Sex is all about energy – the exchange of energy and the sharing of energy. Sexual energy is powerful and being able to share it with someone on the same wavelength as you is exhilarating and so connective. Mutual trust and respect makes sexual experiences so much more fulfilling and intimate. I love being able to connect with someone and help them explore their sexuality and feel more empowered.
Importance Of Kissing
Kissing is very important to me – especially when it comes to neck kissing, that makes me go weak at the knees! I find that kissing and touching is a lovely way to ease into sex and explore each other’s styles. Kissing during sex can heighten intimacy and connection, and I personally love it when I’m curled up in someone’s arms post-coital and relaxed.
Types Of Kisses I Love
Yes, there are definitely different types of kisses for different situations! Some kisses can be very gentle and tender, which are great for initial foreplay and also for post-coital cuddling. The powerful strong kisses also makes me swoon – they’re fabulous for when the action gets a little hotter or when there’s a little bit of power exchange going on. I also enjoy great makeout sessions in darkly-lit bars, they are such a fantastic tease!
Kissing Mistakes Men Make
Yes, I have had some bad experiences…one mistake men make is when they try to eat your entire face with their lips and use no tongue at all – I refer to it as ‘the hungry trout’!
Another mistake is when a man sticks his entire tongue in your mouth and tries to also lick your lips. Tongue kissing is very subtle and you need to get the perfect balance – too much and it’s sloppy, too little and it’s dry. The key to becoming a good kisser is to listen to your partner and take note of their likes. Kissing is so erotic and sexy when done well – it’s not a race!
Take your time and savour it!
Men, Remember Your Hygiene!
Absolutely. I would definitely say that it is hugely important to get regular dental check-ups to ensure healthy gums and breath, as well as brushing your teeth regularly and using mouthwash. A healthy mouth with fresh breath is so much sexier to kiss!
I would also say that it is very important for men to wash their hands thoroughly and scrub their fingernails before engaging with a lady, especially if they do a lot of manual labour. Clean hands are important!
Tash Murphy – Tash Murphy is a free-spirited pervert, blonde amazon, full-service sex worker and enthusiastic sex geek. She loves meeting and connecting with new people and learning more about human sexuality. She is an avid fan of game arcades, theatre, travel and eating cheese.
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