Sex is something that connects us as humans. Whether you’re having it or not, it’s the foundation of our society and can be a very important tool for healing and therapy.
How Important Is Foreplay
Very important! Foreplay can be as simple as some words exchanged or just a look between partners, or it can be much more. I consider foreplay to be much more the main event then sexual intercourse itself.
Types Of Foreplay I Enjoy
And girls, let’s not assume someone is heterosexual here!
I actually prefer being the giver of foreplay than receiver, as I’m more of a people pleaser and get off on the enjoyment of others.
Kissing and oral are the most obvious ones, but are still my personal favourites.
Gentle and sensual touches along the skin is a wonderful way to arouse me as well!
Go Get That Orgasm
I very rarely orgasm during sex, which is why I feel foreplay is more important than actual sex, since the journey can be just as enjoyable then getting to the destination!
I usually like to get us both nice and aroused to the edge, and then have me finish them off with an whole body orgasm; watching someone cum from my doing is all the finish I need when I can easily masturbate at home to the thought of it later.
Mistakes During Foreplay To Avoid
Treating your vaginal lips the same way you would your mouth. You should not be doing the same thing with both, as both areas require different stimulation.
Start slow with your tongue, then pick up speed and pressure if they give you the signs to do so.
Do not start too rough or with too much finger, you’ll ruin the sensation!
Amber Rose – A self-proclaimed sexual deviant and cat lady extraordinare! Living in Montréal but touring Canada-wide, this feisty redhead loves pleasing others as much as she enjoys starting a commotion. Likes include cute animals, butts, facial hair, sleeping and carbs, dislikes include entitlement and pants.
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