get myself into a meditative state. I used to be shy when it came to anything sexual (even in the middle of sex) but I’ve since gained a lot of confidence in the bedroom. This led to me speaking up about what I wanted from sex, and being able to verbalise the things my partner could do to pleasure me. It shouldn’t be such a taboo to ask for things during an intimate relation, but sadly many women don’t feel comfortable speaking up about what gets them off.
Common Mistakes Men Make During Sex
In my experience, sexual partners can be selfish. Guys, spend time solely pleasuring your partner. Don’t make it all about you, and don’t assume they’re ready to go. It’s really hot when a guy asks sensually, “do you like that?” instead of not checking in. Pay close attention to the way our bodies move against yours. When do we moan? When do we press into you? When do we pull away? Be aware of physical cues and body language. The major mood killer for me is guys being too rough on my clitoris. If you think you’re being gentle, back it up by at least 100 per cent. The clitoris has thousands of nerve endings, and it can really hurt when you press into it.
Natalya Rosewood – Natalya is an Independent Escort from Brisbane, Australia. At 22-years-old, she is well-educated in arts and culture, and is currently attending university. Specialising in GFE, she is good-humoured and cheeky – the ultimate girl-next-door.
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