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Why Couples Should Choose An Escort For Their First Threesome

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Why Couples Should Choose An Escort For Their First Threesome

I find, personally, threesomes need to be carefully cultivated. You need to figure out you and your partner’s level of comfort – for example, do both of you have your eye on a particular friend? Is this a friendship you trust? Can you handle seeing that same person again afterwards? And on the flipside – would you both prefer a stranger? Are you willing to take that risk? How are you going to go about meeting her? Tinder? A bar? The club? A vacation? I would think there’s a lot more to discuss about a threesome prior to actually initiating it, less you wind up in a devastating blow-up from poor planning. A threesome should be a fun, erotic adventure for the two of you – and absolutely not something that could come back to haunt either of you. So essentially I think like with anything in life, they come at a risk – and a great payout.

Should Couples Try A Threesome At Least Once?

I wouldn’t actually say they had to. This may not sound interesting to some people. For some – a tangled mess of bodies, writhing, moaning, delighted with each other, is a dream. For others, flip it, and it’s a tangled mess  of bodies, rubbing the wrong things, getting in the way, sweating on their clean sheets. Nightmare. I think if it’s a scenario both couples want, they should try it… exploring your sexual side is always exciting. But if you don’t want it, don’t force the situation, it’ll just be hell on everyone involved. There are other fun things to explore, anyways.

Benefits Of Engaging An Escort

I think hiring an escort for your first threesome (especially if you intend to have many more than just one) is a great idea. These girls are professionals. They know what they’re doing, and they’re guaranteed comfortable and confident in their own bodies. There’s no elaborate seduction (unless you ask for that scene!) and everything can go to your plan. When you hire an escort, they are there to please you. There’s no intense romantic emotions tied in, no risk of day-after talks about unwanted feelings, and I stress the romantic emotions as of course your escort will be enjoying herself and very much into the two of you, just no worries about any disturbance afterwards or during. As well – an escort could offer many other things you want in a session, a specific outfit, a roleplay idea… etc, that you may feel uncomfortable asking a civilian girl you met at a bar. These types of encounters are carefully controlled, safe, and most important of all – very exciting.

How To Ensure Everyone Gets Equal Action

Ask. I always ask what someone wants to do. That’s the easiest way. If say, I’ve been with the girl too long and he’s been sitting there – you can easily say ‘Do you want to -do X thing- too?’, and bam, no more outsider. And you really just have to pay attention to both parties – make sure one isn’t just watching (unless they want to) and always try and pull them in. Just make sure hands are everywhere, all the time. Haha.

Rules & Etiquette To Follow

I couldn’t give you a direct list, but always listen to any restrictions (physical or otherwise) that either party has laid out in advance. You don’t want the threesome stopped because someone kissed or penetrated somewhere they shouldn’t have – what an uncomfortable, awkward experience. And as always, always use protection with someone new.


Daisy Mae – Ottawa-based independent escort. Currently busy re-creating Noah’s Ark, traveling, immersing myself in artistic endeavors, and sucking dick to a prestigious degree. Tacky romance novels are my secret sin.

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Daisy Mae

Ottawa-based independent escort. Currently busy re-creating Noah's Ark, traveling, immersing myself in artistic endeavors, and sucking dick to a prestigious degree. Tacky romance novels are my secret sin.

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