I personally like alternative lifestyles and think they can make life a lot more interesting. I have played around with alternative lifestyles myself and it makes for much more of a stronger relationship bond, I believe. As you are both involved in something bigger (and sort of secretive).
Characteristics Of Dom/sub relationships
Well, the characteristics of a Dom/sub relationship, to me, is something much more soft than I see most dominant/submissive relationships playout. When I was in a dominant/ submissive relationship, I saw it more as a protective person helping me out with my decisions, because I am into age play. Rather than me being a slave or my dominant being a master.
What Makes A Good Relationship
I think that a good Dom is someone that doesn’t take everything so seriously, but also understands how important his advice and guidance is to a sub. A sub is someone who can know her limits, but also be willing to submit to the guidance and nurturance of her Dom.
Common Kink Plays
The most common BDSM in a dom/sub relationship would probably just be tying up, spanking, handcuffing, whipping, pretty much a bunch of disciplinary acts in general.
Rules To Follow
I don’t think there are any rules to follow for anyone looking to try out a dom/sub relationship except maybe know your limits (both submissive and dominant) and know what you are doing. There are so many different sub-categories of dominant and submissive, it’s such a broad term and I don’t think people quite understand that yet. You have a lot of different options in the dominant and submissive world and that’s what makes it so cool!
My name is Ava Little and I am 21 years old from Charlotte, NC. I love to dance and have spent some time doing that. I have been in the adult industry for about 3 months now and so far I love it!
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