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Tips For Having A Threesome

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Tips For Having A Threesome

I’m a great fan of sex. Not only does sex feel good (which is great), but I also believe that people have an innate need for intimacy and physical contact. A lack of touch can make anyone feel depressed or anxious, and the right touch – like sex – can help both your physical and mental health. For me, sex is all about open communication and finding beauty in every person (and about exciting adventures of course)!

How My Interest Began & Why I Love Threesomes!

I have loved threesomes since I realized I was bisexual and fantasised about being with a man and a woman at the same time. I have been lucky enough to have had more than my share of threesomes (and more-than-three-somes!) with people of all genders in all combinations, and I have loved all of them.

I adore giving pleasure to people, and for me one of the great things about a threesome is the chance to pleasure more than one person at the same time! I also love making people’s fantasies come true, and thankfully I often get to do that by introducing people to threesomes.

One thing I love about threesomes is that sex with more people tends to be extra sensual – it is impossible to keep track of who is doing what, so at some point you just give in to sensations and stop thinking altogether. That is such a great experience!

Difference Between MFM & MFF Threesome

I don’t think there are specific differences between MFM and MFF threesomes, but I do think there is a massive difference between threesomes where everyone is into each other (so an MFM threesome where the men are bisexual or an MFF threesome where the women are bisexual) or a threesome where everyone is straight. I find that threesomes where everyone is straight often makes the pleasure of one person the central focus, and that can be an incredibly hot thing! I personally love being the centre of attention in a threesomes, but it is also great to lavish someone in all the attention and pleasure 4 hands and two mouths can give..

A threesome where everyone is into each other is often an enthusiastic mix of giving and receiving pleasure all around – with the added advantage of the occasional moment when your two partners are pleasuring each other and you get to watch the most sexy show of your life. So there is definitely an advantage to all types of threesomes.

My favourite type of threesome is an MFF threesome with a couple where the women wants to try being with another woman for the first time. It is such a special honour to be invited into an established relationship like that, and I adore seeing two people who love each other explore sexy adventures together. Plus, I love being a woman’s first Sapphic adventure – every woman who is bi-curious should get to try sex with another woman!

My Favorite Threesome Positions

I recommend going down on someone together – it is a unique sensation for the person who receives it, and it is very hot for the people performing oral sex. Another great sensation which you can only get in a threesome, is oral sex while you fuck. In an MFF threesome I would recommend one woman sitting on the man’s face while the other woman rides him. But of course in any threesome you can also go down on whoever is being fucked – this causes some of the most intense orgasms I have ever witnessed.

But my absolute favourite experience in threesomes is to go down on someone while being fucked (I recommend partner 1 to lie down on their back, partner 2 be on their hands and knees going down on them, and partner 3 to fuck partner 2 from behind, which gives everyone a fantastic view). I once had the pleasure of being in the middle of that and making both partners come at the same time – it was the hottest thing I have ever experienced!

Threesome Etiquette For An Enjoyable Time

I would always recommend having a chat together about expectations and boundaries. Like anything to do with sex, the first time is probably not going to be perfect, and good communication will help with that. It’s great to know what everyone involved is looking for, so find out if your partners would like something sensual, or kinky, or any other preferences they have. You will also want to talk about safer sex and condom use, and make sure to switch condoms between partners

For an established couple, a threesome can sometimes bring up feelings of jealousy or insecurity. It is important to know that this is very common, and I’d recommend talking about it both beforehand and afterwards. The best way to prevent jealousy is to pay equal amounts of attention to both your threesome partners, so neither of them feel left out. Another solution is to invite a professional to join your threesome, so you are sure you can have the best experience without the strings attached!


Anna Williams is a sex-educator and professional escort in London, UK. She specialises in threesomes, new experiences, and safer sex education. She believes strongly that natural beauty, communication, intelligence and feminine curves are sexy. She also believes that everyone should have the threesome of their dreams at least once in their lives!

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