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Anal sex is probably the most taboo sex act of all. Often feared, most of the time misunderstood, it remains a rather uncommon practice, although it can lead to great pleasures.

It usually takes a while before a couple even starts talking about sodomy. Most of the time, the topic is opened by guys rather than girls. Why? Because they watch more porn than us and they see it often there, and also because it is naturally tighter than our vagina, thus making it more pleasurable for them. Girls usually agree to it either to please their partner (or on a special occasion), or as a token to bargain something else (often as a way to trade sodomy for cunnilingus, or a nice gift).

Unless you have friends in the gay community, very little is known about anal sex. The first time that I had it was a horrible experience, because my partner was absolutely not knowledgeable about it and he just rammed into it like he would have done with my pussy, which is totally wrong. After this first painful experience, I decided to take things in hands and to become an expert in the subject, putting in practice the knowledge I gathered here and there, and eventually writing a sex guide about anal sex “Anal Sex Tips for Guys and Girls”, available on Amazon and other major bookstores).  3D-Anal sex tips

Recently, a close friend opened the subject to me, as her partner was pressing her to try it. She had very interesting questions, so I decided to share them with you guys (and girls) and hope that it will help you better understand anal penetration.

Question 1. Is it painful?

Angelicka: The first time, it was hell. My partner was very big, and he had no experience about sex in the butt. The other thing was my lack of relaxation. You really need to relax, breathe deeply, and slightly push as if you wanted to poo. You should prepare yourself first, and there are quite a few tips that can really help you making it a pleasant experience, even for the first timers. Don’t hesitate to use sex toys to prepare your orifice as well.

Question 2. Why did you do it in the first place?

Angelicka: I wanted to try because some of my girlfriends tried it before and loved it. It is also a way to get thrilled by doing something taboo and forbidden. Plus it makes me feel really dominated and at the mercy of my partner, which is extremely exciting.

Question 3. Who talked about it first? You or your partner?

Angelicka: Him. But I was very willing to try it and it kind of relieved me when he talked about it; I just didn’t want to sound like a dirty lil’ slut, if you see what I mean.  But also to be sure that if I didn’t want it, it wouldn’t have happened, no matter how pushy men can be.

Question 4. The first time you tried, how did it feel?

Angelicka: Painful. First of all, his cock feels much bigger back there. The first part was kind of OK, when he inserted the head of his dick; there was some resistance first due to the fact I was not relaxed, but then I breathed and the head went in, as if my ass just gobbled it. I felt really filled but I must admit it was pleasant. I thought that was it, but he kept pushing it in, a bit too fast to my taste. Then there is a second muscle inside the anus, and this is where I felt pain. I wasn’t ready and not only it hurt, but i really felt like i was going to make a poo. His cock inside had exactly the same feeling. I had to tell him to stop and tried to breathe deeper, but couldn’t take it. We had to try a few times more before he could put it all in, and then it was kind of just OK.

Question 5. So after your first experience, did it keep on feeling the same?

Angelicka: As I started learning more and more about anal sex, the feeling drastically improved. It is not natural, so it takes a bit of learning and adjustment, but once you got it, it can be really delightful, and it is opening new sensations that you wouldn’t get through vaginal sex.

Question 6. How good can it feel?

Angelicka: Some love it, others just find it hardly bearable. It takes time and patience to learn about sodomy and enjoy it. It also depends on how big your partner is! As far as I am concerned, I just love it.

Read on to find out if you should go anal on the first date and the one thing you must do before going in!

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Angelicka Wallows

Angelicka S. Wallows is a young, mysterious, and posh chic girl who likes to have good time and to live life to the max. She enjoys the outdoors, has a huge secret collection of sex toys, and loves to spread her wings and discover new horizons! She loves letting her hair down and to feel the breeze caressing her bare skin. She holds a Master in Business Administration but that doesn’t mean that she is all books!

Angelicka has a double life. She runs a hand-full of her dad’s company during daytime and manage multi-million dollar deals on a day to day basis, flying from a country to another to attend to general meetings at the different boards of their companies. At nights, she slips in her most erotic lingerie and forgets her busy day by indulging in her passion: erotica and sexy stories.

Obviously her rich family doesn’t know about it, and she definitely wants things to stay that way. They are very conservative, and she doesn’t want her dad’s competitor to use her passion to create a scandal and harm her family’s business. For that reason you will never see her full face, but she will always show you the most of herself as she possibly can! This little restriction inspired the title of this website: My Pouty Lips. she is often told that she has very sensual and sexy lips (among other things), and at least she can safely share them with you!

Angelicka has a very full sex life. She is aware that we live only once and has decided to explore the most she can in order to know what she talking about. So don’t be shocked if you see her talking openly about anal sex, threesome, BDSM or any other kinky stuff. If she writes it, she tried it! She is also opened to suggestions should you want to read about specific topics. You will just have to leave her enough time to explore it first!



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