After I got attached, I realized that our sex level/demands are too wide apart. I don’t want this to affect our relationship but it is not a long term solution to avoid it too. What can I do?
Communication is key in a relationship, so if you are needed more or less from your partner, you need to communicate that with them.
They aren’t going to know that you need something from them if you do not tell them. Compromise is also key, so if you need more sex than they are used to giving, ease them into it and they will get used to the newer routine and probably enjoy it.
You could also switch up sexual positions and spontaneity of when you two have sex and that should help you, so you do not feel like you are in a rut or feel too comfortable with their use of the same basic sex positions.
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