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Sex Toy Tips For That Orgasmic Masturbation Experience

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Sex Toy Tips For That Orgasmic Masturbation Experience

Masturbating is a pastime that I happen to enjoy! It’s so exhilarating and has sometimes been my most intense form of orgasms! I understand that some people may be against it because they find it not natural and/or makes some people feel dirty and disgusting afterwards, but obviously they’re not doing it right! Lol! Ok touché, I feel dirty and disgusting afterwards, too, but in a naughty way! In a way that a naughty little nun would feel after giving a bbbj to a priest and letting him give her a pearl necklace! Catch my drift?!

Masturbation is healthy and can be very enjoyable when engaging with others. Yes, others! You do not always have to masturbate alone! Some couples masturbate in front of one another all the time! I used to masturbate on the phone, FaceTime, and sometimes Skype with one of my exes when we were at two different colleges! We enjoyed it so much that when we did see one another, we incorporated watching one another masturbate into our sex life! I also have some lovers that enjoy it, too!

My First Masturbation Experience!

I had seen the American erotic thriller, Single White Female, where Allie looked in on Hedy masturbating! That scene was SO HOTT to me! So at 15 years old, I played the tape and did exactly what Hedy did! Well I couldn’t see EXACTLY what her fingers did, but I had a pretty vivid imagination. I didn’t penetrate myself, but I rubbed and throbbed repeatedly! By the time the scene was over, I had reached my climax! I was still a virgin! This was the BEST feeling I had EVER felt!

What Makes Me Horny

Well I can assure you that answering these questions has definitely got me squeezing my legs together. ..

…but there’s nothing more enticing than an established, well-rounded lover that sets his power aside to tap into their sensual side and be passionate. I’m the type of girl that LOVES foreplay before the debauchery. I also love a great kisser! This usually lets me know a few things about what I’m in store for! Grab my neck, kiss me, and caress me at the same time. Place kisses all over my body while running fingertips around my curves. Get my juices flowing before trying to open me up!

Also, I’m such a fan of lurking around my lover’s neck! So a clean natural scent or sexy cologne will drive me wild and have me yearning unimaginably!

My Go To Sex Toy

I hope I don’t disappoint when I say that I am a fan of feeling what I’m doing! To elaborate, self-stimulation may involve fingers, sex toys, and sometimes whatever people can get their hands on. However, I prefer my fingers!! I love being able to feel all that deliciousness down between my legs! Why does my vibrator or other said sex toy get to feel and I don’t?! Granted, I’ve used them. However, my fingers are my preference for masturbating alone.

Choose Your Sex Toy Properly

I may not use them on myself often, however I’ve used them on both men and women and can definitely make some helpful suggestions!

  • Be Open-minded. There are all types of sex toys: dildos, nipple toys, vibrators, penis rings, etc. In order to find the right one, you have to consider what YOUR body likes, wants, and needs! So ask yourself some questions! To name a few: Do you want something that vibrates? Do you want something  that penetrates and massages the outer area simultaneously? Do you want something colorful or neutrally toned? Do you want something plastic or natural feeling?

 

  • Take size into consideration when it comes to penetration. So think about how often you masturbate… Ok most women I know like “meat pistols” that are 9+ inches in length with a good bit of girth. If you’re like me and masturbate often, would you want something that big going inside you constantly? I’d suggest getting something average sized that vibrates or get both! & If you absolutely have to have a big one to get the job done, then be sure to perform kegel/pelvic floor exercises!

 

  • Try not to get addicted, especially if in a relationship! Some partners tend to enjoy their partner’s excessive use of sex toys in the bedroom, while others often feel like they’re no longer satisfying you on their own. Some people can have big egos, so use sparingly or on your own time lol!

 

  • For beginners: Start experimenting! But start small. Most women are known to receive clitoral orgasms vs. vaginal, so I’d say a clitoral vibrator! Mia 2 Lipstick Vibrator is a great choice! Most of the people I’ve seen have given GREAT feedback!

 

  • Lube would be good! Some people may not think so, but this makes moments with sex toys so much more enjoyable. There are many different types. I would definitely experiment to see which one you prefer. I recommend something unscented and natural.

 

  • Don’t forget to CLEAN YOUR SEX TOYS! This should be done after EVERY use! Warm water and antibacterial soap will do just fine; and I would suggest you clean it as if it was attached to your own body!

Achieve That Multiple Orgasm You Have Always Wanted!

I can achieve as many orgasms as my lover(s) allow me to! My body can go as long as they can! The most orgasms I’ve had during one encounter was 17! It was a mixture of clitoral, vaginal, clitoral and vaginal simultaneously, and oral! Sometimes I can be a very naughty girl!

For me, there’s no secret to achieving multiple orgasms. If I’m being intimate with someone, then it’s because I WANT to not because I HAVE to. So I’m simply always present in the moment with a stimulated mind and high sex drive!


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Ava Moore

Ava is an elite Nigerian-mixed travel and dinner companion based out of Atlanta, Ga. She is available for any and every occasion for men, women, and couples. Culinary arts, travel, and spontaneous adventures are amongst the many things that she enjoys! She has been described as a subtle, yet lethally effective muse!

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