Every sexual encounter is different. There’s the guy you slept with that you wish you could delete from your memory bank. Everything about it was just wrong or just straight out icky for reasons that we don’t need to rehash. There’s also the one dude who was so boring in bed all you did was go through a list of chores you still needed to do after this chore was completed. Then there’s the one man you just rocked your world and made you feel like a sexual vixen, a sex aficionado, a pseudo-porn star. Here are 10 signs that show you’re having awesome sex just in case you were wondering:
- You’re completely uninhibited and free from any reservations. You are confident with yourself, in your own skin, and you own that body like Beyonce with a pure lack of any insecurity. You’re working that booty, happily bouncing your tits and having fun with it. You feel like the sexiest woman on earth while you’re in the throes of passion, having sex with the lights on with all your imperfections (stretch marks, cellulite, pouches be damned) in sight.
- You are open and willing to try new sexual positions. Reverse cowgirl? No problem! Saddle me up! Doggie style? Give me that bone! 69? Well, that’s my favorite number! Great sex means getting out of your comfort zone and losing up your inhibitions, not to mention how limber and bendy you get trying it all out.
- You’re vocal about what you want or don’t want in bed. “Eat me now!” is not an unheard of phrase from you while you’re in the sack and neither is, “You want to put what where!?”, but because you’re having mind-blowing sex you may be willing to let him. Just make sure you grab the lube.
- After sex, you text your friends with, “I’ve just had some bomb ass sex.” with a multitude of emoticons to fully convey just how good it was. You only wish you were ballsy enough to post it on social media (if only your parents weren’t your friends on Facebook), so the world would know you just got yours.
- When you’re having great sex, let’s fact it, you walk around with a smug, shit eating grin all day long because you’re night of passion keeps replaying in your mind in a loop. So when you see someone walking around with a shit eating grin that matches yours, feel free to give ‘em a high five and a wink.
- You’re lying in bed feeling horny, but instead of waiting for your horniness to subside you casually slip your hand down to your already moist nether region and masturbate using a vivid memory from your last ohh la la romp in the sack to pleasure yourself. It’s too hard to wait until the next time sexual encounter, so let’s daydream about the last time. It was that good.
- You’re sweating like you just took a spin class or ran a 5K. Instead, you skipped the gym that morning and took a good 40-minute spin around his penis. A sweaty aftermath means a good enthusiastic partnership in bed.
- You have a bird’s nest on your head. A hot passionate bout of sex normally means you’re left with a tangled mass of hair on your head from all the twisting, turning, shifting, and Cirque du Soleil acrobatics.
- Your tongue gets serious action, too, and not during fellatio. Instead when the sexual chemistry is high, then there’s a lot of passionate kissing involved because you can’t get enough of his taste and want to devour him whole.
- The orgasm no longer becomes the primary goal of every sexual encounter. Gasp! Stop the presses! Some may find this difficult to believe, but the bonding and intimacy with your partner is enough to make you feel complete afterwards even sans an earth shattering orgasm. Your aura will emit the I-just-had-awesome-sex illuminating glow that every woman wishes to achieve.
If you can relate to any, or all, the signs highlighted above, then this simply means the chemistry is high, the compatibility is unparalleled, and Wednesday isn’t the only hump day in your week. Enjoy this rare find because not everyone is out there having the kind of sex you are. Chances are you had to go through some major duds to finally find the firecracker you needed to ignite the sexual goddess within you. Keep it up ladies (and gents) and happy sexing!
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