I have been married to my wife for 11 years and we do have an active sex life. However, recently, I find myself being only able to reach an orgasm if I fantasize about other girls. Can this be changed?
Yes you can revive your orgasm with your wife. This can be changed if that is what you truly desire.
It is a significant admonition that you and your wife’s sex life is active, let it be the starting point. For it is a good thing to be active with your lifetime partner; yet, perhaps the thrill has gone for a deeper reason.
You need to be honest and candid with yourself. Then make time that both of you may discuss about sex. Suggest doing exploratory sex activities.
For example, try some of the scenarios you fantasize about with other women. Telling her you fantasize about other women when having sex with her, is totally unnecessary. Obviously, you are not as present as you’d like to be during intimacy or sexual intercourse, which impedes orgasm.
Don’t be too hard on yourself.
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