I grew up in a home where sex was never a big deal or taboo, and often openly discussed. Because of this I was in no hurry to jump right in. I didn’t start experimenting until my 20’s; I discovered pretty quickly that I was attracted sexually to both men and women. Though I had found love, I am also not a fan of monogamy. I can easily separate sex from love and emotions, and I enjoy both very much. When it comes to sex, I love experimenting and trying to find my limits, and helping others find theirs.
Her First Thoughts When Seeing A Penis
Honestly the thoughts in my head are not that sexy, no matter how turned on I am by someone when I see and have that dick in my hand for the first time, I am trying to quickly inspect for any signs of STD’s. I have a playful, fun and sexy way I go about doing the inspection without the guy even knowing. I use my hands to feel the penis for anything out of the norm, without putting my mouth on his cock, I tease it while I am visually inspecting him for abraded skin or sores, I look into his eyes with an evil grin on my face as he is anticipating the action. I do this with clients as well as civil men I am involved with, and it has become a habit like putting on a seat belt.
Is There An Ideal Penis?
The ideal penis is different for every girl and every act. I would say though, everyone likes a well trimmed and clean cock. The ideal for me for giving a blow job is longer and leaner. I like to gag, but I have a small mouth so a particularly thick one is hard (pun intended) to swallow.
For vaginal sex, medium length and girthy. Girth is the most desirable here as the pressure it puts on the pubis bone there feels really good and helps for climax.
For anal sex ,shorter and thinner and one that can stay really hard. Remaining hard is really important here as a limp dick can hurt when trying to enter the backdoor.
One Major Penis Turnoff
Smell and cleanliness are hand in hand and if not well kept, can be a mood killer. What you eat can affect the general smell of your skin and in the groin region it can be particularly strong. I do like hair on my men, but prefer it to be trimmed and the balls shaved.
Circumcised or Uncircumcised?
Every woman has her opinions and preferences on the uncircumcised penis, as a professional, an uncircumcised penis makes no difference as pleasuring me. This is all in the man’s court, does he keep it clean? They do require more maintenance than a circumcised one does. Now, I do remember being a little awkward trying to give a blow job to the first uncircumcised cock I saw and there was a learning curve in dealing with the excess skin (using the hands). Getting to the head so you can do your tongue magic tricks to make him moan. As long as the cock is hard and headed my way, I am a happy girl, extra skin or no.
Does Bareback Feel Better?
Sex without condoms does in fact feel better for the woman too. There is something to be said for skin to skin body heat contact when having sex. So let us get real here, we all agree on this subject but for casual sex or in my case professional sex, it just is not a smart idea to uncover for a few moments of pleasure.
Women bare the greater risk of infection than men do and can go longer undetected then men. I love sexual freedom, expressing myself in my sexuality, exploring myself, and I love having new sexual partners. But my health needs to be my top priority and here the risks just outweigh the momentary satisfaction. Saving something so intimate as bareback sex for a significant other is something we should all value.
Kirsten O’Donnell is the Irish Lass that your mother warned you about! Beyond my sultry appearance, you will find what really sets me apart from most companions in this industry is my witty and fun personality with a touch of sophistication. I have traveled and lived all over the world experiencing culture as it should be, in person. As a modern courtesan I pride myself in my ability to find passion in everything that I do. I am a die hard fan girl still obsessed with superheroes, science fiction and “Geek” culture in general.
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