“Hi Natasha, I read your article and really love it. I’ve been trying to apply that to my own love life but am getting frustrated with my boyfriend. To him sex is done the moment he cums and this leaves me feeling frustrated”. – Aida
Thank you for writing to me. First, I want to tell you that you are not alone with your problem. Many men are the way you describe your boyfriend. The good news is that there are ways to make it better for you.
One way, the one I prefer is to use foreplay. Women in general do not reach their orgasm as fast as a man, most of us take quite a long time, and by using a lot of foreplay where your man touches you and kisses you is a way for you to come closer to your own orgasm, and not only that, it can prevent him from cuming too fast, if you don’t touch him.
Another way which can be useful is for you to be on top, that way you control the rhythm and can clearly see him and know when he is on his way to climax. If he does, you simply stop what you are doing and let him calm down.
Take care and happy love making.
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