Sex Ed
Escort Etiquette Advice For Clients
Before I began working as an escort I was a certified Pillow Princess! I was too shy and self-conscious to take control in the bedroom. Sex was enjoyable for me but inherently intimidating, especially with someone I really liked or admired. But now? Sex is nothing short of liberating, an exhilarating adventure with every encounter!
There are the obvious reasons why sex can create instant intimacy for most… The sensation of touching one another… Syncing your gyrations to move as one… Exploring each other’s hidden carnal desires… The ecstasy fueled release in climax… But, in my opinion, the best part of sex is EXACTLY what used to intimidate me the most! It’s the connection that is created between you and the other person in that stolen moment. It’s the eye contact, the giggles, the moans, the voyeurism in watching one another climax. For me, it’s more than just touch and sensation that creates intimacy, and good sex is impossible without intimacy.
I love creating and partaking in those passionate moments. Escorting has helped me to overcome my insecurities and mental blocks to really enjoy sex without getting wrapped up in “doing it right.” Now I’m able to let go in the moment and venture with another to find that connection in tried and true, yet pleasurably unique ways every time.
Clients I Prefer Seeing
The only preferences I have regarding clients I am willing to see are that they must be hygienic and respectful. A cleanly shaven face (or well-groomed beard), FRESH breath, clean and trimmed fingernails, as well as a working knowledge of why one must never venture from front to back… are all vastly underrated and GREATLY appreciated qualities in clients. As far as being respectful goes there is not a punitive, demanding, or vindictive bone in my body. If you try to contact me and you are pushy, uncouth, start trying to negotiate donations, or avoid screening, I will simply disengage. I have never believed in doing anything that feels like a waste of time or energy. Therefore, I have no interest in arguing or begging, nor do I have the patience for either. No booking is that important to me.
How My Screening Process Works
I do not make appointments over the phone. Other providers might, and more power to them! But it has proven to be more of a hassle and a drain on my time and energy reserves trying to do so. Every call I receive, I respond with a text redirecting you to my website as soon as my schedule permits me to do so. Sometimes I will screen or take information via text, but I prefer to correspond via email (ExclusiveJourdanJames@Protonmail.com) or to receive meeting requests via the secure booking form on my website.
Importance Of Personal & Client Privacy
As of right now my privacy, health, and safety are all equally paramount and non-negotiable aspects of escorting for me. There are providers who show their full face in their ads and social media, but I don’t see that in my future any time soon. I have so much admiration and respect for career escorts, but that trajectory is not why I began escorting. I don’t think escorting should affect someone’s other personal and professional endeavors, but I can’t really control the sway of social stigma..
Right now I’m just hoping to use escorting as a stepping stone into the next chapter of my life. I have not been contacted by someone I know personally in a professional capacity and truthfully, I hope it never happens. I’d only be willing to share my legal name with a sponsor who is interested in entering into a formal arrangement. But that’s the type of dynamic that requires a substantial amount of mutual trust. That level of trust can only be fostered and proven with actions that betray each individual’s character over a significant amount of time.
Common Mistakes Clients Make
A guaranteed way to get blacklisted or ignored by me is to contact me and attempt to goad me into giving you a moment-by-moment breakdown of our prospective time together. I am a companion. I provide an experience. If you really are eager to meet me, then why not expedite the process by reading through my website and reviews before contacting me? If you are unsure about anything you’ve read I would be delighted to clarify any concerns you might have! But once you start throwing acronyms at me and pandering for a play-by-play, I move your information to the blocked list. If you read through my website most of the questions you could have will likely be acknowledged there. I don’t have the energy for time-wasters and I have no interest in incriminating myself.
Tips For First-Timer Clients
A lot of girls will refuse to see you unless you provide them with your legal name, regardless of any screening site or review board membership you might have. We don’t care who you’re married to or who your boss is, and I’m sure as hell not going to call anyone (though some providers do and that is their prerogative). We are just looking for some basic information to verify your identity for our safety. Historically, there have been a lot fewer providers who can behaviorally be likened to Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction and a lot more clients who can be likened to Christian Bale in American Psycho. Having “BulgingJohn6969” saved in our calendar doesn’t do much to lead the police to our body after we’ve lost in a race against you and your chainsaw, if you know what I mean.
I can promise you, I am just as anxious and eager to meet you as you are to meet me! So when you reach out to me, make it easier on both of us and help expedite the process. Fill out the booking form on a provider’s website as completely as possible and with as much information as possible. Better yet, contact a provider with a quick introduction and the date, time, and desired duration of your meeting (feel free to throw in a modest compliment if you’re feeling flirty!).
Follow that introduction with a link to your LinkedIn profile or work website and the websites and email addresses (or phone numbers) of 2 providers you’ve met with recently. Follow these instructions and you can contact me personally to complain if the lucky lady you’ve messaged isn’t concealing a raging river flowing with excitement and anticipation the moment she opens the door to meet you!
Jourdan James is Chicago’s premier executive companion. She’s eager to please, but I wouldn’t recommend asking her opinion if you don’t want to hear the truth! There’s nothing she enjoys more than creating a private world wherein you are the center of her universe. Her dry wit, effervescent personality, and effortlessly sensual demeanor will always leave you wanting more. Follow Jourdan on:
Website: Www.ExclusiveJourdanJames.net
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Jourdan James is Chicago’s premier executive companion. She’s eager to please, but I wouldn’t recommend asking her opinion if you don’t want to hear the truth! There’s nothing she enjoys more than creating a private world wherein you are the center of her universe. Her dry wit, effervescent personality, and effortlessly sensual demeanor will always leave you wanting more.