Most of what occurs during sex is in the mind, the anticipation of meeting a client can heighten the experience. I think open mindedness is a common attribute of many providers, more importantly, is living in the moment. Ticking off a list of sex tricks and positions is not nearly as sexy as connecting with a sexual partner. Having tried a range of sexual practices, the affairs I recall most are always those that are more natural, personal, intense and therefore erotically charged.
Expectations Of A Client
The laws are different in the UK but the screening process is vital, it’s impossible to feel sexy if I am nervous about the meeting. To lessen these nerves, the client should offer details of his essential personal information such as his name, full details of the location, with booking references. Many times, clients have naively asked to meet in a public space but for me this sets alarm bells ringing for many reasons. I have no guarantee he will arrive and there’s always the potential for mistaken identity. A client should always allow enough time and privacy to make a call to learn more about the provider. Regarding more intimate questions, if providers are being vague, it could be because they are concerned about falling foul of US laws. Be considerate and don’t push too much, you’ll get a clearer view of a provider’s service by reading reviews. I don’t add all my services in order to be tasteful.
Mistakes Clients Shouldn’t Make
The worst is saying hello and not introducing themselves. Or better yet, failing to take a note of the provider’s name, age, look details and donation. Asking these obvious questions again makes you look like a time waster. Once it is clear to me that a prospective client does not have the essential details correct, I tell them to go back to the site and read it again. Aside from that, I don’t want to talk about finances unless negotiating a longer date and time that could be better spent learning about each other.
Is Prior Experience Important?
I think the main difference is in how apprehensive the two sets of clients might behave. The screening process can seem invasive for new clients. The idea is not to cause offense but to first and foremost ensure my safety, only then can I unwind and be at my best.
On the other hand, newer clients do try to make more of an impression with the arrangements such as the restaurant and the choice of hotel. For that reason, a date with a more experienced client tends to get off to a smoother start, the focus being on the date proper rather than all the arrangements.
However, we all have to start somewhere, my favourite clients are in fact those who are not especially experienced, and actually very nervous during the first date. Over time, the nerves subside and I appreciate the attention.
Do’s & Don’ts During The Date
Just be yourself. If you don’t normally wear a suit and eat at five star restaurants, then don’t do it. You’ll come across as uptight and this can be sensed, possibly leading the provider to feel uncomfortable. Naturally it is important to make the right first impression and treat each other well. If you are arranging a longer date, find an activity that is unique rather than one that makes you uncomfortable. Some of the wonderful activities I have enjoyed with clients includes walking, horse riding and reflexology.
My name is Louise, I am a British provider based in London and available for international affairs with advanced notice. I am an English rose with rosy cheeks and a view on life to match. I continue to work in my professional career because I believe it helps to maintain an appealing balance between sex and brains. This also means I am selective about who I choose to date so you can rest assured I have a joyful attitude to the opposite of sex.
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