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Fingering Tips To Make Her Orgasm

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Fingering Tips To Make Her Orgasm

Foreplay is everything in the bedroom and can be easily overlooked. Fingering done right can not only be used as foreplay but also to bring on the big O, leaving your lady in a sexed out haze. Below I’ll outline some handy hot tips and my own best bits of fingering fun!

How I Like To Be Fingered

When it comes to my personal preference of being fingered, it can change daily! When I’m feeling particularly naughty, rough and hard is my favorite straight out the gate. However, on most days I love starting out slower and building the suspense to boiling point, increasing with speed as I reach pure ecstasy.

My pussy can be a little particular! I am very vocal though and will always direct my guy to exactly where I love it. The sure fire motion to really hit that pleasure zone of the G-spot is the “come hither” motion. The g-spot is located only 3 inches give or take on the bladder side of the vaginal wall. It requires firm strokes to make that love button swell. Generally, 1-2 fingers are plenty, but I have been known to want to really stretch and feel filled by suggesting more than a few fingers! To get to this extreme point however, I need to be fully charged and feeling kinky as hell. Have I ever been fisted? No. Have I tried? Oh yes!

As a side note, I have witnessed fisting and been the “fister”. It is actually amazing and you can see the pleasure from it is overwhelming, thus my curiosity. Those out there who are kinky enough to try, start small, work your way up and use copious amounts of lubricant and don’t over-do it.

Favorite Position To Be Fingered

My all-time favorite fingering position is from behind. Wow. Ladies if you haven’t done it, please try! Standing or bending over is equally exciting. As an added bonus, you can easily stimulate your clit also with no obstacles. Win, win! I can come from this position in about half or less of the time taken than in a front facing position due to more pressure directly to my G-spot. I think it’s a mental thing for me too as I love doggy-style.

Signs I Am Reaching Orgasm

A guy will actually feel my squirt (yes, I’m a squiter!) building inside me. Also, my vagina will tighten to his fingers like a glove. If that isn’t a certain indicator, being the vocal lady I am, I am sure he will hear me multiple times repeating “Don’t stop, I’m going to cum”. Haha, I make it very easy to understand!

Other ladies will have different responses obviously as sexually we are all individuals. Our automatic pleasure responses however will help to indicate when she is getting close. Watch signs for heavier breathing, arching her back, toes curling and stretching, flushing of the chest and involuntary movements (twitching) would signal she is one happy chick! Keep doing what you’re doing and for the love of god, don’t stop at that point. She may just kick you.

A Memorable Kinky Fingering Experience

I really don’t have enough space for this question so I will add my most recent memorable fingering that I consider quite kinky.

I was travelling home on a long trip with a vibrator on my clit my client had just purchased for me the day before. We had separate cars and I called him through traffic panting and squirming trying to explain how much I adored my new gift and suggested he help me to climax with some dirty talk. He had a better idea. We pull over on a quiet street and he casually walks over to my window (I was so hot by this point) and taps on my window. I wind down and he reaches in with two fingers sliding into my very wet and willing pussy. Within moments I climax. It was a very memorable fingering. Although the drive home was a little soggy on the seat!

Things A Guy Should Never Do When Fingering

My personal pet hates when it comes to fingering that almost always ruin the moment are long fingernails and trying to fit more digits in too early without enough lube or warning (ouch!). Everyone has their own pet peeves, so just watch her bodies cues for what’s working and what isn’t.

Finally, anal fingering can be kinky and pleasurable, but be sure guys to lube up, go slow to begin with and definitely do not use the “come hither” motion anally. Wiggly fingers are only a pain in the ass, pun intended.


Scarlett Dreams – Known as one of Australia’s finest gentleman’s companions and vixen between the sheets. I’m a sexually empowered woman and encourage everyone to explore their highest potential for physical satisfaction. As a connoisseur of pleasures, I have an insatiable desire for sexual knowledge and experiences. Follow her at

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Scarlett Dreams

Known as one of Australia’s finest gentleman’s companions and vixen between the sheets. I’m a sexually empowered woman and encourage everyone to explore their highest potential for physical satisfaction. As a connoisseur of pleasures, I have an insatiable desire for sexual knowledge and experiences.

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